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| Author: | ImNaShitFool [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 4:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | what not to do? (experienced guys check this) |
I was reading "the game" by style & there's a part where he said it was easy once he learned that it was about not doing things that cause girls to object rather than doing any one thing right.. so what are these things? What fucks up a good game? |
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| Author: | Spairert [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 11:16 am ] |
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It's easier to learn what TO do than what NOT to do, though once you've got the basics figured out, you feel free to improvise as long as you avoid certain things (as Style said). If you have a bunch of "don't do this" thoughts floating around in your head, it's hard to juggle all the information. It's more simple to have one "do this" idea on a particular topic of game- for example, how to stand when first meeting a girl. You don't want to actively think of everything that could come off as low-value or overly interested, you want to think about a particular posture that comes across as confident and attractive. Instead of thinking "don't slouch", think "stand up straight". Instead of thinking "don't mumble", think "speak clearly". PUA is like learning an instrument. When you start, you get a LOT of stuff wrong, and that's okay. There's no way to play any instrument without getting a lot wrong. You need to learn what TO do, and address bad habits as they come along. |
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| Author: | Jav [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 12:53 pm ] |
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You'll make mistakes regardless, that's just how it works. |
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| Author: | AdamThomas [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 7:12 pm ] |
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What not to do? Don't listen to Style for a start, "the game" is a fairy tale. It isn't real... Be normal, learn normal conversation skills and how to sexually escalate, don't overcomplicate chatting up girls with all of the complicated techniques and mental masdurbation that don't really help you. Guys on here seem to be all about coming up with funny lines and trying to come up with complicated ways to get women (I've seen you do the same) and by doing this you look weird and scare girls off. |
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| Author: | Appss [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 7:48 pm ] |
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Do something wrong, learn from it, dont do it again. .. Good luck. |
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| Author: | madals [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 9:31 pm ] |
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read the lounge rules - this belongs in general questions |
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