this is really to help guys with why building an image of your perfect girl is bad, it may come off as bragging as its partly a lay report but it isnt when i get to the punchline.

yesterday i met up with a girl id known for a while but never laid, this girl does porn (im not naming her as shes known). we got chatting and she asked have you ever wanted fuck a porn star so obviously i was like yeah because at that point i thought she was a 10. so i went to her place we started making out then we starting going down on each other. anyways we start having sex yeah i have to admit it was really good that was until she suggested doggy. then from this position i see she has backne and i dont mean one spot i mean a lot. straight from there her points just went down so things started going down i made her cum from doggy she got on to of me, i had to get her back into missionary then started kissing again under the chin, again more acne. in the end i couldnt cum, it took me nearly 2 hours to cum, the way i did it was simple i had to make sure i wasnt looking at her when i shot my load. she tried giving me a hand job deep throat and a blow job trying to get me to cum and i just couldnt. in the end i said i was trying to impress her.

theres a point to me telling you this, in my mind i had made her a 10 and i mean a 10 but afterwards no she aint a 10 being. would i see her again who knows i cant say. she is a really cool girl. the girl that you consider to be your perfect 10 the one you wont approach when you go out is she perfect honestly no, its not the girl you want its the image of that girl that you want, the one with perfect skin perfect hair perfect tits and perfect. everyone has flaws. how this affects approach anxiety is when you see the girl as perfect it becomes the issue of 'why would she want me? she perfect im not' when you realise your perfect princess isnt so perfect then you realise its not so much of a big deal

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