Simplest strategy ever- be the man and tell them what to do.
Nothing is a bigger turn on in bed than for the man to tall the women what to do. If she feels she can have her way with you forget about trying new stuff. She'll stick to what she knows and expect you to do the same.
On the other hand, if you tell her to handcuff her hands, lay down and close her eyes you can do to her almost anything. And yes, she will probably like it!
I find it ironic that lots of girl's fantasy is to have rough sex or even forced sex, but we'll deal with the psychology later.
Right now go out and get a pair of handcuffs, rope, maybe a vibrator and a few other sex toys. Use them however you see fit and tell us how it went on the lay reports. Details please
