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Author:  Mr. Stinson [ Sun Feb 20, 2011 7:31 am ]
Post subject:  after 7 days no masterbation or sexual stimulation
i know there are people out their that will find this interesting so i figured i would post it to end all skepticism.

Myth: that not masturbating or having any sexual stimulation will help with your game.

i was always curious about this topic but never really found a great discussion on it so since my current fuck buddy is out of town i figured what better time is there to test it out?

now after going 7 full days of not jackin' or getting off in any way Ive come to the decision that it hasn't helped my overall game at all. Some might have the conception that since your sex drive is so high you will enter an almost caveman like state which will help overcome AA or anxiety in general. However i did not find this to be true at all. My social skills, energy levels, or game did not change by day seven and to be honest i was a little surprised. i figured i might have a little more energy to spend thus in turn make me more social but that was not the case.

Notes:

- i certainly felt more attracted to women that i regularly wasn't head over heels for, and definitely caught myself staring at more asses/tits than usual. However once an interaction began with someone that i only wanted for an insta-lay i realized how much effort would be required to get it and not even my ridiculous sex drive really made me more inclined to game them.

-the women i regularly was attracted to (i have kinda high standards) didn't seem to come any easier either. i still had whatever anxiety i usually have, my sex drive didn't help overcome it

+i did feel more inclined to go out and put myself in situations where i could potentially meet attractive women but a tight schedule still really only gives me weekends to sarge which is the same as always.

- I didn't feel any more confident in any situations.

- i didn't sleep better or worse

- i didn't feel more inclined to game less than ideal women

hopefully someone will find this info useful, i was always curious about it but never was truly devoted to testing it out 100%. BTW by not getting ANY sexual stimulation i mean i fought off every dirty thought, boner, morning woody etc to try and maximize my sex drive. The only reason i stopped after 7 days was because i was getting blue balls and i figured that cant be good.

the only thing i can say is that over sexual stimulation (sexual exhaustion) will most likely hurt your game. so feel free to give'r the old rub a dub just don't wank till you pass out ;)
Author:  the_modern_warrior [ Sun Feb 20, 2011 9:56 am ]
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If I don't get sexual stimulation in 7 days, I'll probably kill somebody :( ,I think you should mastrubate once every 2 days to get your sexdrive up but also very important : to not be very NEEDY
Author:  Peter Pan [ Sun Feb 20, 2011 9:58 am ]
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I don't think there's a method or a time for masturbation that works for everybody. I masturbate once a week and i find its the ideal time for me because of 4 reasons:

-At the end of the week i find myself highly aroused so i easily take big steps toward sex with women.

-Masturbating is a waste of time unless you masturbate for 5 min which is something i can't do ( i usually take about 30 min)

-Masturbating tricks the mind to believe that you're having sex so avoiding sets and approach anxiety will increase

-Masturbating lower your testosterone level which is not good for body-building so I don't do it often.

As i said this works for me.

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Author:  Shyler [ Sun Feb 20, 2011 10:34 pm ]
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Also, the more you masturbate, the more you think (sexualy) about women, and thus increasing your neediness. I experience masturbating less often makes me giving less a fuck about women, which they often see as attractive.
Author:  Coldman [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 1:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: after 7 days no masterbation or sexual stimulation
Quote:
i know there are people out their that will find this interesting so i figured i would post it to end all skepticism.

Myth: that not masturbating or having any sexual stimulation will help with your game.

i was always curious about this topic but never really found a great discussion on it so since my current fuck buddy is out of town i figured what better time is there to test it out?

now after going 7 full days of not jackin' or getting off in any way Ive come to the decision that it hasn't helped my overall game at all. Some might have the conception that since your sex drive is so high you will enter an almost caveman like state which will help overcome AA or anxiety in general. However i did not find this to be true at all. My social skills, energy levels, or game did not change by day seven and to be honest i was a little surprised. i figured i might have a little more energy to spend thus in turn make me more social but that was not the case.

Notes:

- i certainly felt more attracted to women that i regularly wasn't head over heels for, and definitely caught myself staring at more asses/tits than usual. However once an interaction began with someone that i only wanted for an insta-lay i realized how much effort would be required to get it and not even my ridiculous sex drive really made me more inclined to game them.

-the women i regularly was attracted to (i have kinda high standards) didn't seem to come any easier either. i still had whatever anxiety i usually have, my sex drive didn't help overcome it

+i did feel more inclined to go out and put myself in situations where i could potentially meet attractive women but a tight schedule still really only gives me weekends to sarge which is the same as always.

- I didn't feel any more confident in any situations.

