What does "actualizing approaching" mean?
In the local coffee shops... I'm only currently interesting in friending people. Going to up the entertainment level as I interact with them. Honestly, the girls there are only around 6's... Except for one who is too young. I cannot wait to get back to the city and out of this small town!
My goal is to get them to the point they know me enough to tell a cute friend of their like "There is this hot guy who comes into the coffee shop on Saturdays you should meet!"
Most of the girls I have went out with were setups from friends. My closest friends have generally been girls.
I probably am a little over-reliant upon using my social connections to get girls! But, it's so easy to just have a friend set you up with some girl. Hell... I had this guy friend of mine in college set me up with girls I already knew were attracted to me, LoL...