YOU F***ER! You’re laaaate *u* (Task 24 Launch & Complete)

So I knew that today might consist of a long day of work (though it didn’t) and that I would’ve been really tired by today (haven’t been sleeping well), so I chose to set a task as quickly as possible that could be completed anywhere. I would eventually choose to develop, for this task, the skill of touch (though not in a weird way or anything–just the simple task of enhancing the conversation with a physical, connecting gesture)

So, it turns out that I’m incredibly comfortable with the art of conversing with just about anyone (or at least starting the conversation). I’m a fucking reliable spark plug when it comes to that shit. But when it comes to anything other than being the reliable start plug (i.e. being the whole freaking car where the tires meet the pavement), then there’s some issues. In other words, I’m outstanding at starting everything that needs to be started (AND finishing it), but the car DOES need some fine tuning–and this fine tuning is throwing a wrench at the skill of touch–which I’ve neglected for a while.

In short, the skill of touch was to be developed by an MTO goal, which was:

• Minimum: 2 female physical connects (Ding!)
  Target: 5 female physical connects (Ding!)
  Outrageous: 10 female physical connects (6)

I wanted to obliterate this stupid thing where physically interacting with women was this big deal, because (besides maybe sex) general, everyday touch is just another form of enhancing communication, and it is stupid not to be able to express that as one of the oldest forms of expressing feeling and thought.

It’ll probably be weird if anyone ever finds this from where I work–but who cares. This is me and what I do: I develop and grow and evolve (this just happened to be part of the process).And whether it’s weird or not for anyone from work, whoever might read this, it’s a part of the growth and evolution of self… AND everyone at work so far has liked the change (It seems that most of the people so far have been seriously lacking in the physical touch department… they’re starved for non-pervy, solid physical connection!)

Anyway, that’s it for today. Today was posted about thirty minutes after midnight because I chose to conk out at 5pm from a 20-minute nap for seven hours. This seven hours of rest was sorely needed though–and I would’ve slept longer if I wouldn’t have jolted awake to tell you this

By the way, I’m using an hour’s grace period for today’s post, lol. This grace period is totally worth it, because today and this week have just been developing in awesomeness all the time.

Now, I really need to pee, so I’m signing off here! Look forward to conversing with you tomorrow, bro! You’re an awesome friend!

Your Friend,

Aaron

Calibrate, Don’t Masturbate! (Give The Gift Of Touch Instead + Task 25 Launch!)

(Update: So, to my current knowledge these three tasks have been changed majorly in the past:

• Walking through the ghetto at night (BS Reason: Police officer warned of danger)
  Taking a photo of a girl making out with me (BS Reason: Ostracized at Fourth Coast)
  Calibrating and touching (BS Reason: My sister-in-law has my car for work)

So, I’m going to schedule these in for this month (well, maybe not the ghetto one) so as to feel that “sense of completion.” But after I schedule these, you’ll be getting a task that’s very crucial and dear to me:

“Giving one of my friends one of my favorite books that I’ve had for almost a year now.”

And what is that book, you ask? That book that I shall give to him tonight at Hooters is a book you may know very well. That book is called The Game.

The reason I’m giving my good ole pal this book is because he has been wandering through his entire school career wondering why the fuck I did some of the things I did. Another reason I’m giving my good ole pal this book is because he keeps on demonstrating to me signs of lack and pain in his life that could be easily cured with a little bit of a social workout.

But, regardless of the reason, I really feel an emotional attachment to this book, because this book has kept me company in some of the darkest times in my life (much like The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People did for me). And it’s because of this emotional attachment that I REALLY need to give it away (it’s something that scares me).

So, when I hang out with my friends tonight at Hooters, I look forward to providing my friend with this book, because it’ll change his life like I’ve seen it change many others.

Look forward to conversing with you tomorrow, because I probably won’t get the chance to update this tonight (even though I really want to). Look forward to talking with you soon

Your Bro

Aaron)

So, it really took me a bit to determine today’s challenge, but I’ve determined that two things need to be improved: “Calibration” and Touching. There are a few mental discomfort-based things to work on, too (like coding, meditating, and studying in general), but calibration and touching are two things that really need to be worked on above all else at the moment.

So, for today’s challenge, I will focus on calibration as well as touching. More specifically, I will:

• Guess the answers to Neil Strauss’s calibration questions (from The Annihilation Method), which talks about her personality type, whether she’s a younger sibling or older, whether she’s sexually reserved or open, etc. & verify them for (Minimum) one women tonight; (Target) Four different women tonight; or (Outrageous) Six different women tonight
  Touch (anywhere): (Min) One time; (Target) Four Times; (Outrageous) Seven Times

These two challenges have been known to revolutionize the relationships of all who have done them. Why? Because people who have done these two challenges realize the value of talking and behaving in terms of what other people value most: which is themselves

I’ll complete this and get back to you by 2:00am tonight–or earlier!

Look forward to conversing with you then

Your Homie,

Aaron Bell

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“Empathy” by Evan Sanders (The Better Man Project)

How To Save $30 Fast By SPAM Your Favorite Book–Guaranteed (Task 25 Complete!)

Today, I have given away one of my favorite books in the whole Universe–The Game. This book that I gave away has dramatically impacted my life because it demonstrated to me everything that was possible, is possible, and will be possible in the world of sex and seduction. Now, by giving this power–this secret knowledge–to a friend that has been around me ever since my sophomore year in high school (earlier, if you count random ass encounters from elementary and middle school), I empower the world to experience another powerful being whose time has come.

The only thing about this, though, is that I had also given away a Financial Peace University (Dave Ramsey) to my bus driver from high school. This Financial Peace University personal learning course has taught me more about money than 98% of the population will ever REALLY know–and by giving it to my bus driver (because I had already “consumed” it), I had lost the ability to really re-experience it and relearn it over and over again (where it will then sink into my Unconscious Mind for me to automatically apply).

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STOP. I made a mistake and this needs to stop. There was another friend of mine with me this whole time who I really needed to give this to, but I DIDN’T–which is why I need to STOP some of my cashflow and STOP some of his wussy behavior before anything else continues…

On with the event!

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But, karma has had its way with me–in a way that I enjoyed. Because karma has accepted my contributions to this world in service, time, and money in many, many shapes and forms, and these contributions are only compounding in karmic force. So, because this karma has accepted my many contributions, I have benefited massively in terms of wealth and money, i.e.:

• I live in my own house basically (I own the lower part of a rather large estate with my brother), which has
  • A dart board
    Plenty of quality furniture
    A more comfy bed than what I used to sleep in
    An open area outside where I can essnetially do what I want
    A punching bag
    A printer
    An ironing board
    And left over candles! (Cinnamon)
  My first job was at a place based on sex appeal (awesome)
  My ability to read and soak in information has grown exponentially
  My ability to speak and understand Spanish grows exponentially every day

And much, much more beyond what my tired gray matter can suggest for you at the moment. In the end, my gray matter just wants to tell you that the karmic energy unleashed from contributing that book was like unleashing the energy contained between the particles–much like in the way that nuclear energy sets off for a nuclear explosion.

Let me know if this enhances your model of the world, because this world grows in happiness, prosperity, and best of all for some people, peace, whenever they grasp the concepts that I share semi-daily.

