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| Author: | dakiller [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 12:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Dating a woman who is taller than you? - PLEASE READ |
I'm only 5'9, not that short, but pretty average. My problem is though that many girls, and beautiful ones, can be taller, 5'10 and upwards. And girls that height tend to only date guys who are taller or the same height as them. (I believe its because psychologically they look for a man that can protect them, and obviously a guy shorter than them wouldnt be as good) What I'm asking is, is it possible to date girls that are taller than you? (and not just the odd exception, but the majority of women) and are there any techniques/methods to use if your shorter than the HB? Thanks Nick PS any thoughts on this are welcome |
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| Author: | Kupid [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 12:46 pm ] |
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I'll say it like this man, it is an advantage, however it's not make or break thing. If you make her having fun, Shaq can come by and she'll chose you (OK well Shaq itself would be a though one to crack  ).Bad example: Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman (Tom is 10cm smaller, that's why she couldn't wear high heels, when she was with him  )
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| Author: | dakiller [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 12:50 pm ] |
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Yeah, I mean obviously a taller guy is better, it's all about our caveman mentality of attraction, women subconciosuly choosing someone who can protect them. I was just wondering if this short-falling can be overcome for taller women |
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| Author: | Kupid [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 12:54 pm ] |
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Quote: If you make her having fun
See where I'm getting
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| Author: | TheNaturalPlayboy [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 1:19 pm ] |
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I say yes because some of my friends fuck taller women and it doesn't even matter, if she says that she like tall men doesn't mean that you don't have any chance at all.. yup she definitely feels SAFER when she's around with taller men.. not really a big issue though.. goodluck!  -TheNaturalPlayboy |
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| Author: | TheNaturalPlayboy [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 1:28 pm ] |
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Here you go man. http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi/51_dating_girl.html |
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| Author: | the reporter [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 2:51 pm ] |
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no never for me |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 8:36 pm ] |
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I selected no more because find a girl taller than me is pretty much impossible. But if I did find one I think I be able to close her. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 8:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dating a woman who is taller than you? - PLEASE READ |
Quote: I believe its because psychologically they look for a man that can protect them, and obviously a guy shorter than them wouldnt be as good Your a bit wrong well not totally. Yes girls like taller guys for the whole protection thing. But when it comes to tall girls dating a guy that is noticeably shorter than them really stands out in public and most tall girls don't want that sort of attention. Its not socially taboo to date a guy shorter but it does look odd never the less. And by social "rules" tall people go together.Quote: What I'm asking is, is it possible to date girls that are taller than you? (and not just the odd exception, but the majority of women) Yes.Quote: and are there any techniques/methods to use if your shorter than the HB? Besides walking "tall", as long as the girl isn't that much taller than you (ie no more than 3 inches) you can pretty much game her like normal. As she will see you are secure in your height and have the confidence to approach a girl taller than you. But if you try to game a girl that is 4+ inches taller than you you are going to have a harder time as she will notice the height difference more and such be less interested because of it. Not saying it ain't possible but its more of an uphill battle.
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| Author: | madals [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 8:49 pm ] |
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Seriously, the mis-information in this thread is shocking. This here, is a pre-warning that what I am about to say is going to be in really big, red capital letters: you have been warned..... NO ONE FACTOR WILL AFFECT YOUR CHANCES WITH A WOMAN* There, I said it. Now, I am VERY short - to the point nearly every woman I meet is taller than me. It doesn't matter though, because I am OK with her being taller than me and OK with other people noticing she is taller than me. HOWEVER, don't kid yourself into thinking it isn't going to be a mark against you - but guess what chuckes, so is the fact your not a millionaire/male model/super hero. Women don't look for 1 feature in men just in the same way men don't look for 1 feature in women - its about the whole person. Now before you panic, this isn't the start of some "its what's on the inside that counts" speech your mummy gave you when that pretty girl you liked told you to go fuck yourself - its about sexual selection being a numbers game. People spend their whole time judging everyone else - things are either viewed as positive or negative and overall they decide how much they like you. The fact your shorter than her is a negative but so is the fact you have that slightly wonky nose - but you are great fun, social, sexual and make her laugh.... guess what, you are going to get laid * when I said it wont effect your chances with a woman, obviously there are the odd exception. Some women will just be totally turned off by a guy shorter than them to the point you could be a mini-brad pitt and she would still say no. Likewise though, there are some women who will be REALLY turned on by you being shorter - again, only a few. The majority of women will be somewhere between those two extremes. |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Fri Jul 15, 2011 2:12 pm ] |
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Height, weight, eye color.. these are all just things which have little to moderate impact on women. Th truth is she'll see you the way you see yourself. If you're uncomfortable in her company, that feeling will permeate the surroundings and she'll feel the same way about you. Don't let physical things affect you that much. They are temporary. |
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| Author: | V4mpIR [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 5:22 am ] |
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Lol im almost 2 meters so id never dated a taller girl actually as a matter of fact id never even met a girl taller then me 
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| Author: | jaydeedee [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 7:53 am ] |
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So I'm 5'5" and I have a real thing for tall girls (hah, I know...sad, right) but I was out tonight with a bunch of friends (all AFC's), and a set approached us, including a girl who was 6'1", meaning I was instantly attracted to her. She was probably the leader of the group, as was I in my group. Tall girl was also married. I tried to run a bit of game on her, but was still a little confused as to what to do. After around 15 minutes of conversation with the whole group, she says that she feels like I have some problem with her (in a playful way), and she really feels like she wants me to like her. She was late 30's, tall, and married; I'm 21, short, and single. I was sort of lost as to what to do after this point. What was my move? P.S.: I might have been fine if not for my friends (they probably had an issue with working on a married woman...probably understandable), but I'm looking for any specific advice if possible. |
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