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Author:  Fin [ Sun Apr 03, 2011 1:04 pm ]
Post subject:  What you do. Three steps in your game.
It's Pick up forum, so lets discuss some PU tactics.

Rules.
1. This thread is about focused strategies and tactics, not mindsets.
2. Keep things positive, only post if you are putting up what you do, curious about others OR supporting someone else. Only positive interesting feedback is allowed.
3. Format your post, preferably numbering items so that your work can be read quickly and clearly.

What is asked of You.
1. List the way you open and the reason for it.
2. How you intend to get her interested.
3. How you get her horny.

Begin! :)
Author:  Fin [ Sun Apr 03, 2011 1:10 pm ]
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Here's mine.

1.
Opener
Hi, Nice.....*insert thing*

Opinion openers require me to conjure a scenario from my life, which I can't be bothered tailoring every day of the week, plus I have to then transist or give a reason for hanging around. Direct openers on the other hand are very forward and put too much pressure on the girl and myself and don't allow us to get into a smoother flowing conversation.

The situational "inbetween" allows me to flag interest, and get conversation started on a fairly even keel. The added compliment or comment, gives an immiediate talking point and pushes things into a positive encouraging frame of mind.

2.
Interest.

Various DHV type things I use, along with general humour and interesting little diversions in conversation. But in general I hold to using strong eye contact and physical interactivity to generate "attention".

Getting Attention, and having me and the girl focused on one another is central to how I like to sarge.

3.

Arousal.

I'm very interested in using words and themes in communication to get emotional responses, talking about death, violence, sex, food and adrenaline in a manner which is socially acceptable moves the mind on to sensual topics AND gets her heart ebating faster creating a climate from which arousal can come from. Attention is important, the more she focuses on you and these themes, the stronger she feels.
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Author:  trixsta [ Sun Apr 03, 2011 2:16 pm ]
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As a person who didn't cold approach I can only speak from warm approaches: both me and girl at a house party, or the girl being a friend of one of my girl friends etc.

1. "Who are you?" - We have something in common so it's not weird and it's fairly witty when said right. Plus it also achieves the goal of finding out things about her which I can stem onto or if she says "I'm [insert girl name]'s friend" you can then say "Oh really? I had no idea!"

2. I'm not really sure how I generate interest. If I think the girl is a sucka for players then I will act cocky and mention some girls, or tell her "that girl there is fit, may have to talk to her soon"; if she is shy then I will act confident still and make her laugh, appear interested in her; if she is the type who is sexually confident then I will match that and steer the conversation towards sex and eventually ask her "what her hottest fuck was". Obviously she is going to ask the same question, which my answer will definitely get her interest.

3. Again, this depends on the girl. If she's the sexually confident one I'll try and give her the impression that we are naughty and that no one else knows what is going on, then I'll probably try and finger her in a club or something like that. Some girls are turned on knowing that we are in a very public place and no one knows I'm fingering her in whilst I'm talking to her friends. If she's the quiet one, then it'll be create a good connection, get her number, meet during the day when she's not with friends and do the old shopping, starbucks, back to my place alone in my room where I can lay the moves.

Depending on the girl and how she reacts, depends what I do. Rather basic really.
Author:  Little Panda [ Sun Apr 03, 2011 3:06 pm ]
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1. Open: Whenever I can, I try to avoid opening with "Hi" or any other kind of introduction at start. Instead, I use situational openers that begin out of nowhere (with a '. . . Sentence' structure) and THEN introduce myself.

Examples:

' . . . Lip piercing? I love lip piercings! High five!'
' . . . You look like a troublemaker! Who let you in here?'
' . . . You're kinda cute! That deserves at least a hug, come here!'

Usually, it's whatever I come up with on the spot. I don't really care what my opener is as long as my attitude about it is awesome.

Also, the reason I choose to open with ' . . . ' is because it gives the illusion that we already know each other and have been in conversation before. I open with the ' . . . ' and then introduce myself a few minutes into the set (if even needed).

2. Mid-Game: I have a couple of routines in the back of my mind that I use when needed. During the attraction phase, I like to make her qualify herself immediately.

* ' You won't believe what just happened to me . . . ' - Telling a fun/interesting story such as 'Guy grabbing my ass and wanting to my me a drink' (lots of fun you can have with that one. +1 if you get her to touch your ass).
* 'You're adorable! Come here, make a little spin for me'
* 'If you could choose a dangerous and adventurous lifestyle, what would it be? Bankrobber, secret spy or pimp? (Then I got interesting things to say about each choice).

To me, attraction is just the vibe you give her. If you're having fun and she's having fun with you - the attraction is there. I can say/do basically anything at this stage that is fun and interesting to me - and if she likes my vibe (not the verbals in other words, they're not as important), I'll know it's on.

