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Author:  CaptinAmerica [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 3:09 pm ]
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Whats up fellas Question for ya all. I'm 24 own 2 houses and drive a 05 BMW 5 series. Should work these into a story to DHV or will this seam like I'm DLV by bragging about what i have. I never bring these things up while in the feild and even after girls see my car i never tell them i own 2 houses until later on like the 3rd time we hang out, so i can see if they are quality. I told one girl straight off the bat and she turned out to be a gold digger all the way, so i have since stopped. What do you think? I would never bring it right up but i might talk about where they live, if they like it, how they like there landlord, and then tell then what i do for my tenants. This would prompt her to ask "your tenants"? and then the car thing i usually never bring up because honestly who gives a fuck what you drive?

O ya and I still never pay for drinks :)
Author:  saqchek [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 3:20 pm ]
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Whats up fellas Question for ya all. I'm 24 own 2 houses and drive a 05 BMW 5 series. Should work these into a story to DHV or will this seam like I'm DLV by bragging about what i have. I never bring these things up while in the feild and even after girls see my car i never tell them i own 2 houses until later on like the 3rd time we hang out, so i can see if they are quality. I told one girl straight off the bat and she turned out to be a gold digger all the way, so i have since stopped. What do you think? I would never bring it right up but i might talk about where they live, if they like it, how they like there landlord, and then tell then what i do for my tenants. This would prompt her to ask "your tenants"? and then the car thing i usually never bring up because honestly who gives a fuck what you drive?

O ya and I still never pay for drinks :)
It would be bragging IMO. Women can pick up on shit like that, let them find out those DHVs through personal experience or through 3rd party. The end result could be they think you are arrogant and insecure and need wealth to make up for your confidence, or they will say....."oh shit, i'm going to get free shit from him and use holding out sex to get those things". Either way, not a good situation.
Author:  CaptinAmerica [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 3:40 pm ]
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my thoughts exactly. Some times a buddy of mine will bring it up if i go out with him and a few of her friends like the 2nd or third time depending on how I met her. The women that I have told after a while think its awesome and usually understand why i didn't tell them right off the bat.
Author:  Alphagame [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 3:43 pm ]
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I know the answer to this with no doubt! I've been there and done that.

When I first started practicing pick-up, I had DHV stories that included my car, etc. I was getting blown out of sets all the time with these DHV stories.

They will sense you are insecure if you casually mention your beamer in a story you're telling within 5 minutes of meeting them. DO NOT mention anything about your wealth early into the sarge. It WILL get you blown out of the set every frickin time.

I use DHV stories that indicate I don't give a shit what they think. I'll talk about how I accidentally walked into the woman's restroom a few minutes ago. Or I'll tell a DHV story about how I totally forgot to brush my teeth yesterday. These kinds of stories aren't the kinds of stories men tell when they're trying to impress a woman. She'll wonder why you're not trying to impress her and then she'll seek your approval.

That's the thing that sucks about having bad ass cars and stuff...you can't use it to appeal to them in a bar. Unless they see you pull up to the place and get out of your car, your car is of no use.

I'll usually ask them to walk me out to my car when I'm ready to get going. That works out pretty well. I can actually see the attraction increasing by the look on their face when they see my car. It's amazing.
Author:  CaptinAmerica [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 3:52 pm ]
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I'll usually ask them to walk me out to my car when I'm ready to get going. That works out pretty well. I can actually see the attraction increasing by the look on their face when they see my car. It's amazing.
That believe it or not is what I'm not going for. I don't really want to use the car as a seduction technique even though like you said most people guys and girls are attracted to nice things and people that have nice things. I can run pretty decent game with out using money its something I have worked hard for but can stay out of my sarge. I see exactly what you mean how its very AFC to bring money/ wealth into a convo. Thanks for the validation.

Sarge on
Author:  Alphagame [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 3:57 pm ]
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Well, the car works out pretty well for me. I usually kiss them in the bar before I get ready to venue change. Then, I'll say, "Hey, I gotta get going. Why don't you walk me out to my car?" and I grab her hand as I say this. Usually, I'll just start walking toward the door with her hand in mine. They always follow.

Once we get out to my car, the top is usually down and I can sense the attraction growing. Then I'll say, "Yeah, I just got it in June. It's really fun to drive. Get in, let's go for a drive."

It works for me.
Author:  CaptinAmerica [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 4:34 pm ]
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good stuff man. venue change with the car is good stuff.

top down, baby baaabbby. Mine is a hard top coupe
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