Converse later today?

Your Friend,

Aaron

Double (Triple?) Your Reading Speed Now By Doing This Challenge (Task 26 Launch!)

(Edit: Technically, I already did something that scared me today while running The Hour of Power today through Kalamazoo. At a point during the run, I did an apparently embarrassing ”shake it out” routine at a busy intersection. Also, while running, there was a point where I fist pumped and cheered to the highway as I crossed the bridge above it. Both of these things intimidated me a bit during this run, so we could definitely stop there, BUT Photoreading can become really helpful at the moment–so let’s still do that )

In addition to the meditation and the DBEWUR we’ll have me do today, a session of Photoreading is in order because it’s been something that I’ve been avoiding hardcore as of late. And the reason that we’ll do Photoreading today instead of something public and ignominous is because my sister-in-law again uses my car for work today.

Anyway, here’s the challenge (Any step of the Photoreading process counts for Photoreading):

• (M) Photoread–flip page and write–for 30 Minutes
  (T) Photoread–flip page and write–for 60 Minutes
  (O) Photoread–flip page and write–for 90 Minutes

By doing the meditation, DBEWUR, and Photoreading, today will sufficiently fill the “Focus Tank” for achieving the goals and outcomes that I have in mind

Converse later tonight, friend?

Your Friend,

Aaron

Triple Your Reading Speed Within 48 Hours Or Less–Guaranteed (Task 26 Completed!)

Before you completely read this post now, I recommend that you read Steve Pavlina–a world-renowned expert on personal development’s–review on Photoreading, because it may set a better context for this whole challenge.

Great! Now that you’ve read that stellar review by Steve Pavlina (the very same review that inspired me to engage fully in the Photoreading Whole Mind-Body Reading Process), we can share a reference that will better suit the purpose of this post: Building our relationships AND inspiring you to become a better intellect.

To become a better intellect myself tonight, I chose to Photoread the books, WWGD and The Mating Mind for the purposes of “better absorbing the Google philosophy” and “becoming a higher status male” respectively, To Photoread these books, I chose to prepare by establishing what success was for the session as well as listing a series of a trigger words–key words that exemplify what the text is about.

After the five minutes of preparation expired, I then chose to flip through the text and activate the materai by asking questions relevant to me about the material (see the image below). After asking the questions for eleven minutes, I began to prioritize the questions in order of “most value-enhancing to least value-enhancing,” where I would then transfer the questions to audio by recording myself asking the questions via Audacity. After recording the questions, I would then play each question on loop as I made a mind map from the questions priority number–letting my Unconscious Mind-Body respond to the looping questions until the twenty-minute timer expired.

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Then, for five minutes, I just chilled and grabbed some coffee as I put away the dirty dishes lying around in my office. When I came back after these five minutes, I realized how very much I had gained from a simple thirty minute session; just look at these notes below:

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There’s so much to be gained from the heaps of text that surround us every day that it astounds me how little we exploit it. The books are starving for us to read them, yet most of us believe–deep down–that it’s “too difficult” or “too lame” to read, when it is literally the coolest and possibly easiest thing you can do for yourself.

You just need to learn HOW to do it (your WHY is already there).

If you’re interested in learning how to chop down your daily reading from 10 hours to 2 hours (assuming you’re in college), then check out this review and see if it’s right for you. It’s pretty easy to afford because you’re literally saving 8 hours of the next 10 reading hours that you would’ve done, which is saving you $64 an hour MINIMUM–and I’m willing to bet money that you–or at least most of the readers on here–work for more than minimum wage, so it’s probably more.

And that money saved (in man hours) doesn’t even include the level of enjoyment that you’ll get from reading now, nor does it include the feelings you’ll feel when friends look at you open-mouthed when you can read a book in a third of the time that they can. Is all this not worth?

If you’re curious about the cost, you can register for the seminar at the pleasure of spending $750 for USA and Canada. If you’re interested in studying at home, too, the Deluxe Photoreading Self-Study Course is a high-ish $530.00 investment, but the Main Photoreading Self-Study Course is a more affordable investment of $245.00 (54% of the investment than the deluxe). If you’re scrounging for dough, though, the most basic form of learning can be found through the book, which’ll set you back a minor $16.95.

Overall, this is one of the programs that more positively affected my life than anything else. The only programs that I can think of that top this are by Tony Robbins (any of his programs). The reason that this is so empowering (next to Tony Robbins’s material) is because it has transformed the way that I learn… and because it has helped to alter my behavior directly when I read books on attraction and seduction (I usually get at least three times as much eye contact the day after a Photoreading session of one of those books).

By the way, I am not paid in any way by Learning Strategies Corporation for this review and challenge, this is just a way of saying thank you to them for transforming my life by supercharging my passion for reading and learning–the world has been at my fingertips for two (three?) years now, thanks to Paul Scheele’s course.

(Not to mention that I’ve saved at least $150 by being able to read the book that I wanted to read IN the Barnes & Noble store, lol!

Converse tomorrow, bro? You know I appreciate your company

Let me know if this helps!

Your Homie,

Aaron Bell

(Number of Deep Breaths Taken During This Post

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How To Shoot A 3-Pointer Properly With Ease Every Time–Guaranteed (A Dating Metaphor! Task 27 Launch!)

“Fundamentals must be practiced daily.” ~ Tony Robbins, just before talking about how this coach brought his team to six championships by getting his kids–who could make a shot from just about anywhere–to shoot 500 shots from right next to the rim every day so that he would make the shot in the key clutch moments (i.e. in the game winning shot).

I did a touching challenge a while back in order to develop a certain level of comfort with touching women. As much as I feel comfortable around them, it’s essential that I bridge the gap between conversation and mental imagery to the physical and concrete: The actions.

People are starved for a physical connections–and by doing this simple exercise, we’re one step closer to making the world a better place (esp. because I know that I could’ve used a little bit more physical connection when growing up).

So, for today, we’re going to do an exercise similar to last time’s. I actually wanted to do this a couple days for Task 25 when my sister-in-law took the car; however, that task has now been converted to today’s MTO goal. Even though we brought up calibration with this exercise we can choose to do that later, because I want to see how well the touching goes without needing to focus on calibration (i.e. let’s lock in the physical connection habit before spreading too thin to something else). Here’s the MTO challenge:

• (M) Two physical connections
  (T) Six physical connections
  (O) Fifteen physical connections

I’m working this puppy today like a b**** haha. As I work this puppy, just know that I love you bro, because your readership always inspires me to set a new standard and make life just a little better for myself and those around me

Converse later today?

Your Homie

Aaron Bell

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Upcoming Challenges:

• Calibration
  Hyper, Long-term Focus On “12 Star Mentors” Goal

Though Sex Is Great, Physical Touch Is Better: Task 27 Completed!

Though I didn’t really sleep last night and my work today could’ve been better, I definitely made the five physical connections today that–to all else (and even me)–were just a normal part of life. This normal part of life, though, was something that multiplied to quality of the conversation for both of us by at least 160%, if only because a new “modality” or sense or feeling was involved.

