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Author:	novicebeginner [ Sat Jan 17, 2015 3:21 pm ]
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Hi there guys. I am very new and just starting out. My problem is that i dont have access to girls at the moment for some years . I like to use this time to get work on inner game first. I am in sales so i do have access to males but to be honest i have massive fear of people too. but i am clever at disguisng it so it works. my life didnt work out because i didnt tried and didnt know what i want till now. i need advice.

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Sat Jan 17, 2015 4:05 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: sorry to bother you but
Quote: Hi there guys. I am very new and just starting out. My problem is that i dont have access to girls at the moment for some years . I like to use this time to get work on inner game first. I am in sales so i do have access to males but to be honest i have massive fear of people too. but i am clever at disguisng it so it works. my life didnt work out because i didnt tried and didnt know what i want till now. i need advice. Hello and welcome to the forum! We all started somewhere. This is a great place to learn, too. Can you tell us why you have no access to females at the moment? Like... none? That's a little strange unless you're in an all-boys school or prison, isn't it? (and you're not as you said you're in sales) Regardless, it sounds like approach anxiety is what you need to work on taming first... and that's not uncommon. Search for it here on the forum and youtube some videos on how to beat approach anxiety. You can start here: overcoming-approach-anxiety-vt1672.html

Author:	novicebeginner [ Mon Jan 19, 2015 3:15 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: sorry to bother you but
its not common here well why lie people do gaming but i am to afraid of rejection and is even questioning my existence that i dont think i can take a rejection . i never talked to a girl not because i dont want to but because i think to much what other people think. these years have bring me one thing i now think i need to change and life is a gift i need to avail. i am a good learner thats one thing i am naturally gifted at.

Author:	Papagiorgio [ Mon Jan 19, 2015 10:27 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: sorry to bother you but
back in the day that kind of opener was afc -- times have changed

Author:	Biebo [ Wed Jan 28, 2015 11:04 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: sorry to bother you but
Sup, I've been in your position before, just believe you can and focus on your goal and work towards it. Know its possible theirs definatly people who were alot worse off than you and became very succesfull trust me. maybe you should checkout some role models This dude inspired me alot and still inspires me: RSDTyler (check him out on youtube) (he has a whole youtube channel full of videos about pick up and just getting out of your comfort zone etc etc etc, he was at one time a depressed fuck and akward dude look where he is at now) Also do some productive stuff, Start reading self help books: Tony Robbins awaken the giant within (must read) David Deida: the power of a real man (Must read)... Check out meditation aswell. It helped me a fuck load, especially on not caring what other people think about me. Good luck bro, If you have any questions just shoot

Author:	Rebooting [ Fri Feb 13, 2015 5:56 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: sorry to bother you but
Quote: Hi there guys. I am very new and just starting out. My problem is that i dont have access to girls at the moment for some years . I like to use this time to get work on inner game first. I am in sales so i do have access to males but to be honest i have massive fear of people too. but i am clever at disguisng it so it works. my life didnt work out because i didnt tried and didnt know what i want till now. i need advice. Huh? What does that mean, that you don't have access to girls? Are you like a drugs salesman in prison, or what? Please explain, I am genuinely interested into this. Either way, yes, if you are socially inept, it might be wise to resocialize yourself before attempting to play too hard. So it seems like you are on the right track. One tip I would give you tho: Stop distinguishing so much between males and females. If there is no distinction, you will not be gaming girls. If you are not gaming girls, what other people think does not matter and rejection is impossible. If I was you, I would spend some months getting comfortable around people (again, like you are planning to, but if possible not making this distinction between genders and/or getting out of your jail/gulag/Russian homosexual deporting island) and reassess the situation and your objectives once you feel more "normal" again. As in for the methods to do so: Again, knowing a bit more about your personal situation would probably help.

Author:	xox117 [ Wed Feb 18, 2015 7:08 am ]
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Quote: Hi there guys. I am very new and just starting out. My problem is that i dont have access to girls at the moment for some years . I like to use this time to get work on inner game first. I am in sales so i do have access to males but to be honest i have massive fear of people too. but i am clever at disguisng it so it works. my life didnt work out because i didnt tried and didnt know what i want till now. i need advice. You can go to clubs, maybe go onto online chats to figure youself out. Get to know how you are, what type of girls you want, etc. Personally, I'd say join like a dance class or an art class: something where you can be with a ton of girls with little competition. Just find yourself and take steps to go from a "private victory" to a "public victory".

Author:	ex-pua-bruno [ Wed Apr 06, 2016 1:20 pm ]
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Quote: Hi there guys. I am very new and just starting out. My problem is that i dont have access to girls at the moment for some years . I like to use this time to get work on inner game first. I am in sales so i do have access to males but to be honest i have massive fear of people too. but i am clever at disguisng it so it works. my life didnt work out because i didnt tried and didnt know what i want till now. i need advice. Hey man! The best piece of advice that I can give you is all about seriously investing some time and efforts in pinpointing what your true passions are, because without knowing what you truly love and enjoy you'll constantly be insecure and unhappy no matter what you try to do. Based on what I've learned from your post, you seem to be missing that necessary peace of mind and clarity as to what your true purpose on earth is and what you really want to make out of your life. Since I've been lately busy answering a lot of guys' questions similar to yours, I wouldn't like continuously repeating myself by just copying and pasting the same kind of answer that I've already published as my reply to a number of posts on these forums. Hence I'll now ask you to click on the link of the post titled how do i find inner peace with myself and my surroundings if you want to learn where your problem is coming from and what to do about it. Take care. Bruno

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