Masturbation's effects on Social Shyness



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i ' mozy fresh, swear on my air force 1's, that i will not masturbate for a month.

But i gonna need 2 more girls, a prossie, a new hobbie and an extra 40 smokes aweek.

I think i can manage that


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Okay, well I tried the one week challenge, as opposed to the 12-16 hour challenge. I'll tell you, it felt a lot better after holding out for a week. On that principle alone, I'm on the once a week schedule. I'm gonna mark it on the calendar!

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whether your results are positive or negative, you must admit, it can be pretty rough.

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What do AFC's lack? The skills to attract and seduce women. We're PUA's, or at least PUA's in training and that involves not only learning about methods and confidence but also to unlearn to old ways.

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I find that if I masturbate immediately before going out by myself, i'm less likely to go out. but that's it

but really, even if you've gotten off 10 times that day, it's easy to get back in to a social and sexual mood once you're out gaming.

my motto is nearly every day, just not directly before going out


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I was reading that new book by Style: Rules Of The Game, I highly recommend it you guys, Anyway on II:The Style Diaries, The Pickup Artist's Companion, He talks about not beating it for 30 days. He said that it helps producers, rock stars, and even anybody who focus their energy on something more productive. I tried doing this but only lasted for 3 days. I was tempted into watching some porn, then i beat it, i couldn't help it. But then i felt guilty, I don't know why but i just did. Style only lasted 11 days, He masterbated on the ledge of a window and people saw him from the elevator that they were on. But he did having phone sex with some girl, that he never met LOL you gotta read this story.

We should motivate ourself not be spank the monkey, to see if it does motivate us to go for the real thing, the ladies, The HB; Shit last year i didn't masturbate for a month, 1) because i was too tired and i had two jobs, so i was always thinking about sex. But then i went online to sign up on TRUE.com
I met these two girls i banged them the same month of January one week from the other. Boy was i pleased.


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If you wank everyday whats type of motivation are you going to have to interact with women? I say NONE! i agree with that once a week theory.I also believe for some reason when you wank everyday you do get more anxious.I think its something to do with letting out testosterone with your load every single day doesnt seem to healthy for a man.Thats my two cents anyway


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I don't know guys. I tried the once a week thing before I even knew about any game stuff and I couldn't do it.

I tried it again recently (unrelated to the thread). I said I was only going to whack it on Sundays.

By the time Wednesday rolled around, I crashed. Hard. I jerked it three times and I have been doing it every day since. I just can't help it and I don't know how anyone can?

ps. For reference, I even jerk it when I go home after having sex with a woman.


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I think it depends on where your sticking points are within the game. If you have AA or are shy, wacking it every day will help with this. It will prevent you from putting the "pussy on a pedastil" because you know you can get satisfaction elsewhere. It makes conversation more normal, as if you were talking to someone you knew.

However, if you need motivation to go out and sarge, not wacking can help. It will make you get up and go out to get the satisfaction rather than sitting at home and playing stranger.

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ok, everyone stop, right now. (especially if you are masturbating, lol.)

I posted this sort of topic up a while ago, back when i was still an AFC, and like many of you i just thought, "well they said it works in 'there's something about mary,' so it must be right..."

WRONG

first off it's just a movie, so it's already a bit fictionalized.

does masturbation relax you? yes, but does it improve your game? NO!!!

there have been several studies that show people who masturbate often are more likely to be depressed as long as it continues.
and does a chick like some deppresed guy? NO.

so you might be thinking, "ya LuckyMan might have heard it in a study, but that doesn't affect me or mean it's real."
WRONG AGAIN

after seeing this study i thought, well maybe i would do a little experiment.

so what i did is i went to school one day, where i masturbated the night before. and what i found is
1. I was more tired
2. I didn't pay attention as much
3. When i talked to girls, i started to get AFC.

this is probally because i just thought, well if i mess up right here, i can just go home and masturbate, and my women problem is solved.

i did this a couple of days and got the same results.

now, when i didn't masturbate i discovered a couple of things.
1. I was getting work done, and i was wide awake throughout the whole day.
2. throughout the whole day people were laughing at all my jokes.
3. I was pretty much a PIMP with women.

i now had that sexual drive i so desperately needed the days before this.


I understand that the AFC move is to just go and choke the chicken, and i understand most of you defending masturbation are still learning how to be a PUA.

however, get some self control, don't masturbate, and get women.

if you don't trust me, just try the experiment out your self. and you might learn something new.


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Damn dude NO wonder i always felt like shit before i went out and sarge! LOL But im doing the 30 days no Masterbation program by styles.


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Nice post Murdoc, I really think jacking off does reduce the will to not go out. Well, at least for me lol.

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What this thread is about, is "how does masturbation, or lack of, affect my frame"

after I blow a load, whether through masturbation or sex I'm in the following frame:
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Relaxed calm don't feel like I need to get laid clear minded

If I haven't gotten off in awhile, I'm in the following frame:
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frustrated On edge Anxious feel like I really want to have sex (NEEDY!!!) clouded (have trouble differentiating between what my cock is saying, and what my mind is saying)
Masturbation seems to have no bearing on whether I feel like "going out" or not, but I can see how some people might jack off then take a nap.

Given these two frames, I would much rather go out with having just masturbated, then going out with a loaded gun, because i'd rather be seen as a relaxed, cool guy who's out to have fun, as opposed to an anxious, on edge guy who is trying to fuck every piece of tail within ten feet of him.

since each of us is different, my suggestion, is to make a list or your own, about how getting off makes you feel, then decide what frame you'd rather be in, when you go out sarging.

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i spank the monkey way too much... i'll have to cut down, but it will be tough... who's with me!

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Yesterday it was my day 13, but I goot so needy, I just had to do it
I'ts really hard


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