I just wanted to say that I've found the most important part of the game to be kino escalation/isolation.
Prior to this last week/week and a half, I have been doing a few routines, and a LOT of cocky funny to build attraction, and I've had fantastic results. I want to thank all of you guys for this community. I know it's helped me, and I know it's helped a lot of you, too.
The last little while, though, possibly 2 weeks, I've let my cocky funny just become second nature, and focused my conscious effort more on kino escalation. My speed from start to finish, from open to close, has increased tremendously. It now takes hardly any time at all, if I'm focused on physical escalation, to get there. Kino, I've discovered, is more important than all the witty innuendos you can toss into a conversation, given five minutes.
And maybe it's just the girls I've been gaming, recently, but I've discovered that isolation is just as, if not even more so, important than that! There was this one girl I went out with this week, who is a complete virgin, never had a serious boyfriend, and even though she's pretty hot, may not have really made out seriously with anyone. I've been gaming her maybe a month, and have raised her from wanting to stand a few feet away to full contact almost all the time. And the biggest leaps by far have been during the time I was focusing on kino. She would allow kisses, but not really making out.
Then, yesterday in Disneyland's Haunted Mansion, it happened: She just turned to me and totally let herself go. I was completely flabbergasted. Where had this sudden change come from? Then I realized that it was the isolation of the ride. Being totally dark inside, no one else could see what we were doing. And she went all out. It was simply a matter of her being comfortable with PDA. I'm sure that this variable is different for every girl (some don't care at all about completely making out in public, for some (like her) it's a major deal).
Something similar happened later last night with a different girl. She didn't mind PDA too much, but would only take it so far. Then, we went to play mini-golf, and after the place closed, we waited around and chatted by our cars. Almost the instant that everyone else left, she practically jumped at me, trying to tear my clothes off, and all I could think was "why hadn't I isolated earlier?!"
I realize this is starting to sound like just a couple of field reports, but I believe this should be in the Lounge section because this has been a major discovery for me, and I am excited about exploring this further, and want to share this with all of you, so that those who have possibly been stuck with the same issue can try this out, and get some serious results. Best of luck!