- i didn't sleep better or worse

- i didn't feel more inclined to game less than ideal women

hopefully someone will find this info useful, i was always curious about it but never was truly devoted to testing it out 100%. BTW by not getting ANY sexual stimulation i mean i fought off every dirty thought, boner, morning woody etc to try and maximize my sex drive. The only reason i stopped after 7 days was because i was getting blue balls and i figured that cant be good.

the only thing i can say is that over sexual stimulation (sexual exhaustion) will most likely hurt your game. so feel free to give'r the old rub a dub just don't wank till you pass out ;)
So basically you had huge AA and didn't approach? No wonder you didn't see any different results. AA will always be there, you just have to get used to it, there's loads of tips and stuff to get over it, but not masturbating is not one of them.

The point of not masturbating is getting back to that primal level and when you're INTERACTING with hot woman you'll be at that primal level, looking at them sexual and horny while talking normal to them. This is the basis of sexual tension, being internally totally horny.

When you've just rubbed one out you won't be having any urges to have sex, so it's harder to get into this state. Whereas NOT masturbating has the opposite effect.
Author:  Mr. Stinson [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 1:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: after 7 days no masterbation or sexual stimulation
Quote:

So basically you had huge AA and didn't approach? No wonder you didn't see any different results. AA will always be there, you just have to get used to it, there's loads of tips and stuff to get over it, but not masturbating is not one of them.

The point of not masturbating is getting back to that primal level and when you're INTERACTING with hot woman you'll be at that primal level, looking at them sexual and horny while talking normal to them. This is the basis of sexual tension, being internally totally horny.

When you've just rubbed one out you won't be having any urges to have sex, so it's harder to get into this state. Whereas NOT masturbating has the opposite effect.

why do u assume i didnt approach? i approached probably 15 - 20 sets during the week, thats including a good 12 atleast at clubs on the weekend. i did get some numbers but my game didnt seem any different. my sex drive DIDNT make the interactions substantially more successful, i guess im horny enough to get that internal sex drive without corking my cock for a week.
Author:  Coldman [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 2:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: after 7 days no masterbation or sexual stimulation
Quote:
Quote:

So basically you had huge AA and didn't approach? No wonder you didn't see any different results. AA will always be there, you just have to get used to it, there's loads of tips and stuff to get over it, but not masturbating is not one of them.

The point of not masturbating is getting back to that primal level and when you're INTERACTING with hot woman you'll be at that primal level, looking at them sexual and horny while talking normal to them. This is the basis of sexual tension, being internally totally horny.

When you've just rubbed one out you won't be having any urges to have sex, so it's harder to get into this state. Whereas NOT masturbating has the opposite effect.

why do u assume i didnt approach? i approached probably 15 - 20 sets during the week, thats including a good 12 atleast at clubs on the weekend. i did get some numbers but my game didnt seem any different. my sex drive DIDNT make the interactions substantially more successful, i guess im horny enough to get that internal sex drive without corking my cock for a week.
Well then keep fapping lol Some people just have higher sex drives than others. Diet is a big part of it I think, but don't quote me on that one.

and I assumed because of this:
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Some might have the conception that since your sex drive is so high you will enter an almost caveman like state which will help overcome AA or anxiety in general. However i did not find this to be true at all
Read it.... it looks like AA held you back.
Quote:
i certainly felt more attracted to women that i regularly wasn't head over heels for, and definitely caught myself staring at more asses/tits than usual. However once an interaction began with someone that i only wanted for an insta-lay i realized how much effort would be required to get it and not even my ridiculous sex drive really made me more inclined to game them.
I read over the part "Once the interaction began", read it without reading that part... again looks like AA held you back and "not even my ridiculous sex drive really made me more inclined to game them"
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-the women i regularly was attracted to (i have kinda high standards) didn't seem to come any easier either. i still had whatever anxiety i usually have, my sex drive didn't help overcome it
I thought you meant by anxiety, approach anxiety and that your "sex drive didn't help overcome it"
Author:  Mr. Stinson [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 4:56 am ]
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lol its cool man, i can see how how some might have misread it. and im pretty sure your right about the diet, ive heard amount of calories affects sex drive as well.
Author:  Verbal Seduction [ Mon Mar 21, 2011 4:49 am ]
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usually if i dont it makes me have the feeling of i dont give a shit
and i just become 10x more social + more confident =]
Author:  Alajbeg [ Fri Mar 25, 2011 12:44 am ]
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Just going 7 days without masturbating won't do too much, but making a habit of it and only wanking once every 7 days for an extended period will raise your sex drive.

Me personally, i try to do it once every 2 days and i can say that my sex drive is higher, but there hasn't been too much of a difference in terms of approach anxiety, mine is pretty bad in day game.

Hope this helps
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