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Author:  The_Boss_ [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 4:45 pm ]
Post subject:  managing a women list!
ok so I have an ever-changing list of my top women who I consider myself in with.

general rule is that these are girls I could get on the phone with right now and organize a date with for tomorrow evening.

Its the current women that I have slept with, plan on sleeping with or have a thing with.

Women get added to the list all the time and women get taken down from it. like a plant, it needs be allowed to grow and also needs pruning at times! I also give it a ranking system, like a ladder.

I sometimes get to a point where there is too much situation going on, that ill tone down meeting new women, ill be satisfied with the list I have and just try manage the ones I have for the time being, and it helps me keep on track. I know its not a numbers game, but I have 7 at the moment and thats usually a nice number, one for every day of the week! :wink:
Author:  SiNfUl [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 6:24 pm ]
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Nice work my friend.
Author:  king0s [ Fri Apr 22, 2011 12:35 am ]
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am just rAFC, so no offense.. but i think when u have a situation where u are satisfied with what you have its usually a bad step which may have late effects.. I would say not having any list and pick up new girls is the better way..
Author:  Kobe Bryant [ Fri Apr 22, 2011 1:00 am ]
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Congrats. My list, right now, consist of 0. (It could be 2, but there HB6's. I want beautiful women lol) Hopefully things will change. Starting the next time I go sarging, which is tomorrow probably, I'm just going to let my inner game take over. Go into my "good mood" mode and just have fun. If I get the girls number, than that will be the icing of my cake. Before, the HB's number would be my cake, but I always held back on approaching and had AA. Hopefully, this will change my mindset.
Author:  trixsta [ Fri Apr 22, 2011 10:17 am ]
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ok so I have an ever-changing list of my top women who I consider myself in with.

general rule is that these are girls I could get on the phone with right now and organize a date with for tomorrow evening.

Its the current women that I have slept with, plan on sleeping with or have a thing with.

Women get added to the list all the time and women get taken down from it. like a plant, it needs be allowed to grow and also needs pruning at times! I also give it a ranking system, like a ladder.

I sometimes get to a point where there is too much situation going on, that ill tone down meeting new women, ill be satisfied with the list I have and just try manage the ones I have for the time being, and it helps me keep on track. I know its not a numbers game, but I have 7 at the moment and thats usually a nice number, one for every day of the week! :wink:
Does this thread have a point?
Author:  The_Boss_ [ Fri Apr 22, 2011 11:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: managing a women list!
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ok so I have an ever-changing list of my top women who I consider myself in with.

general rule is that these are girls I could get on the phone with right now and organize a date with for tomorrow evening.

Its the current women that I have slept with, plan on sleeping with or have a thing with.

Women get added to the list all the time and women get taken down from it. like a plant, it needs be allowed to grow and also needs pruning at times! I also give it a ranking system, like a ladder.

I sometimes get to a point where there is too much situation going on, that ill tone down meeting new women, ill be satisfied with the list I have and just try manage the ones I have for the time being, and it helps me keep on track. I know its not a numbers game, but I have 7 at the moment and thats usually a nice number, one for every day of the week! :wink:
Does this thread have a point?

helll na!
Author:  R.G. [ Fri Apr 22, 2011 9:18 pm ]
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ok so I have an ever-changing list of my top women who I consider myself in with.

general rule is that these are girls I could get on the phone with right now and organize a date with for tomorrow evening.

Its the current women that I have slept with, plan on sleeping with or have a thing with.

Women get added to the list all the time and women get taken down from it. like a plant, it needs be allowed to grow and also needs pruning at times! I also give it a ranking system, like a ladder.

I sometimes get to a point where there is too much situation going on, that ill tone down meeting new women, ill be satisfied with the list I have and just try manage the ones I have for the time being, and it helps me keep on track. I know its not a numbers game, but I have 7 at the moment and thats usually a nice number, one for every day of the week! :wink:
Does this thread have a point?
Echo.

I'll give it a point though. Having lots of women is not always as hunky dory as it seems. Each woman can bring her own unique level of hassle or stress to your life, may play with your emotions, etc. If nothing else, each woman takes time from your life. Most people do not have much time in life. You have to become very good at managing your time and your emotions once you start to get lots of women...and you know you are doing well with women when this starts to become a problem.

Often it's only then when you start to think about what you really want from the opposite sex and from life in general, I guess. But my point is, just be prepared for the shit that comes with success...x
Author:  Jav [ Fri Apr 22, 2011 11:27 pm ]
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I agree with R.G.

Many people hold that hollywood view of being with tons of women=happy times, all times.

Then you realize it's not like that and you'll create threads like this to justify you're still on the right path.
coz,
In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king.
Author:  trixsta [ Mon Apr 25, 2011 3:58 pm ]
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Whilst I agree with the top two posters, do not delude yourself OP that you are a victim of the infamous "curse of success".

You'll always have problems with women because no single one is different. If you are still not content with three or even ten women ask yourself if you are doing it because it makes you happy or because you think it'll make you happy.
Author:  The_Boss_ [ Mon Apr 25, 2011 4:12 pm ]
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Whilst I agree with the top two posters, do not delude yourself OP that you are a victim of the infamous "curse of success".

You'll always have problems with women because no single one is different. If you are still not content with three or even ten women ask yourself if you are doing it because it makes you happy or because you think it'll make you happy.

Im the happiest ive ever been right now. and its because of the lifestyle ive created. the women are a bonus. my problem now is... I dont know when to stop, I just keep wanting more. i dont think you can ever rest and just say youre satisfied...... I guess thats part of life
Author:  Rethnu [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 5:31 pm ]
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I dont know when to stop, I just keep wanting more. i dont think you can ever rest and just say youre satisfied...... I guess thats part of life
I hear you, I'm actually having 4-5 girls (I'd say MLTR isn't the right definition for them), and for me it's sometimes stressful to handle them since they all have different needs. Yet I still feel the urge to meet new women, I guess that's either our male-genes, or simply something we got used to from our AFC past...

What I'd like to try in future to make my MLTRs easier to handle is that I'd like to define new "principles" for HBs, like, "how far does she live away", "how good is her personality", "how much spare time does she have to hook up", "is she easy to talk to", etc.
Especially personality is important for me, cause a HB with head-issues can be really stressful sometimes.

The idea is to get myself to focus more on really high class women, then my life could be even better :D
Author:  Melodical [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 6:06 pm ]
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If one of those girls was an HB of extreme quaility not just in looks but the whole package then you wouldn't care about the other six. Maybe you want to up the grade of women you sarge successfully for and push the envelope so to speak till you have three then eventually one. Plus you won't have to worry about "Sevenitis";-)
Author:  Rethnu [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 7:47 am ]
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If one of those girls was an HB of extreme quaility not just in looks but the whole package then you wouldn't care about the other six. Maybe you want to up the grade of women you sarge successfully for and push the envelope so to speak till you have three then eventually one. Plus you won't have to worry about "Sevenitis";-)
For me I'd say that it might happen one day that I'd meet "the one woman" who'd draw me back into monogamy, but I'm definitely not working in that direction, I'm happy with polygamy, I haven't found out why, but that's my nature :D
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