Masturbation's effects on Social Shyness



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 9:38 am 
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From my personal experience:

I think that I’m both porn and masturbation addicted. These two always go hand-in-hand. Try to spank your monkey without watching porn, it’s not that fun anymore. One time a day is a minimum.

I went on various diets on several occasions. The longest was something like two weeks. Until, the ninth day my sex-drive was just sky-rocketing but than I just went mad. I was obsessed with the masturbation thought. So, when it came to a hand relief I’d do it four maybe five times.

Furthermore, I think that the best idea is to plan a date with yourself every two or three days. It will just keep you horny enough to keep sarging. When I jack off on a daily basis I just deplete my sexual drive. My dick is not that hard and my load is way smaller. Although, it’s still pleasant to spank my monkey.

Finally, I believe that on the psychological level masturbation has some adverse effects on you. It is not representative for your will-power, well, face it - sex drive is the strongest cravings of all – you can’t beat it. But it displays low status behavior. Think about a primitive tribe, would an alpha-male have been spotted jacking off? Probably, he would have a bunch of women to relief his sex tension.

The bottom line: Don’t be desperate. Jack off when necessary. Keep sarging. Get some women into your life. Quit the nasty habit.


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lmao ive gotten laid everyday or within every 3 days for 2 years straight (since college started) alota diff girls and then a gf for 6 months etc, but i jus broke up as its summer and we moved and so i try to go as long asi can without jerking off as it makes me wanna fuck so many oher girls, and if i know im meeting up with a girl and im going to fuck her, jerk off only 2 days in advance, so ur horny but not too horny to fuck her...works for me

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Ive jacked it twice since ive been here


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I don't wanna go to far but what if you don't beat it for a wile then you f-close a girl. You wouldnt last very long.


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I don't wanna go to far but what if you don't beat it for a wile then you f-close a girl. You wouldnt last very long.
Yeah, you'll be pretty sensitive, but condoms kill most of the sensation for me anyway. It evens out in my case.

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in my experience, doing it earlier in the same day, or within 24 hours before is a good idea cause it takes the pressure off, so you're not DYING to get laid. if you want it, but dont NEED it, i think you do better (sorta like push/pull). on the other hand, the times i've done it immediately before going out on a date, i've been very quiet, overly relaxed, and kinda boring.

this only applies to dates/day2's. i would never ever do it before going sarging, cause i think most guys need that sexual motivation and sexual state to seduce and connect with a chick sexually. before a date might work for some people though.

if you are the type that blows your load to quickly, it would prolly help you last longer to do that right before going out, but i've more often lasted just find and have actually started to lose interest if the chick is blowing me and its taking to long.


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whatever happened to practive make perfect...lol as far as im concerned the only time when you shouldn't is like right before the "real" thing or if you need that time and energy for something else. Why does everyone seem to think it affects you mentally? I think the guy who is able to have multiple orgasms because he took the time to learn is much better off than the guy who doesn't know how to turn himself on and can't control his thing properly. The mind is the most important sex organ, you need to learn how to use it to control other parts of your body properly.


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I've taken this advice. I'm currently on my 6th day without jackin it and I'm actually proud of myself haha. It's a great test of willpower and it's better for your game not to limit it like mystery said. You try harder to succeed in the field knowing you can't just make it up by jacking it when you don't get anything lol.


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The one thing is you have to completely cut out out looking at porn or any heavily stimulating imagery. I made it to like 6 days before giving in and watching porn right before i went out sarging.

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In "The Game" Mystery suggests that PUA's masturbate once a week. Set a date with yourself to masturbate and use lube and make sure you can enjoy it. But only once a week. Whether you wanna do this or not is beside the point.
I just got out of a long term relationship (5 1/2 years) with a Danish HB 9 and had consciously decided to make sure that I didn't get carried away with the masturbating while I'm single. I noticed that after about a week of not masturbating not only did I have more energy in general, it was quite apparent that females tended to be more attracted to me. I believe that it has something to do with the 'sexual energy' that built up and was being released unconsciously...

I don't know much about it... but I do notice that the less I masturbate the more control I have over virtually all aspects of my life. This in turn is reflected in how I deal with the ladies... I feel more empowered and courageous, as if there is NOTHING I can do wrong. I was at my friend's wedding about a month ago and I was amazed at how many girls came up to me with that little sparkle in their eye... you know that look... that come take me away and fuck me good look...

I am a big fan of self control and although I don't know much about the effects of building up that 'sexual energy' have on woman, I do feel that not masturbating often has certainly helped me step up my game. I swear, females can sense that sexual energy... They don't know what's going on... but they want to find out... and they will give you more attention.

Anyone have more information regarding how 'sexual energy' affects females?


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I think that it is important not to let any single thing control your life. Everything in moderation. One or two cups of coffee a day is ok, any more and you know it's something you depend on. However if you go too long without, all you can do is think about the next opportunity you are going to get. I have also heard that people who masturbate on a regular basis are less likely to develop prostate cancer. Even if you are having sex regularly, masturbating helps to reduce your chances. So if you need any reason whatsoever to masturbate, do it for your health. :D


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Thanks Murdoc for this controversial post.

Masturbation could kill your motivation to go out according to Mystery. Because it has something to do with your replication mechanism. When do it, you feel less in need for replication.

However, I heard David DeAngelo saying once that he overheard some people talking about women. So he join the conversation. David asked the man how he get the women and the man replied: "Don't let women intimidate you. Your fantasies always turn out the way you want them to be"


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wow 7 pages of messages.
Anyways i think it all depends. I was a chronic masturbator and harnessing that drive, that energy, helps me.


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I think a good anology for this would be Disney World (or any theme-park). If you live next to Disney and go a lot, the experience becomes redundant. But if you live a couple hundred miles away and go once every five years, it will seem so much more fun.

Masterbation is the same way. If you give your manhood time to replenish (7 days), both the sex and masterbation will be that much better.


Personally, I do the deed after every weekend. I have found that I not only have an increased drive to pickup women, but I am sharper mentally than earlier in the week.


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I don't think masturbating can affect your social shyness, but I do think over-viewing of porno can. I think that if you watch enough porn, looking at clothed women on the street loses some of its excitement, and you lose some of your drive to sarge them.


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