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| Author: | Brompton [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 9:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Looking for a weekly PUA wingman in London |
hey hey.. in a nutshell, i’m looking for someone else in London who’s up for going out once a week to practise picking up women. I don’t mind whether this person is much better than me, on a par, or worse than me. But I simply want to designate an evening to getting better, with mutual encouragement etc. I’ll try and give you an idea of my situation….i'm going to try and be as concise as possible.. i've always been pretty great at making people in general like me, but terrible at making girls want me.. i really have never had any game, only jokes.. and when things have gone badly with girls, in general, i've tended to gravitate to spending time with friends more, enjoying making people laugh, and being hedonistic in other ways.. I can be funny and interesting to the girls I want to get with, but not in a way that makes them want me, and I watch as they go and get with people who are less funny, less interesting. I make friends, good friends, quickly, but watch the girls pass by, one after another. i'm 23 now and i've had enough of this.. about 3 years ago i read the game over the space of a few days, but that, if anything, actually made it worse. because i didn't suddenly start going out and trying to learn new skills and practise and push myself like PUAs do... instead i just took on board the gist of the information without applying any of it, and became even more self-conscious due to fully realising that when i'm with women there's a right way and a wrong way, and i consistently do things the wrong way.. i have a very active social life. I barely have time to juggle my friends with my job and my interests... in social circles i'm often the centre of attention, loud, but essentially a bit of a clown.. I consistently hear from male and female friends and acquaintances alike that they’re surprised that I don’t do well with girls, and this is because they witness my non-sexual confidence a lot more than they witness my lac k of social sexual confidence with women. Once more, this lack of social sexual confidence with women isn’t as dramatic as it is with some guys. A lot of PUAs I’ve heard about started at a level where they could barely look or talk to them… I’ve never been like that, but instead I sabotage myself with jokes and humour etc…I get nervous so try and make them like me the way I make male friends like me – with laughter. I tell stories, talk too much, and come off seeming as if I need approval. Basically, I want to push myself out of the comfort zone. With women, I need to take a good few steps back and start with the absolute basics. My natural instincts of what to say have failed me all my life so far, and it’s time to regularly start forcing myself out of that comfort zone, and try something new.. I want to go out and practise meeting women PUA style.. I don’t want to do this with any existing friends who already have existing expectations of me. Rather, I’d like to join up with someone here, and hopefully form a new friendship on the basis of this common interest… of taking actions when things aren’t right, pursuing what we want in life, becoming better people, and generally having a lot of fun. I’ve probably said enough now! Let me know if anyone’s interested.. like i said.. if you're experienced and better than me and can teach me things, great (i can teach you other things too, like how to give a professional standard full body thai massage etc). if you're not experienced and on a par or worse than me, also great, it doesn't matter, we'll find our way.. |
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| Author: | realzander [ Wed Mar 07, 2012 11:21 pm ] |
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Hey man, you seem like a cool guy. I find I'm having a similar problem but working on it intensely. Would be good to wing you, double team the ladies and get this game right... Drop me a text... Im at 07551765473 |
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| Author: | ultraviolet123 [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 12:42 pm ] |
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Same problems as you... lets break this stupid cycle together man. drop me a text 07405911226 |
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| Author: | Irish123 [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 4:01 pm ] |
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same too bro. Have to GET OUT AND ACTUALLY DO IT!!!! We have nothing to loose! Also, how did you learn to do thai massage??? I used to live in thailand boxing |
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| Author: | r3b3l [ Sun Mar 25, 2012 1:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Count me in |
Mate, I have the exact same problem... I do have approach anxiety but once I'm in the zone, I can talk to sets of people and have them like me instantly. My major sticking point is sexually escalating with the women I want to get with. I would love to hang out and go sarging and we can help each other improve. Send me a pm if you're interested. Cheers. |
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| Author: | boomber [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 12:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Wing |
Hi mate. Have you ever tried day game? I too could do with a bit of support. I'm based around Crouch Hill, N4, you? Boomba |
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| Author: | Hold [ Thu Mar 29, 2012 10:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wing |
Quote: Have you ever tried day game?
Me and another forumgoer here are actually in London for day game tomorrow. Anyone's welcome to join us if they'd like, drop me a text. 07896432986
I too could do with a bit of support. |
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| Author: | Londonguy25 [ Fri Mar 30, 2012 11:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Looking for wingmen |
Hey my name is Owen I am 25 and a graduate professional. Just moved to London, I don't know what places to go chat up women. I live in west london. Feel free to text me on 07709762290 if you need a wingman, I am up for going out hitting the bars/clubs! |
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| Author: | go_for_glory [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 5:22 pm ] |
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Hey guys! Vik here.. Looking to head out tonight.. I have finally been able to successfully ditch my friends to make it a productive night on the company of a PUA buddy! I can be your wingman and have you become mine! It is all interchangeable that too within the same conversation! I'm not an amateur and not a pro either. Pretty flexible with the level of the PUA who joins me! Text me at 07825642014. |
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| Author: | go_for_glory [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 5:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Pick up tonight (Saturday March 31)! |
Quote: Hey guys! Vik here.. Looking to head out tonight.. I have finally been able to successfully ditch my friends to make it a productive night on the company of a PUA buddy! I can be your wingman and have you become mine! It is all interchangeable that too within the same conversation! I'm not an amateur and not a pro either. Pretty flexible with the level of the PUA who joins me! Text me at 07825642014.
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| Author: | Gman93 [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 2:28 pm ] |
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You guys still around? Hi im in the process of moving to London and want to get back into PUAing, so looking for new wingmen. cheers, gman |
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