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| Author: | chillinvillin [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 7:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | got a wingman question |
Ok so me and my friends sarge lots of random girls. But when we do my friend usually takes the lead and controls all the conversation and I feel like I have to jump in to say something. What should I do about that? |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 8:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: got a wingman question |
Quote: Ok so me and my friends sarge lots of random girls. But when we do my friend usually takes the lead and controls all the conversation and I feel like I have to jump in to say something. What should I do about that?
Hey Chillinvillin,I wanted to take a moment and try to assist you with a pretty tough issue that you have here. The first thing I would say is to talk to your wing about this and express to him what's going on. The other thing I would tell you is that you need to be opening and working set individually. I'm not sure how long you've been in the community or your wing has been at this stuff. My general rule of thumb for winging is until you are pulling consistently on your own you don't need to wing anyone. Basically, unless one of you is very experienced you probably don't need to wing each other in set. That is not to say that you can't hang out together, hit up venues together, help each other stay motivated. That means you don't need two guys learning PUA in the same set. The logic behind this is simple. If you have your own set of sticking points you are trying to overcome, and you wing has his own set of sticking points he's trying to overcome. We've now made it twice as hard to get the girl. The other part of that is you each need to develop your own game and abilities at getting the girl on your own, as you won't always have each other around. Also, it can be a crutch to try and use someone else in set. Instead of having to be put in akward moments and thinking on your feet that teach you, you have this guy in set making it easy for you. It's not necessarily bad results wise but will be if you ever have to go out alone. Anyways, enough about all that stuff. Just bottom line talk to him about it. You should be giving each other value and time in set to talk. Here are some of the best collection of winging tips and tactics that I have found, a buddy of mine wrote, and I posted it on the forum some time ago. wing-rules-and-general-tactics-vt18166. ... light=wing Hope it helps, Jon |
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