So, yeah, a middle ground was reached between the Minimum and Target goals today, and I’m really happy with the results. These results have shown me that physical touch–to most men–has been warped way out of control by media and pornography because it is a very basic instrument by which to connect with another person.

Let me know if this little post helps you, because it was definitely useful, in my opinion, to develop the skill of touch–especially in the situation that I’m in (Hooters).

Converse tomorrow?

Your Friend,

Aaron

P.S. What I mean in the headline is that physical touch feels better throughout and sets the foundation for outstanding sex in the long run (though not always).

Setting The Homeless On Fire… With Love! (Task 28 Launch + Semi-Complete!)

(Note: I was homeless for four months during my high school career… I’m just very aware of the “easy-way-out” mindset that homeless (all) people have, and I’d prefer to find a real, long-term solution, like Richard Branson is, than to just give them a few dollars every now and then)

Why best does this post exist?

• Keep my accountable + Entertain the reader while convincing the reader to share the same growth that I have been experiencing

Who best is my reader?

• An individual who’s experienced at least 6 months of “game” (or at least just started)–20-25 year old men who still experience pain when interacting with women

What best behavior change will result from the reader reading this post?

• Do things in order of priority (in value-adding priority); anytime you add value to a person’s life, clearly define what was done–and frame it so that it’s in the form of gratitude for the other person’s services; set accountability and actually pay for it if you don’t achieve what you needed to do–I.e. PREPARE next time

Where best will this behavior change occur?

• Work, personal life, vacations, etc–Do things that relax/rejuvenate you the most; do things that give you the most value; book store and online

(Let me know if this is right or wrong! )

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Before I get into today’s challenge (which will be about “The Sensoriest Description Ever!” ), I feel that it’d be more connecting to let you in on what’s happening in my life, do you agree?

At Hooters: I felt a bit unappreciated today. Today was an extension of yesterday’s work where my manager, “R,” apparently kept a precise for the incorrectness of all the mountains of correctness she could find–which I construed as a bit disconcerting and demeaning. I felt it was demeaning saddening… until I realized that it was my fault that it was this way in the first place. The reason all of this was my fault was because I had made a serious “marketing ( and ‘power’) mistake:” I didn’t clearly define the value that was delivered to the Hooters store.

To illustrate this, all you need to do is think of the Tesla story from The 48 Laws of Power or from this page to learn how not taking credit is an extremely bad idea. Many people may say for you to do random acts of kindness and provide anonymous charity… Well, I’m starting to move more and more away from that because of both the story above AND my personal experiences at Hooters. Quantum physicists state that “observing changes the observed,” and Huna states that, “Wherever attention goes, energy flows,” and general philosophy states that we get more of what we focus on… therefore, in order to create the maximum charity and high-quality value from ourselves, it only makes sense to get more and more people to observe it, right?

Another illustration for this, too, is that my parents always used to criticize me and scream at me and yell at me and ground me for never doing my chores, or at least never doing them properly. I knew that this was fucking bullshit, so I would eventually just sneak out and mentally think “F*** you, Mom/Dad” as I slid my legs out the window, grabbed the window sill, and dangled my legs down as far as I could before jumping out the window–partying it out anyway (with their car) before sneaking back in.

It had never occurred to me to do what I did approximately four years later: Make a freaking paper that lists all the “benefits gained” for them. This list, this beautiful, beautiful list, rendered me invulnerable to BS comments (that always were BS) that suggested that I did shit for work around the house… and I would eventually get rewarded and praised and “paid” more (in food and random items, like notebooks) for the work that i did.

In other words, there was so much sneaky shit that could’ve been avoided had I made it really freaking clear what value had been delivered. It even boggles my mind how much stress I could’ve avoided (from sneaking out and back in) if I would’ve done this.

At a side road just off Westnedge: After work, I had abruptly pressed the brakes to turn onto when I saw a homeless man peddling for change on the highway. I have done something that I really scorned myself for needing to do: pay a homeless man fifty-six dollars as punishment for not completing the task on time. I only had twelve dollars cash, though, but still, this was not out of charity (even though I would, actually, get a good feeling from giving it to him), it was out of punishment–I really despise giving homeless people money (ask my “Why” before you scorn me for this).

As you may have read in an earlier post, I had promised you that if I did not complete the required tasks at my line of work that I would need to pull out a day’s pay ($56 on average–it’s a very, very sad number, I know), walk up to a homeless man, and hand it to him. The only reason I didn’t give him $56 is because I saw him on my way from work, and I didn’t pull out the money from an SPAM machine yet. Yeah, I know that I probably could’ve just waited until I had the whole $56, but you know how it feels to have something on your head for an extended period of time, right? It was just good to ease some of that up a bit.

At the Goodyear on Westnedge: After that, too, I accidentally let myself get talked into purchasing an oil change straight away instead of researching a bit on the prices (dumb move), so I got my oil changed for a total of $44. I’m not upset at all over the $44, though, because it’s a mistake like this that will save me from impulsively paying $444 or $4,444 too much down the line–which, to me, is a savings of $400-$4,000

The other girl wasn’t so lucky, though, because she paid $800+ for them to change her tires in ADDITION to the $44 oil change (which I also received). I should’ve gotten her number, though, because she was otherwise really seemingly intelligent with money (and her short-shorts and gorgeous legs were intoxicating me).

Technically, giving the homeless man OR getting my oil changed OR doing the unmentioned Daily Bio-Energizer Routine (before work) could have each counted for today, but I’d like to add one more thing here. For today’s challenge that’d be awesome to do, what do you think about practicing something that goes against my intuitive nature: Sensory Descriptions?

Within the bible, sensory descriptions are the key way that Jesus influenced people to such great lengths. Within the everyday world, Muhammad used sensory metaphors to blow people’s minds:

(Typical pump it up song )

Anyway, yeah, I’m going to do at least one sensory description that uses every single one of these of submodalities to describe it

I Spray Word Paint On Your Pussy! (Task 28 TOTALLY Complete!)

I thought it would look cool if I constructed it into a paragraph, and it looks like an illogical amalgamation of words… but I actually think that it has a more positive effect on the mind than 80% of everything else that I’ve written! Awesome!

Brown, bright golden, pale pink (smiling lips), blonde, bright lights, light green covers the check, sheek ironed blue, sheek ironed pink, stainless steel. About ten meters, relatively. 0 (pitch black) to 10 (sunlike blinding): 6. Directly ahead of me. Detached from the hyper-panoramic, massive video surrounding my entire world with love. Hyper-focused on Richard Branson’s smile. Sir Richard Branson completes “full laugh” in 1.5 seconds. A white background contrasts this image of Sir Richard Branson holding a $400,000+ check the size of a Hummer’s car door. Directly in front or slightly to the right. 3D! 1 video.

Direct ahead of me to the left a bit, shoots toward direct to the left yet toward me a bit. External audio at 30 decibels. Medium-high male voice (SRB). Clean Highish Brit-ish ac-cent. Tension fills me as I hear a long pause after his laugh as he continues to smile–listening in. 104 beats per minute in his talk. 2 seconds his British accent and laugh plays for.

