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Is there ever a right time?

Was seeing a girl for awhile before I told her I was into PUA. She did not take it well at all.

"Look, I'm a friendly person. I only want to be with you, but I'm still going to flirt with other women. That's who I am, I'm not going to change, and if you can't handle that then maybe you should leave."

Will she like hearing this? Probably not. Will she stick around? Most likely.

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She didn't stick around!
LOL

That's almost exactly what I said. We'd go out and I'd number close girls. I wouldn't message them and I said I only liked her, she just couldn't handle it really.

Is there ever a right time?

Was seeing a girl for awhile before I told her I was into PUA. She did not take it well at all.

Quote:

She didn't stick around!
LOL

That's almost exactly what I said. We'd go out and I'd number close girls. I wouldn't message them and I said I only liked her, she just couldn't handle it really.

Is there ever a right time?

Was seeing a girl for awhile before I told her I was into PUA. She did not take it well at all.

Author:	Bloke [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:41 am ]
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Is there ever a right time? Was seeing a girl for awhile before I told her I was into PUA. She did not take it well at all.

Author:	Torn Stitch [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 4:15 am ]
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I dont think I'd ever straight up tell her..pointless really

Author:	TheMagicalHindu [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 7:46 am ]
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No there really isn't unless you say it as a joke and youre being cocky/funny.

Author:	YouWish99 [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 9:30 am ]
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Quote: Is there ever a right time? Was seeing a girl for awhile before I told her I was into PUA. She did not take it well at all. Usually right in the beginning or whenever it comes up. Although, that assumes the pick up material you're using isn't untruthful to who you are or are outright lies. Women won't abide lies and cover ups, but they will respect you being up front with them. Its called setting expectations. If you want an open relationship you tell her that's what you're looking for in the relationship. You don't wait until she catches you with another women and then backpedal saying you never discussed the issue. If you go out with her, but still flirt with other women she knows you're going to do this. If she makes a big issue out of it you can sit her down and tell her, "Look, I'm a friendly person. I only want to be with you, but I'm still going to flirt with other women. That's who I am, I'm not going to change, and if you can't handle that then maybe you should leave." Will she like hearing this? Probably not. Will she stick around? Most likely. A lot of women entertain the idea of being "the one" and if they believe this to be true they will stick around and rationalize the situation. She'll say things to herself like, "I hate that he's out there sleeping with these other girls, but I know he really loves me." Now, would you come out and say, "Hey, I'm a pua, just thought you should know." No. She's likely to say, "What's a pua? What's a pick up artist? You mean like those guys in that book I read?" And think, "...but you're not a magician...so, what you're saying is you're just lying to me to get into my pants?" Boom. Game over. You're suddenly perceived as as a lying, line spitting, fake.

Author:	Bloke [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 11:02 am ]
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Quote: "Look, I'm a friendly person. I only want to be with you, but I'm still going to flirt with other women. That's who I am, I'm not going to change, and if you can't handle that then maybe you should leave." Will she like hearing this? Probably not. Will she stick around? Most likely. She didn't stick around! LOL That's almost exactly what I said. We'd go out and I'd number close girls. I wouldn't message them and I said I only liked her, she just couldn't handle it really.

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Author:	0uch [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 12:13 pm ]
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lol never say your a pua. I post on facebook about going out and picking up on women but is never "Going out and picking up on women." Is more like "going out to lay the smack down on some candy ass bitches, there gonna smell what the rock is cooking tonight." or another example is "going out tonight to sweet talk some women into buying me flowers and candy." A lot of girls I met sarging are on my facebook. I can't say I am picking up on women. BAD!

Author:	YouWish99 [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 1:05 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: "Look, I'm a friendly person. I only want to be with you, but I'm still going to flirt with other women. That's who I am, I'm not going to change, and if you can't handle that then maybe you should leave." Will she like hearing this? Probably not. Will she stick around? Most likely. She didn't stick around! LOL That's almost exactly what I said. We'd go out and I'd number close girls. I wouldn't message them and I said I only liked her, she just couldn't handle it really. Probably had more to do with waiting to tell her like you didn't want her to know or were unsure of how she would take the news. Should have let her watch you delete them/shred them. Then again some women are always going to be highly insecure, but they usually stick around even then. Women who are more secure are usually dating more than one guy and expect the guys they are seeing to be seeing other women. Then if it gets serious they will sit down and have a talk about being exclusive.

Author:	zappo [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 4:07 pm ]
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No offence but that sounds like the most RETARDED idea ever before telling a girl something ask yourself this "What will I gain from it ?" "why am I telling her this ?" "What is my desired outcome of telling her this" Seriously why ? this is so stupid. Also Da cant stop laughing at what you posted :')

Author:	ForeverFatal125 [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 4:46 pm ]
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Quote: Is there ever a right time? Was seeing a girl for awhile before I told her I was into PUA. She did not take it well at all. Yup, fucked up big time. Don't ever let them know.

Author:	trixsta [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 6:02 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: "Look, I'm a friendly person. I only want to be with you, but I'm still going to flirt with other women. That's who I am, I'm not going to change, and if you can't handle that then maybe you should leave." Will she like hearing this? Probably not. Will she stick around? Most likely. She didn't stick around! LOL That's almost exactly what I said. We'd go out and I'd number close girls. I wouldn't message them and I said I only liked her, she just couldn't handle it really. Well you don't exactly get girls' numbers for fun do you?

Author:	Defy [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 6:35 pm ]
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Quote: Is there ever a right time? Was seeing a girl for awhile before I told her I was into PUA. She did not take it well at all. In my experience no good can come out of this. Just say you grew up with 3 sisters (credit to Sinn).

Author:	bartlebee64 [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 8:52 pm ]
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lol...why dont you just tell your into sociology This isnt some clan or religion. You dont have to be like I AM A PICK UP ARTIST...your just a guy that likes girls..lol

Author:	Troyden [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 9:36 pm ]
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Dude, NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO The only girls you should tell, should be girls that you want to be your pivot, and even then you should decide if your female friends would take it well Personally, I would not ever tell a girl that i'm a PUA, but if you feel it's right, then do it Hope This Helps, Peace, Troyden

Author:	Kupid [ Sat Jul 09, 2011 9:41 pm ]
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You know what I think that you can do something like what bartlebee64 said, you tell her, that you're fascinated by social dynamics / body language / cold reading, hell you can even show her or teach her a few things and if she asks you something you tell her, how this works with girls

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Author:	LushPUA [ Sun Jul 10, 2011 3:16 am ]
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why? why is it pertinent? nobody needs to know. it shouldn't matter just tell her you have mad game lol you're saying the same thing but not associating it to something girls don't understand (PUA)