3. Sexualizing and isolating: Yeah, I believe that turning things sexual needs a whole stage by itself. When the attraction is there, and we're both enjoying each others' company, I'll start to go SFT. There aren't many routines or pre-planned strategies for this really, only stronger kino, SFT, deeper voice and all those non-verbals that tell the girl 'I want you so bad right now' (which I might even say sometimes) . . . However, when I DO need to say something and the vibe is too social, I'll steer the conversation into something sexual.

Examples:

* 'What's the wildest thing you've ever done?' - Classic, lol.
* 'I sense a lot of sexual energy from you.'
* 'Wow, your skin is really soft . . . ~touchy touchy~'

Isolating shouldn't be too complicated.

Examples:

* 'We're probably NEVER going to see each other, come let's dance/smoke/talk/get drinks/ANYTHING.

^Credits to J the Ripper for the whole "never gonna see each other" FTC. I LOVE using it and it's pure gold.

4. Closing: I like my closes to be non-verbal and I trust my calibration. If I get positive responses from the tension I give her or if she doesn't resist to my touches - I'll just go in for the kill.

Examples:

* I give her seductive eye contact and purposely create an awkward silence. She does not break eye contact and she's not hurrying up to break the tension.
* I caress her hand and she caresses it back.
* I put her hand on my thigh and she starts rubbing me.
* I move in and smell her. She doesn't resist

Lots of possibilities that can go down here. If she's OK with the way I touch her and if she's OK with the extremely seductive eye contact . . . Then that's all it takes really. I tend to add another "never going to see each other" sometimes lol.

In addition, I usually go for the makeout before any other close. So for example, I tend to take her number after I've kissed her first. That's just the way I like doing things.
Author:  johnchangmai [ Sun Apr 03, 2011 3:49 pm ]
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Fin

I am going to outline my Pub Game.

There are a few variations based on what time i arrive at the pub.
Who i arrive with. Alone, hardly ever.
And how busy it is.

Opener.

1. (For women any age.) Hey you look like that Actress. You know .........
You can spin this a few ways. keep em guessing or walk of and say damn you have made me forget now. Works well on 10's (you can then read the ego).
Its the best line for getting them to follow you around the bar. (they have to know) what A lister they look like.
I then open muliple threads.

2. Women that have had a few drinks.
Kino opener.

Blatant claw. oh look i have my arm around you. Then see what she does.
Its super direct and does not always come off.
I see it as the ultimate move. (i stake my claim to this female)

Iterest.

I get her to talk and move the conversation about by various means of re-direction.

Observations are key here.

Tell her she has madonna's angry look. example.
Phase shift quickly to any form of kino.

I usually open with 80's stuff ,opinion based shite for the over 30's. (variation 1)
For the 22 year olds i have learned some new material due to my age difference.(variation 2)

A lot of the time i usually open the most popular group.
Target the guys and get them qualifying to me.

Its naturally better to talk to guys and then just get women to join the group as they walk past you at the bar.
This way you are not going on a qualification bender to everybody in there.

I like talking to the guys about bloke stuff.
MAYBE ITS ME BUT I THINK THE GIRLS UNDERSTAND THIS.


Getting her in the mood.

I talk slowly about sex.
Author:  ImNaShitFool [ Sun Apr 03, 2011 9:56 pm ]
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Open: Simple "Hey, how u doing?" With alot of bass in my voice.. I rap so my voice is nicee.. it always hooks.. especially when I'm dressed nice.
Interest: I usually generate interest w. a devil may car, cocky playful attitude.. & They feed into it cuz its fun.
Horny: Sexual innuendo, being indirectly forward, being ambiguous about my intentions.
Author:  Immersion [ Mon Apr 04, 2011 4:55 am ]
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1. Opening: Whenever i have the opporunity to open anyone, Making sure its about the venue im at and finding out how they know each other and to choose who i should hit on first (usually the one who planned the night or the motherhen)

2. Get her interested: I mostly use kino and with my camera get a group photo with tons of kino if its a larger set but if its a 2 set i get my wingman to entertain the other girl and get him to take a photo of her kissing my cheek and pull a funny face and once she see's the picture and laughs i make the "we're such a sexy couple and go into role playing teasing her on her outfit bringing up how she fell on her bum getting it on or that i didnt get to try her lipbalm before we left and say i'll have to get a sample later on with either a sexually smirk and hard eye contact or a wink if im keeping it playful

3. Sexually Arousing: After i've got the group into the roleplaying that im her boytoy,boyfriend,sexslave whatever that comes to mind i say i need to borrow my sugargirl and pull her aside bring her close brush her hair over her ear moving my hand down carressing her neck moving in slowly and tell her what i am going to do to her tonight

i like little panda's "Guy grabbing my ass" thing but how would you pull it off? i actually had 2 guys invite me for a 3some last saturday because they thought i was sexy and fun

Maybe something like "I should grow a beard because guys keep grabbing my ass like this *get my target to slap my ass* "noooo not that that here like this *slap her ass with some grab* "now try again!"
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Apr 04, 2011 10:30 am ]
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Daygame
1. Opener: "Hi, I know this is a bit random but I just saw you walking by and I think you look absolutely gorgeous, so I can to come meet you."