Solar plexus, upper torso feels amalgamous head pillow-shaped feeling of an intensity of 8 on a scale from -15 to 15, which I recall as a scale I use frequently. Steadiness and calmness in this poise of upper body feeling. Swirling in my upper body for 3 seconds. High-level, high frequency vibration throughout my entire upper body. Feel warmth, as that of from a campfire, feels my outer body. Overall body feels lighter than normal

Here’s the original question set that I developed to create this word picture.

• What best colors do I see as I’ve achieve my goal of 12 star mentors? Brown, bright golden, pale pink (smiling lips), blonde, bright lights, light green covers the check, sheek ironed blue, sheek ironed pink, stainless steel
  How best close or far are they from me? About ten meters, relatively
  How best bright is this completed goal? 0 (pitch black) to 10 (sunlike blinding): 6
  Where best is the video or image located? Directly ahead of me
  Is it best a video or a image? video
  What best size is the image? Massive
  Am I best associated in the image or detached from it? Detached
  How best focused is it? Hyper-focused on Richard Branson’s smile
  How best framed or panoramic is it? Hyper-panoramic–surrounding my entire world with love
  If movie, at what best speed does it play? Sir Richard Branson completes “full laugh” in 1.5 seconds
  What best does this image contrast with? A white background
  What best dimension does the image or movie show in? 3D!
  What best angle or angles do I view the image or movie from? Directly in front or slightly to the right.
  How best many pictures do I see? 1

Audio

• Where best does the sound come from? Direct ahead of me to the left a bit
  What best direction does it shoot toward? Direct to the left yet toward me a bit
  Is the audio external or internal? External
  What best volume does the audio play? 30 decibels
  What best pitch do I hear? Medium-high male voice (SRB)
  What best tonality do I hear? Highish Brit-ish ac-cent
  What best timbre do I hear? Clean
  What best do I hear with pauses? Tension fills me as I hear a long pause after his laugh as he continues to smile–listening in
  What best is the cadence or tempo? 104 beats per minute in his talk
  What best duration does this audio play? 2 seconds
  What best unique trait do I Hear about he audio? British accent

Kino

• Where best do I feel? Solar plexus, upper torso
  What best size do I feel? A head pillow’s amalgamous feeling
  What best shape do I feel? a head pillow
  What best intensity do I feel? 8 on a scale from -15 to 15 (I use this scale frequently)
  What best steadiness or unsteadiness do I feel? Steadiness and calmness in this poise of upper body feeling
  What best movement do I feel? Swirling in my upper body
  What best duration do I feel it for? for 3 seconds
  What best vibration do I feel? High-level, high frequency vibration throughout my entire upper body
  What best pressure/heat do I feel? Warmth, as that of from a campfire, feels my outer body
  What best weight do I feel? Overall body feels lighter than normal

Let me know if you appreciate this kind of writing, because this, I see now, has the abiltiy to influence more than any amount of logical text I could ever write.

Let me know if you enjoy! Note: This wasn’t easy for me… This was actually more intense than a homing missle-style interaction I had today with this cougar haha.

Converse tomorrow?

Your Friend,

Aaron

A Hooters Father’s Day Gift (Task 29 Launch + Complete!)

(Note: I love my parents, but I choose to associate with people other than them… which is why this may sound a bit “negative.” To counteract the negative, picture a big *smiley face* on me while you read this! )

Today I completed dos toques (two touches) on a day of a Hooters girl car wash, and I completed thirty minutes of Pimsleur. At the moment I complete the hour of meditation as I write this blog post and complete the Daily Bio-Energizer Warm Up Routine.

But the REAL challenge was spending the money on my father for Father’s Day–both for gas to visit him plus the Daytona Beach Style Wings from Hooters. This was a real challenge because I know that the people I surround myself with truly determines my outcome in life ALSO I knew that I had many other people to focus on today… in other words, I need to increase my willpower consumption and willpower savings through this task.

Anyway, I’ve already completed this between 3:00pm and 8:00pm (5 hours started). And I’ve gotta say that choosing to complete this five hour time sink has severely affected the outcome of completing all my other challenges in a timely fashion IN ADDITION to feeling a negative influence of the people who I visited. In fact, not only did I not complete the challenges as early as I could’ve (i.e. just before midnight tonight), I’ve also filled myself with crappy food (i.e. freaking unhealthy) , polluted water and sound with a 1990′s waverunner, gotten fondled by my grandpa (lol), not to mention that I’ve spent $37 of unavailable funds toward completing this (I’m not rich yet–nor have I been paid as timely as I could have been).

Though I’m a very positive, upbeat, happy, centered, power-driven, love-driven person (etc., etc.), it’s crucial to me that I now forever say no to ANYTHING that distracts me (especially anything that takes five-plus hours as well as additional funds) from my goals–which will require preparation and anticipation). For example, my father asked me whether or not I’d like to visit an ex-friend of mine’s graduation party with him this coming Saturday (he lives in Indiana–but we were friends because he’d routinely come to the lake house up here on Scott Lake in Michigan)… knowing that I’d need to spend at least eight hours one-on-one in the car with my father PLUS several hours with random people that my friend knew, I had to decline because of the serious detriment it would have on my self-image and standards in life (i.e. “the reference group effect”).

Other examples of distractions, too, include messy rooms (like mine), doing too much shit at once (yup), YouTube (PewwwwDiePie!), Facebook (not so much anymore, actually), etc.

To clarify, visiting my father and providing gifts was the challenge for today–but I definitely did the physical contact as well in addition to doing some of the Daily Bio-Energizer this morning (which went unrecorded, so I’ll do it again hah).

Another idea for the road, too: Track the number of hours that you invest toward your highest goal every. single. day. I’m doing that tonight with the Twelve Star Mentors goal that I’ve set for myself.

Let me know if this inspires you, because this was a short post, but it’s pretty packed with fun–completed–ideas that may inspire you!

Chat tomorrow?

Your Friend

Aaron

P.S. Do you know the people who distract you? What best can you do to eliminate these people who try to distract you from your life? (*COUGH “Forgiveness Process” COUGH* Oh, I meant to say The Forgiveness Process haha)

She Calls Me “Pimp” Hahaha (Task 30 Launch + Complete!)

Before I begin today’s session, I’ve gotta say that I’m super thankful for all that has become of my life and I in the past thirty days! Before I started this blog:

• I never worked at place so full of beautiful women (some of which–though I never admit this–behave/look more attractive(ly) than any other girl in Kalamazoo/MIchigan/USA/the world)
  I never had a gym membership at the best gym in my area (just got it today… courtesy of momma! )
  I never had such a steady stream of readers following this journey with me
  I’ve never seen someone update their lives so regularly (a model of this?) with a little support and focus (it really helps when you know someone’s observing you)
  I’ve never been able (to) hablar español so well (seriously, I’m getting freaking good at it)
  I’ve been so centered and meditated
  I never owned my own place (I essentially live on my own now–with my bro and my sis-in law)
  I never played darts as well as I do now (I play darts with every Pimsleur session)
  I never budgeted as well as I do now
  Etc., etc., etc., etc., etc.

Today’s session sort of marks the one month mark of progress in life… and it’s ridiculous how much things have changed for me in such a short amount of time. This short amount of time that I’ve steadily updated this has drastically blown the quality of my life out of proportion with the rest of the world. Within this short amount of time, I’ve done things that I never would have.

