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Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 3:25 pm ]
Post subject:  How to get out of the Friendzone
Hope this helps you guys

Get out of the Friendzone: http://www.sashapua.com/articles/get-ou ... dzone.html

Enjoy!
Author:  $uave [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 5:34 pm ]
Post subject: 
lol man you're lifesaver.

I just got friendzoned, and was going to pm you asking for advice. :) Thanks a lot...(I'll test it on a date on Friday)

but here are couple of problems, I already haven't seen her in a while, but when I asked her out with :

"Alright-My last effort before giving up on you.:)...Let's go to (yogurt/smoothies place) sometime this week. I've never been there, but I've heard its really good...Which one is better for you Thursday or Friday? "

I got a reply

"what is the meaning of giving up on me? Just take me as your friend. I have never been there too and yeah I think Friday is totally fine for me " - WTF am I supposed to do? I was planning to make it as much fun as possible and be as flirtatious as possible, but any tips you'd find especially useful in this particular situation?

P.S. I went on 2 dates with her about 6 months ago, tried to k-close, got cheek, freaked out a bit(my first kjss rejection) out and afc'ed myself, she wasn't talking to me until about 2 months back...and this contact was just occasional.

So my initial and current plan was to have as much fun as possible, flirt as much as possible, + light kino...idk whether ot not I should try to get back to my place " To watch a movie." I personally don't think it would be a good idea.

Would love to hear an opinion from someone more experienced than me.

Would you have any additions to my plan, any criticisms or advices?
Author:  Kabi [ Sun May 01, 2011 3:33 pm ]
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Really nice tips, i've actually done this before but not with game as my intention.
It worked good, she got jealous, she always looked after me, she wanted me.
But all that mixed with alcohol creates an exploding bitch who thinks I hated her (I must have fucked her mentaly) long story short, 1-2 weeks after I got a 5 pages love letter from her where she describes how much she wants me in her life, I saw it as a good sign but it actually didn't work out, maybe some other time in life :)
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Sun May 01, 2011 4:20 pm ]
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Hey what's up with the name change Blond Guy?

Anyway Im gonna checc out the link.

Getting out of the friend one has been an anomaly to the community.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed May 11, 2011 1:45 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Hey what's up with the name change Blond Guy?
I did it months ago! You finally been busy out gaming? ;-)
Author:  Psych3r [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 4:10 pm ]
Post subject:  great article
Thanks Ryan for the great read. I personally think the best approach to friendzone situations is to avoid them entirely by always quickly framing yourself as being sexual. Typically by the third "get to know you" conversation I'm having with a casual aquaintence I'm turning up the sexuality, with simple jokes at first, but quickly escalating.

From my own experiences there are specific bridging points on the friends to fuck buddies path that have to be met and satisfied to avoid the friendzone. If you always keep yoursel framed as a sexual option you will have less "girl talk time" and more "flirty sex chat" which typically leads to more eventually if you press it. Just remember not to lay it on too thick until you get IOI's that invite more at each escalation. Otherwise you'll get shoved into the more feared "Creep zone" and ingnored not only by her, but everyone she tells to avoid you too.
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