Masturbation's effects on Social Shyness



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3. It's SO much better when you finally do after three or four days of holding back. =)
yeah but it's advisable to wear eye protection after a full week.

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yeah but it's advisable to wear eye protection after a full week.
I'm on Day 1 of my first wank-free week.

Note to self: purchase goggles before next Friday.


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When mystery said not to masturbate the reason behind it was so that you would just start having women and not need to masturbate. Some guys will just give up on really trying to pick up women if they masturbate to much.




and for the eye protection just buy some condoms

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Ok, nobody really beleives but I never did until I was like 18. It just wasn't something I paid attention to. Sure there would be the occasional sticky morning, but that's normal. Once I got to university that definetly changed, and I really think it was for the worst. When I wasn't wacking it I had a certain level of physical and sexual aggression. When I went out sarging I was aggressive, and never ever let shyness get the best of me. It was almost like my biological instincts went into overdrive. I just threw myself into the situation. From an athletic standpoint it was awesome because I just felt strong, energized, and aggressive...

After I started wacking I've become considerably more withdrawn socially, less aggressive, and I've wasted too much time looking at porn.

I think that abstaining from masturbation is good if you know how to channel the energy, if not you'll just drive yourself crazy. If you doubt the positive effects, calculate how many hours a month you spend wacking/looking at porn. Think of how you could spend that energy in a more productive manner. Not going to lie though, pitching a tent at a random time is pretty annoying...

Right now I'm on day 12 of abstaining...It feels almost impossible to do, but it's for the best.

Good Luck ya'll I hope this helps...


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As a newb and AFC,

I'd say that for quite a while now I've had quite an unhealthy appetite for beating off to the point where my wee man is red raw and swollen...

I also noticed that when dealing with women I'd almost put them off deliberately... Because if it did work at some point we'd have to deal with my shredded dick.

Isnt it true that when you have sex (non palm) that endorphins are released which give you much more pleasure than just bashing one out onto your carpet.

I can also see how restraint and control can help to give you more determination in the field...

Anyway... At the moment I'm sitting with about 10 firefox sessions open and trying to use willpower as a preventative method... Sure the odd night of tender self love is OK... But isnt it better when you feel like you are in control...


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I have a medical condition that makes me masturbate once a day. :(


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My suggestion would be to not look at porn. I think that desensitizes you from going out and trying. Use your imagination and control yourself from looking at porn.


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what kind of medical condition?

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Keep it under control... and under no circumstances do it right before a sarge. But, thinking that jerking it will wreck your desire to sarge may be true.. but it's up to you to crush that limiting belief and go out anyway.


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This seems to be a topic with inconclusive results. Good or bad? What should you do? First my more complex explanation. I call it the "One With The Universe" theory.

The "One With the Universe" theory was named by me due to my Buddhist/Taoist philosophical background along with the nature of how I feel when I'm in this state. There have been times where I've jacked it like I'll never need to use it again, no doubt. I agree with Mamou Playboy, porn can desensitize you but let's face it: people in porn look damn good. Anyways, whenever I've relieved myself of all tension and desire, I realize that it becomes much easier for me to socialize and relate with anyone. Even an HB9 or whatever. Why? Because I feel "One With the Universe." I feel no sexual attraction (therefore I'm no longer a threat). I feel like all beings are beautiful and that there's fulfilment alone in just connecting with another being. I can hear ants crawling at my feet. This is probably the closest that I've come to enlightenment but there it is: when I've done it to an extreme I am comfortable with myself and everything around me. I have no desire or ulterior motives with the opposite sex. I'm just a friendly harmless guy who'd love to talk to that girl over there.

Now the downside? Yeah, sometimes I feel more tired. I don't get as hard and my man milk becomes clear (which I suppose could be counted as yet another positive. If an "accident" happens then maybe I've just reduced the risk of pregnancy).

What happens when I hold it too long? Well, after a while I get less erections (maybe since I'm psychologically trying to control myself, I start becoming good at fighting them off... which worries me), my man chowder becomes thicker and more white (I don't know if that's necessarily a plus) and I become more irritable and short tempered.

My answer? I guess it depends on the individual. Find out how long you can go before you become a prick! Find out how much is too much to where you start feeling tired all the time or whatever. Each person's different so find out what works for you and find your balance, just like in anything.

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I’ve decided to give this a shot. Normally I knock one off once a day.

Right now I’m approaching my second day, so far so good. I feel relaxed and a tad horny. I have to say that I’m more proactive, I’m doing things now rather then putting them off, also I had a rather descent sleep which is unusual for me.

I suspect that tomorrow is going to be a struggle, will keep you posted.


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i fully agree with tao. when i see a 9 at a pub, i think to myself, 'i just saw a 10, naked, in a position i can't even describe. you are a 9, clothed, and probably not as flexible.' i still talk to girls because i want more then just a random fuck. that's what drives me.


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what kind of medical condition?
I have acute prostitus whcih basically clogs my prostate. If I dont clear the pipes it backsup and makes it painful when I release next time.


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Screw what Mystery and any other 'Guru' says. If you want to have a beat, go for it. If you think you can go without, don't have one just for the sake of having one. Just don't let it take priority over other things,
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friend rings up:
Mate: "Hey man! Wanna go out later on?"

"Nah, reckon I'll just have the night in," you say while pulling your weasel.

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You know I read in Maxim one time by the way is the awesomest mag ever.

Anyways they said that masturbation helps to keep the doctors away. Why? Because the backup fluid is stored in the prostate gland then when you released those fluids alot of times a week or whatever. It will prevent prostate cancer.

Also, another note. Doctor said to me to not jerk it everyday maybe 2 - 3 times a week would be good? NOw why in the fucking world would he say that? Because 1) Your semen need natural sugar stored within your body and the food you eat. 2) Also, your sperm live off the sugar that is dissolved through the DI track which leads to the creation of your spermians! 3) When woman say that your cum taste bad! Ever get that? It's because one they don't eat proper sugar nutritions to feed those soldiers to taste good. A player once told me that if you drink alot of pine-apple juice or anything that has a sweet taste to it. Drink it and women will want more of your cum in her mouth. :shock: Dunno if that's true!

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