And though it was my effort and personal energy, knowing that I’ve had you to observe this progress and model it for yourself has really inspired me to give you the best example that I possibly can. A couple of you even reached out to me with some (long-ass) comments that I really enjoyed replying to! I’ve gotta say that doing it with others is way easier than going at it alone.

I appreciate you journeying with me, bro!

For today’s challenge, too, I’ve made three physical connections (they’re getting exponentially better–and they are extremely well received), BUT the real challenge today was going back to the Bronson pool to get the number of a girl I had already talked with (I was curious about how she did those flips at the ends of the pool). The reason why it was a challenge (because I’ve done this before, haha) was because I had actually already left to go to my locker and head out… and I needed to go back in and ask her for the number in front of basically everyone at the pool (my irrational hesitation was that people would start branding me as a “player” when I really am just a high-status, alpha dude who loves women… the cool thing was, though, that people actually respected me MORE after doing this, haha Because I did what they feared to do).

Anyway, I did it, and I feel fucking boss because it was worth it. It was worth it because I’ve finally recognized that this was a quality interaction (like the thousands of others)… and by being able to reach her, I can actually do something with her Especially because we’re both health-oriented and super into running and swimming (Huge smiley face!!).

Something else that also added to this challenge was doing the Daily Bio-Energizer Warm Up Routine when I got back–I really didn’t feel like doing it… but I got started and whammo! I actually did it! And enjoyed it! So happy. Here’s the vid(!):


Another thing, too, that you must see (lol!): “Thrift Shop” by Macklemore. I love this song!

Interact tomorrow, bro?

Your Bro,

Aaron Bell

P.S. This girl did call me “Pimp” today

Calibrate… When She’s Having Her Period!! (Task 31 Launch!)

Today I asked my manager, after about an hour of working, “Is it that time of month again?” This question was a bit scary to ask for me, because I didn’t know how well received that type of question would be. But, in the end, it was just a normal question (all girls have it and talk about it).

Also, there’s a really cheerful woman working today, “C,” that I haven’t met before. Though she’s only moderately as attractive in that environment, I think I like her more than just about any other Hooter girl (her cheerfulness is contagious–if I weren’t already cheerful as it is, my day would’ve been lifted a good 20% in happiness points).

Anyway, yeah, that’s the update as far as my working life goes. For my non-working life, I’m just pondering how best to use my gym membership. I have plans on using it for swimming, but I really, really want to begin a workout regime that induces serious buffness. This workout routine will recreate me as I dedicate myself to doing every day now.

(I’m actually going to budget right now and see if I can start this!)

Besides that, today’s challenge is go through at least (M) five, (T) ten (O) twenty girls/women that I know and ask the calibration questions about them right now at my desk–and then tomorrow’s challenge will be to verify these answers that I’ve given tomorrow. By doing this calibration challenge, I shall become the genius that Neil Strauss says I will become by doing this

Besides that, just completing:

• The Daily Bio-Energizer Warm Up Routines with editing (done), and
  The Hour of Power (with a ten-plus minute swim) with
  A half-hour of Pimsleur (done), with
  Vision-building (an hour of preparing for realizing my goals)
  Budgeting and Researching Workout Routines (from the 4-Hour Body) with
  Tracking metrics

… All of this is already a bit much–so I’ll focus on these calibration questions today AND get these things done, and I’ll get back to you shortly (by 8:00PM tonight).

Converse tonight?

Your Bro

Aaron Bell

(Deep breaths taken during the writing of this post :

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Calibration Preparation (Task 31 Complete!)

Before I complete this, you’ve GOT to hear this story. I was swimming the other day, and as I was swimming, I conversed with this lifeguard instructor about joining his group. Though I would later determine that he wasn’t in the budget (I’m studying and practicing Krav Maga as SOON AS I CAN), I went for another swim today… and they had asked that I “play the victim” for about fifteen minutes.

So, I floated “dead in the water” as these buff guys struggled to slide this tube underneath my back. One of them, after I had to consciously lift my head up to breath for air, pressed his hands against the sides of my head to lift my head up… the first time worked well (for me), but one of the guys needed to sacrifice HIS air to keep me up–and it’s obviously unacceptable for the lifeguard to die in a rescue mission

One of the times that they rescued me, too, I was practically choking for air because they were having a hard time getting my head up from under the water because they couldn’t really push the tube underneath me (and these guys, I would later find out, had trained in the National Guard–so they were buff at this point), Maybe I had taken the “victim” role a bit too far, because I was intensely struggling for air at one point!

Besides the lifeguard rescue mission, I had chosen to swim AND run the Al Sabo trail (near a local community college). I must say that this was a very interesting run because I sort of just “winged it.” I winged this after-swim run because: 1) I didn’t have a watch time the specifics of the Hour of Power (i.e. Warm-Up, Run, Warm-Down), 2) I didn’t feel comfortable with the territory, yet, so being loud (i.e. incanting) would need to be taken up one notch at a time, and 3) I overall have seen better trails than this one–so I didn’t get as much of that special “connected to nature” feeling as I normally get.

By the end of that run, I was mosquito-bitten (specifically: On the back of my neck), almost disoriented, and fantasizing about fucking this girl on “the lookout,” which is this dock suspended by long telephone poles over a very steep hill, where another trail lines the bottom of. Also, by the end of that run, I just felt overall less satisfied with my workout than I usually am… but perhaps that’s just because it was a new territory that I hadn’t familiarized myself with.

Anyway, I’ve dilly-dallied a LOT before completing today’s challenge (completing the calibration preparation for tomorrow), so I think you’ll rather enjoy it a LOT if we actually complete it now, eh? Haha, alright then!

Enjoy the current calibration attempts so far! Here are the questions to answer:

• What best personality type is she?
  Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven?
  Does she have high or low self-esteem?
  How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) –>
  What best is her self-image?
  What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)?
  Is she an older/younger sibling, close to mom/dad?
  Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)?
  What best are her needs?
  Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for?

Note: I have personally recorded the names for myself–so I’ll always know who these are, in case you were wondering “How will you remember this in the future?” Here are the analyses:

1. Am*****

• Extraverted Sensing Feeling Judger (7-1-4)
  Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven? Kinesthetically
  Does she have high or low self-esteem? 8.7
  How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) 9
  What best is her self-image? Hooters Girl + Girlfriend? I think the guy I saw was her bro
  What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)? Hooters + Tailoring (Cosmetology)
  Is she an older/younger sibling, close to mom/dad? 2nd Youngest; Close to dad
  Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)? Physical 1 Emotional 2
  What best are her needs? High status–extreme detachment from her and high focus–what best is does the average guy neglect to do?
  Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for? In college following a forming purpose; Looking for love and highest-status acceptance

2. Li*****

• What best personality type is she? Extraverted Intuitive Feeling Perceiver (5-7-1)
  Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven? Auditorially
  Does she have high or low self-esteem? 8
  How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) 9
  What best is her self-image? Hooters Girl + Stripper + Smoker + Fiancee
  What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)? Hooters (that’s it)
  Is she an older (= more caring)/younger (= more “taking” or selfish) sibling, close to mom/dad? 2nd oldest (one brother older two brothers younger; Super Close to Mom (Dad?)
  Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)? Emotional 1 Logical 2
  What best are her needs? High status–Social proof that it’s okay to connect–time off–extreme detachment from her and high focus–what best is does the average guy neglect to do?
  Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for? In college studying Marketing in her spare time–in the process of loving her soon-to-be hubby; Healing + Actual growth in her life

