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PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2012 3:48 am 
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Alright guys, I have a few problems on hand at the moment, and I believe I have pinpointed what they are. First off, let me start by saying that I am a naturally attractive, in shape, tall, charismatic, funny, motivated 21 year old (that makes me sound cocky I know). When I am in a situation around girls, my friends often tell me that I need to be more "social" and talk to the girls who are in to me and what not. To be honest, I think that my problem is that not that I am not confident in myself, It is that I think I am too good to talk to the girl that is in front of me. I feel like I should not have to "talk" or "spit game" to girls because I believe that I would be trying to convince a girl to be with me when I believe that I have nothing to convince. So this leads to me standing there and looking disinterested and if a girl were to try and strike a conversation with me, I do not have much to say since I think the girl should be coming on to me when in reality they just get frustrated and leave. Does this make sense to anyone? I have not been one to get many girls and I believe it stems from this reason. I hear things all the time from guys and girls alike, as to why I do not have a gf or even talk to any girls. I could seriously use any help at this point, I do not want this to continue any longer. Thanks.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2012 2:02 pm 
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You are not manifesting your alpha qualities in the proper way. You can't just stand there and be good looking and cocky and expect women to flock to you. You need to be sociable and demonstrate value. Show interest in women in the sense that you want to be social with them, not necessarily sexual.

I recall growing up and observing alphas and good looking guys and always noticing that they never threw themselves at women. It was usually the women throwing themselves at them. It was effortless. But that doesn't mean they didn't have to do anything. They still had to socialize and smile and come across as funny, witty, cocky, etc. They never projected themselves as indifferent, uptight, or angry.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2012 7:17 pm 
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This makes a lot of sense. I will start trying to implement it into my everyday activities. Thank you.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 05, 2012 6:56 pm 
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You do not need to engage in a conversation and try to please her. Let your body interest pull her towards you. Show her signs of interest when she talks, even if its not you who she is talking to directly. For example: when a girl is speaking listen to her, show face expresions of what she feels (sympathy). And when she stops you can say: realy?, what!, etc. along with the body showing the same. Or neg (just be carefull) for example if she is sad you say: thats stupid you should be happy! Carefull with the body, dont be a freak.


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