2. Generating Interest/Rapport: I do a few jokey cold-reads, tell a random story and generally be off the wall, funny, and flirtatious/sexual. Then tone it down and talk normally, find out a bit about her and what she's into. The purpose here is to get to know her normally for about 5 minutes, so she's left intrigued and curious, but not too little so she'll be hesitant to meet for the date because she doesn't know me at all.

3. Comfort and Arousal: Comes on the day 2. After building a connection on some deeper subjects, I turn the conversation sexual, talk about sex openly, keep flirting and using innuendo, and build sexual tension through voice tonality, eye contact, kino, and so forth.

Nightgame
1. Opener: "Hi, don't take this the wrong way, but I saw you from over there and I had to come tell you, you look fucking sexy." Always good to elaborate on a specific thing that makes her sexy. If it's an item of clothing, whispering how I'm gonna slide it off of her and what I'm gonna do after ;-)

2. Whilst opening and thereafter, kinoing to the point of holding the small of the back whilst talking with her. Now it's time to pull back and be normal, tell a random story, be funny for a bit, and get to know basics. Deal with any friends.

3. The nightclub is a pretty sexually charged environment, so already ramping up kino, which should be turning her on. After having some normal banter, showing I'm fun and not a weirdo, finding out she's not completely retarded or boring, grab her wrist and pull her to dance or sit down, where I kino further. Use eye contact and voice tonality (if appropriate) to heighten sexual tension. Whisper in her ear what I'm gonna do to her later. Figure out logistics and either go back to mine or get her number.
Author:  Fin [ Mon Apr 04, 2011 11:02 am ]
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Quote:
1. Opening: Whenever i have the opporunity to open anyone, Making sure its about the venue im at and finding out how they know each other and to choose who i should hit on first (usually the one who planned the night or the motherhen)
Immersion- Any reason for flirting with the mother hen?

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Btw
Loving Panda's "Never going to see each other again" and his opening strategy.

Two things I might have to try when I next have the time to sarge. :)
Author:  Immersion [ Mon Apr 04, 2011 11:21 pm ]
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@ Fin

i flirt/be friendly with the motherhen because i see it that if she is uncomftable with me she will call me out on why im talking to them, I dont over flirt with her to make her attracted to me but to be comftable with me talking to her flock, If she ever does become attracted i LJBF her

Might seem silly to some people, but this method hasn't led me astray so far
Author:  Who? [ Tue Apr 05, 2011 7:56 am ]
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1. Since I more or less only do nightgame the club/bar environment makes it easy to open people indirectly and directly. An opener could be anything from "Are you a cat/dog person" to "I just think you looked amazing and wanted to say hi!"

2. The dance floor is great since it somehow becomes acceptable to touch her in a way that normally would not be allowed. Grabbing, grinding, you name it! also a great place to make out with her after like 5 min of dancing!

3. So now you have been this charming sexy man who takes what he wants. Time to show that you are a real person and not some kind of machine. Deep eye contact, talk about some deeper stuff and so on. And thanks Mystery for the "protector of loved ones" stuff. It's great to use in this stage!
Author:  trixsta [ Tue Apr 05, 2011 2:09 pm ]
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Quote:
1. Since I more or less only do nightgame the club/bar environment makes it easy to open people indirectly and directly. An opener could be anything from "Are you a cat/dog person" to "I just think you looked amazing and wanted to say hi!"

2. The dance floor is great since it somehow becomes acceptable to touch her in a way that normally would not be allowed. Grabbing, grinding, you name it! also a great place to make out with her after like 5 min of dancing!

3. So now you have been this charming sexy man who takes what he wants. Time to show that you are a real person and not some kind of machine. Deep eye contact, talk about some deeper stuff and so on. And thanks Mystery for the "protector of loved ones" stuff. It's great to use in this stage!
You aren't allowed to just grab girls on the dancefloor either. I take it you mean maybe a cheeky squeeze of the bum and not groping but even that can get you into some serious trouble.
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