3. Re***** (Copied from above–disregard until complete )

• What best personality type is she? Introverted Intuitive Thinking Judger (5-8-4)
  Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven? Auditorially
  Does she have high or low self-esteem? 6.8
  How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) 7
  What best is her self-image? Hooters Manager, Hard Worker, “Does things right,” Wife, Lover, Hippy,
  What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)? Hooters + eBay
  Is she an older/younger sibling, close to mom/dad? Younger; Close to dad, far from mom
  Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)? Logical 1 Emotional 2
  What best are her needs? High status–extreme detachment from her and high focus–what best is does the average guy neglect to do; someone to be more alpha than her and make her feel like the little girl she once was
  Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for? Passing on into her honeymoon years–as a mom?–getting her as much income as possible; she’s looking for as much security as possible

4. St*****

• What best personality type is she? Extraverted Intuitive Thinking Judger (5-8-4
  Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven? Kinesthetically
  Does she have high or low self-esteem? 6.8
  How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) 4
  What best is her self-image? “Bad Girl,” Tough
  What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)? Hooters + barista at Starbucks
  Is she an older/younger sibling, close to mom/dad? Younger; Close to Dad, far from Mom
  Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)? Physical 1 Logical 2
  What best are her needs? High status–Strength
  Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for? Just making money as she goes through college–

5. S*****

• What best personality type is she? Extraverted Intuitive Thinking Judger (5-8-4)
  Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven? Auditorially
  Does she have high or low self-esteem? 4
  How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) 5
  What best is her self-image? Bartendress, sexy bitch, etc.
  What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)? Hooters + retailer
  Is she an older/younger sibling, close to mom/dad? Middle child; parental trouble–a bit frazzled (closish with mom)
  Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)? Physical, Logical)
  What best are her needs? High status–Love; Variety
  Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for? Single, looking for a decent BF and fuck-friend; someone strong and high-status

So far, this has gone really well for me. By doing this, I really feel that I’m beginning to recognize how much I don’t really see in the people around me. By doing this, I’m beginning to recognize that this was a skill that I THOUGHT I had down… but didn’t. By doing this, I now recognize that there ARE different models of reality and that I need to become more conscious of them if I really want to make any progress over the “terrain of women.”

Neil even says in his book, Rules of the Game (roughly paraphrased), “Before you start the journey, know your terrain.” Well, that’s a general rule for EVERYTHING: War, Peace, Coding, Social Networking, Internet Marketing… Also, we get what we focus on, right? So, by focusing on the type of person that she is–the more I will get of her because of my focus on that person. Does that make sense?

Well, we’ll see how this turns out, because calibration is an ass-ton of fun when done successfully in the moment with a woman–because she will literally think you’re psychic, haha.

Anyway, that’s the minimum for today’s challenge–I still have a bit of meditating, vision-building, etc. to do before I go snooze for a few hours (I’m definitely waking up at four-thirty tomorrow to do my run–it’s so important because I feel so much more “on” when I do! Also, not only do I feel on, but I actually get it in without fear of a heat stroke (it’s getting hotter and hotter during the day at the moment–and I usually get out at 12:00 PM).

Did you like this? Let me know if you did! I always listen… \m/

Let’s converse tomorrow, shall we?

Your Bro,

Aaron

P.S. Did you know that the plural of analysis is “analyses?”

(Number of deep breaths taken during this post:

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Continuing Calibration PLUS Photos of a Keyboard (Task 32 Launch!)

Today’s challenge is to upload five photos of the keyboard that I listed on Craigslist PLUS I need to calibrate five more people tonight (minimum), ten more people (target), and twenty more people (outrageous). By doing this challenge, we’ll be all set for Friday when I go back to work AND we’ll make a little extra dough on the side

Though I really probably should do something like study and sell things on eBay… maybe later haha

Your Bro,

Aaron

P.S. Oh! Thanks for reminding me to meditate!

The Best God-Damned Lesson I've Learned With This Blog (Task 32 Complete!)

Gotta say that the keyboard and magazines to sell is too easy of a task in retrospect. Or maybe it’s just easier now that I’ve actually started making progress with those tasks–which usually happens with just about anything that’s been done on this blog, this series of experiences

Link to the Craigslist keyboard listing

However, I’m still getting back into the groove with calibration, BUT it was totally easier than it was yesterday. The only thing with getting back into the groove with calibration is that I still need to develop the habit of physical contact and physical expression.

Anyway, check this out! As the words and associations to all the personality and NLP training came out on the page, realization after realization hit me like a maelstrom, a total whirlwind of clarity and focus. By doing this calibration exercise, I suddenly understood the seven billion things that I had misunderstood (from mis- or malpractice)… like the fact that certain people need a more strong, “cocky-funny” attitude, while other people REQUIRE that I remain gentle and loving with them.

If you’ve ever heard of the Jungian archetypes, you’ll know exactly what I mean (i.e. Magician | King; Lover | Warrior).

Furthermore, I’ve recognized that the connection between you and your parents is possible one of the most important pieces of information you can collect. This might sound weird, but things like sibling order (i.e. younger/-est or older/-est) have a dramatic impact on the “style” and characteristics of a person. For example, older siblings tend to me more “caring and responsible” whereas younger siblings tend to be more caring and selfish (haha that’s me!). Also, people close to their parents tend to be more emotionally connecting while people far from their parents crave it, but don’t have the foundation (with the parents) to establish it as well as those who do have a closer connection.

After interacting with thousands of women, I’ve gotta say that this has been true 99.99% of the time. It’s almost (almost) more important than the “general” personality type (like the Myers-Briggs Indicator Types or the Enneagram or the Physical-Emotional-Logical distinctions). At the very least, it has taught me to keep a loving eye out for my parents… because the world will be able to tell from a mile away if I don’t.

By the way, here’s the paper with the five calibrations for today (it actually takes more time than you might think–at least when first starting out):



Now here’s the typed version

6. Ch*****:

(PT) INTP + Warrior + “2-5-8″ (enneagram) + 1I-2E (PEL); (SE) 6; (SO/R) 5; (SI) Good girl, introvert, educated; (Work) Hooters, eBay; (Sib) Youngest (Only); (M+D) Detached from Mom, Close(r) to Dad; (Nds) Personal time; (Where) Graduating from girlhood, heartbroken, bad bf + family issues, probably raped; (Going) Emotional Stability in environment (anything that will lead to that)

7. Ca*****:

(PT) ESFP + Magician + “5-7-1″ (like me) + 1E-2I; (SE) 6; (SO/R) 8; (SI) happy, outgoing, outrageous, fun, hardworking, lively, college girl, (Work) Hooters + bartendress; (Sib) youngest (of 2); (M+D) Close w/ whole family; (Nds) Love & enthusiasm; (Where) College girl; (Going) Max grades + fun

8. Sh*****:

(PT) ISTJ + Queen + “7-1-4″ + 1I-2E; (SE) 6; (SO/R) 8; (SI) Hardworker, loner, unattractive, organizer, powerful; (Work) Hooters bartendress, manager @ another location; (Sib) Oldest of 3; (M+D) detached; (Nds) Love & sex; (Where) Devving as much security as possible; (Going) anything for acceptance, love, organization

9. Da*****:

(PT) ENFP + Lover + “9-6-3″ + 1E-2I; (SE) 7; (SO/R) 8; (SI) hippy, nice, funny; (Work) Hooters chef; (Sib) 2nd oldest of 4; (M+D) Closer with mom, detached with dad; (Nds) Love, health, growth; (Where) Dad + married; (Going) Anything for love & significance & power & love

10. Ja*****:

(PT) ESTJ + Magician + “9-6-3″ + 1P-2I; (SE) 10; (SO/R) 6; (SI) Buff, body, party guy, outstanding cook, good lover, gamer; (Work) Chef + Bodyguard; (Sib) youngest; (M+D) Semi-close/detached from M+D; (Nds) growth, move, $$$; (Where) quarter-life crisis; (Going) Developing body & sex

This has got to be the most useful exercise that I’ve done thus far (EXCEPT for the initial incantation exercise–which laid the foundation for all of this). I’ve been handling certain people a lot less effectively than I could have–and it may have costed me as a result.

Let me know if this helps–because there’s a lot of little details in this that could be considered copyright infringement if I went too in detail with it (like the enneagram?).

Also, I need to pee–so converse tomorrow?? Haha

Your bro

Aaron Bell

(Upcoming Tasks: Style and Appearance after more Touch and Calibration

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Running Is For The Cool Kids (Task 33 Launch!)

I woke up this morning at 4:30 all ready to go and shit. But if I would’ve woken up at 4:30am, I would’ve been in the red as far as sleep goes, so I chose to sleep in an extra SEVEN hours, which landed me at 11:30 am, which is now weird of a time for me to wake up at. Well, this now means that my usual rhythm has been disrupted a bit, so it’s not very easy to just get my ass out of the door.

Also, there’s some psychological entropy going on here in that my ability to pay for nutrition has been halted recently, because I had some (relatively minor) issues sticking with the budget. The budget thing was just from some “in-the-moment” sales that went on with the oil change.

Anyway, this is the challenge for today: Just get the ass up and moving for today’s Hour of Power.

I don’t know how simple it sounds to you, but it’s an hour and fifteen minutes of movement and shouting. And this movement and shouting, though it may look intimidating, is a hell uv a lotta fun when you actually start it.

Let me know your thoughts and suggestions in the comments below today!

Converse tonight?

Your Bro

Aaron

(DB: IIIII IIIII IIIII)

Coming Clean Today After A Dirty Run (Task 33 Complete!)

There’s so much that results from this simple run that I’m astonished that it can be perceived as “hard” sometimes. Not only is the run easy, the run really gives me an enormous since of pride and love AS I do it.

Anyway, there’s something else that you should know, too. After staying on my high horse for a while now (which happens when I neglect to publically publish my stats), I’ve chosen to reveal what’s REALLY going on with me. Check out these charts below



Though I’d like to show you some chart with a billion lays and five billion touches (etc.), this is the truth that has happened so far–even with all my pursuits. My confidence has been sky high over the past five years, but I had never taken the time to actually verify whether or not I had actually gained any real, concrete results or not–and this is the result haha.

Part of the reason why I posted this here, too, is because it makes me vulnerable–to an extent–when people see the REAL me, when people see the results that I’ve really received; though, that’s one of the things that helps make this blog exist, right? Doing that which induces discomfort, change, vulnerability, fear?

Besides that, too, you’ve been with me for quite some time now, and you really deserve to know what’s really going on with me–even if it means risking your loyalty, friendship, and support. Because it’s better to risk your support rather than keep your support with you thinking that you’re contributing value to something different than what you’re really supporting. Does that make sense?

Anyway, today’s challenge, The Hour of Power, has been completed, and now it’s time to do “The Daily Bio-Energizer Warm Up Routine” off camera for the second time.

Let me know what you think in the comments today!

Your Homie

Aaron Bell

(Number of Deep Breaths In This Post:

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Tomorrow’s Challenge: National Hug (And Kiss!) Day )

Hugs and (No) Kisses! Hahahaha (Task 34 Launch + Complete!)

Today was awesome yet emotionally challenging. Awesome in that I performed in an outstanding manner with work, working, Spanish, this blog post, and overall feelings of being in control of my life. And emotionally challenging in that I had no liquid assets (i.e. cash) to use for buying a small stack of gloves–which is not an easy pill to swallow (i.e. going up to the store KNOWING that I should’ve asked for the cash up front).

What was more emotionally challenging, though, was that I had called my mom and freaked out in front of her–when what she needed most was to be absolutely comfortable (she quite smoking two weeks ago, and she needs every ounce of willpower she can get–which, btw, is something I robbed her a bit of with my frantic call for help).

Actually, now that I think of it, this emotionally challenging part of the day came not as a result of not having the liquid cash to purchase a freaking case of gloves for my restaurant (note: I have a $12,000 car and $5,000 in electronics, clothes, gear, etc.), it came when I kept on attempting to request help from my father, when he tried to allay responsibility FROM me (instead on me). It was so frustrating because the more I talked with him (especially in the emotional state that I was in), the less in control I felt; because, every second that I had talked with him he kept on asking me “Why would they make you go out?” or “It’s not your fault; it’s the suppliers’ fault” or “How come they didn’t give you the money up front?”

I felt fucking infuriated. I felt infuriated because these were stupid questions that provided stupid results.

You know the saying, “There aren’t any stupid questions; there are only stupid people”? That saying is the biggest fucking lie I’ve ever heard, because you can immediately change a person’s course in life with a question (it’s happened to me AT LEAST a billion times )

Anyway, what I’m trying to say is that these questions tried to pull responsibility away from me, which worked to do two things:

• 1. Dissolve my already apparent lack of control more completely, and
  2. Conflict totally and completely with my belief system

My father believes in the effect mindset–”it’s not my fault because: of the economy, because that guy didn’t do his job, because… because… because…” He does not believe in the “cause mindset,” where we are totally responsible (and capable) of achieving any result we desire, where we say, “I achieved this result… and this result… and this result… and this result… because I’m the cause of all effects.”

Anyway, what I’m saying with all this is that “going to the ’cause’ side of the equation” only works to knock you off your emotional center. Whereas “being the cause of all effects” will only manifest a sense of absolute peace, control/power, and absolute abundance This case with my father clearly showed the pains of being at effect.

NOW–today I interacted with three groups of women (like I had promised yesterday I would) to do Cosimo’s (a friend of mine’s) challenge: National Hug Day.

Instead of typing up a whole ‘nother field report, I’ll just link to the one I wrote from earlier and sign off. Here it is!

What do you think? Haha Let me know if you enjoyed this, because I’ll definitely do more “story time” in the upcoming posts if you enjoy this!

Converse tomorrow, bro?

Your Bro!

Aaron

(DB: IIIII IIIII IIIII IIIII IIIII IIIII IIIII IIIII IIIII IIIII II)

Closing Loose Ends With eBay! (Task 35 Launch!)

Today, especially after yesterday, I’ve chosen to change my financial status for forever. Instead of being a little bitch about it and saying “Oh! I have no munnies until Tuesday,” I’ve now chosen to really, really transform myself financially for forever.

And it starts with eBay.

A while back, my mother had agreed to allow me to sell a bunch of her old magazines (like Photoplay, Modern Screen, Charm, some 1940′s Cosmopolitan) in return for 40% of the profit. I had started selling these a while a back (I sold about five of them) and made a half-way decent $220–which is pretty nice for the amount of time that I put in (about thirty minutes a magazine).

Though, I wasn’t really a disciplined dude (or at least a self-managed dude) back then, so I kind of stopped when I didn’t feel like doing it anymore (this would come back to haunt me!). But, now that I’m on my own and my mother deserves some of her money for allowing me to sell these, I’m now committed to getting these things SOLD in the best, most value-adding manner that anyone has ever seen something sold on eBay before

So check this task out! For as long as there are magazines left in that closet upstairs, I now maintain a listing for every one of those magazines on eBay either: 1) until they sell, or 2) when I’ve been listing them on eBay for 4 months and they haven’t sold–whichever comes first. Specifically for this, I list (M) 3 magazines per day/(T) 5 magazines per day/(O) All magazines per day until they are all listed (this challenge maintains for each day until it either doesn’t intimidate me or until it’s completed ).

This task is kind of exciting for me, because this grants me the opportunity to actually follow through with my old commitment AND provide my mom with a little extra dough for having cut her silly smoking habit a few weeks ago

Also, this’ll boost the momentum toward achieving any goals of mine–like taking krav maga or yoga classes; like owning a sexy wardrobe; like purchasing some of the sexiest computer equipment–because each of these will require more than a basic Hooters income to best achieve this goal.

Anyway, I’m gonna go do the Daily Bio-Energizer Warm Up Routine, an Hour of Power, and a lesson on Pimsleur, and then I’ll have these magazines listed for you by 9:00 PM.

Also, am I being too nerdy or socially-recluse by making such “at-home” challenges? Let me know your thoughts on this in the comments below!

Converse later tonight?

Your Bro,

Aaron

(DB: IIIII IIIII IIIII IIIII I)

Fucking Hell Man–Need A (Working) Camera! (Task 35 Complete?!)

The ten minutes invested in communicating with this blog will represent the final ten minutes of my time working with these magazines. And work it has been when I was listing only one magazine, because I don’t have a charged phone, and I’ve needed to work with defective equipment.

Not that I’m complaining, because some of my defective equipment definitely takes some of the best pictures that I’ve ever seen in my life Too bad I can’t show you at the moment, because… you know,.. the phone I used is defective hahaha.

But, I’ve gotta admit that even though I didn’t totally get three magazines up today, the content that was written for the “copy” was definitely some of the most solid material that I’ve ever written. Should the SEO-optimized title hold its ground, I’m pretty sure that my target audience (older women) will love to buy these magazines!

I’m going to write the listings for at least two other magazines (I’ll update this post when I do), but I might not get to posting them by tonight, and I sure as hell won’t get it done by 9:00 PM. BUT, this blog is about doing one thing a day that scares you, and I’ve been putting off posting on eBay for a looong time, so technically, I succeeded today!

Not to mention that another hour and fifteen minute workout was completed in addition to thirty minutes of Spanish as well as a “Daily Bio-Energizer Warm Up Routine” completion. These things can be a bit… interesting to start!

You still deserve, at the very least though, two more drafts and “quality checks” for the magazines that are about to be sold, because I’m committed to becoming the best damn example you’ve ever witnessed for personal whole life transformation!

Let me know what you think of this, and certainly let me know if you think I was a faggot for not doing something, etc., etc

Converse tomorrow (and tonight in an update)?

Your Homie-Bro,

Aaron

Sell That Shit In Four Hours–Easy As 1-2-3 (-5)! (Task 36 Launch!)

(Note: Some serious PUA/VA shit is going down tomorrow!)

Sorry for a short post for today. Today I’ve really exerted a lot of (awesome) energy toward creating a lot of value at Hooters today (I mean it when I say that I’m good at my job).

For today, it’s a continuation of yesterday: List (M) One magazine/ (T) Three magazines/ (O) Five magazines on eBay today!

By doing this–we establish the habit of healthy eBay practices–especially when it comes to selling things we’re not exactly in the mood to sell about (even though these magazines ARE awesome!).

So, sell a magazine or three or five and the challenge has been completed for today. Especially when I’m feeding myself applesauce (my paycheck comes on Tuesday, haha–I’m acclimating to living without mommy and daddy ), this task is more than enough when I didn’t even want to do my Spanish for today.

I’ll update you when it’s thoroughly complete. Now that I have the charger to my phone (ahhh, I love it when I have my charger), it should be much, much easier to successfully complete today’s challenge.

Converse In Four Hours?

Your Broseph,

Aaron Bell

(DB’s: IIII IIIII IIIII IIIII IIIII I)

P.S. Having the correct tools for the job–no matter what the job–is ALWAYS essential. I’m sure that I could’ve gone farther yesterday with a charged phone, so I’m pumped to get at least two magazines listed, even though the minimum is one!

I Might Have Lost $40!! ;.; Also–Selling (Magazines) Is HARD (Task 36 Complete!)

(Note: VA/PUA stuff going on behind the scenes! Don't worry--if that's all you're here for )

If Positron doesn't approach a girl tonight, I'm out $40 ;.;

Totally worth it (just to see if MY money makes a difference... it doesn't!)

Anyway, I suppose I'm only in a LITTLE bit better of a position, because I'm only submitting ONE listing for tonight. But, after what happened today (all awesomesauce), I'm confident that even one post can make a world of difference. Seriously, I already:

• Do the Daily Bio-Energizer Warm Up Routine Daily (You should know this by now)
  Ask Morning Power Questions and Evening Power Questions (not mentioned before) daily
  Do three deep breathing sessions daily
  Meditate--at least during "mindless activity"
  Talk with women like it's nothing
  Blog twice daily (and write/journal much more than that)
  Learn Spanish for 30 minutes a day as I play darts for the same amount of time
  Work frequently for a company I love (though the food could be healthier
  Work out for an hour and fifteen minutes daily
  Consistently enact leverage on shit that I don't want to do
  Write out my goals daily and plan for the achievement of them daily
  Do hard shit
  Wash my hands after using the restroom

This is just my normal life. It's just something that happens every day--without a second thought. There's still a lot more to improve (i.e. calibration and physical touch and budgeting), but I'll be conversing with some of the greatest modern minds of today here in the upcoming weeks to get that sorted out

Anyway, as long as i can get one magazine listed a day, then I'm good over the long-term, because the HABIT of selling magazines will be there!

And as far as magazines go, magazines (especially older ones) are much more elaborate when it comes to selling them due to the extensive amount of reading required in order to sell them properly. Just thought I'd fill you in

Let me know what you think so far--there's some interesting things morphing from the ethereal blog of pre-existence

Your Bro!

Aaron