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| Author: | Puaking [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 11:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Almost got in a fight... But I beasted it! |
First time someone has stormed in the room and told me to get outside b/c of what I did. His fists were clinched, he wasn't yelling, but he was pissed. I'm telling you, if I didn't run into any PUA material, I would've been st-st-stuttering everywhere... trying to act tough, but deep inside I'd be scared. I just relaxed in what could've been a crazy situation. (Maybe I treated him as a big fat shit test lol) PU has also taught me to be a more honest person, so that's what I did. I apologized for it. I wasn't trying to act like the tough guy. (I prolly would've if not for PU) I told him if it really offended him then I'm sorry. (And no, I didn't fuck his girl or anything like that. It was something so small it's stupid how mad he got over it. Maybe b/c his FB was in the room, he was trying to be tough) Nonetheless, he was offended, and I was wrong for messing with him like that. So I told him that I apologized. He was kind of startled, he seemed like he was looking for a fight. He kept pushing and pushing it... but I just remained cool and told him I apologized. Yeah, this sucka got ether'd! I was in my chair the whole time while this whole thing was happening right... Then I had to leave, so I got up and stared at him... I saw fear behind those eyes lol (He seemed pretty tough while i was sitting down tho) Anyways, point of this thread. PU not only helps with women, but a lot of other aspects in life. Never realized this until now. |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 12:40 am ] |
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Thats's a good lesson. I think PU had helped me in all aspects of my life. |
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| Author: | MrLe [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 12:48 am ] |
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good job. Always stay cool in those situations, apologize if needed, and don't look scared even if you can feel your hearth pumping  PU material helped me to gain confidence and improve my social skills, which is the key to achieve lot of things in life. |
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| Author: | trixsta [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 3:10 pm ] |
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It's not necessarily PUA that helped you really, just not being a prick. |
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| Author: | Puaking [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 6:57 pm ] |
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Your missing the point. The reason I wasn't being a "prick" was b/c of PU. |
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| Author: | trixsta [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 7:28 pm ] |
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Quote: Your missing the point. The reason I wasn't being a "prick" was b/c of PU.
I'm not. If you weren't a prick anyway, then PU wouldn't have taught you this.
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| Author: | Appss [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 7:43 pm ] |
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Well you can't blame PUA for getting you in a fight, you just gotta know the situation your in. Nonetheless bigup for apologizing. Just remember the difference between apologizing and letting others step over you. |
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| Author: | Puaking [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 7:59 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Your missing the point. The reason I wasn't being a "prick" was b/c of PU.
I'm not. If you weren't a prick anyway, then PU wouldn't have taught you this.Appss - You must've misread something. I'm not blaming PU for getting me into a fight. I'm blaming PU for keeping me calm and cool - Eg not getting in a fight. |
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| Author: | zappo [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 8:30 pm ] |
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Ive been in your situation a lot recently so i can relate to this and you did probably the best thing which was to stay calm un moved and in p.u. terms not let him phase your state. Ive also learned dont try and "reason" "explain" or "persuade" guys on the attack short words like " Chill" , " No" , "Relax" go best with this with a degree of ignoring and always allow them to make the first hit because any move you make after that is legalized to an extent |
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| Author: | TonyShui [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 8:58 pm ] |
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It's good that you remained cool in the situation. That's the key of those situations. If you remain chilled , you will automaticly force the other person to become chilled, in a subtitle way.( I've read a book on Inter Human Relationships) |
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| Author: | trixsta [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 10:37 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: Your missing the point. The reason I wasn't being a "prick" was b/c of PU.
I'm not. If you weren't a prick anyway, then PU wouldn't have taught you this.Appss - You must've misread something. I'm not blaming PU for getting me into a fight. I'm blaming PU for keeping me calm and cool - Eg not getting in a fight. Assuming you picked tool for seducing women, then we can both agree hopefully that how you decide to use this tool decides whether you try and seduce women without ruining them, or just telling them a pack of lies and doing a hit and run on their vagina. What you choose here all comes down to whether you're a prick or not. PUAs will try and tell you to use the age old cliche "leave them better than you found them" but more often than not it's just a phrase to either. 1. Justify their actions 2. Make them feel superior and good about themselves. You either changed because you realized you were better than picking fights for no reason (not being a prick) or because your experiences with PUA made you realized you were better than picking fights for no reason (not being a prick) - not because some guru told you not to pick fights. What PUA material did you use? Why use any? Just apologise and forget about it. This is all really irrelevant anyway, well done on not being a "ug ug ug ug me want fight because you offended me" sort of guy. You rose above it. |
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| Author: | Puaking [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 10:50 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote:
I'm not. If you weren't a prick anyway, then PU wouldn't have taught you this.
You just proved my point...Appss - You must've misread something. I'm not blaming PU for getting me into a fight. I'm blaming PU for keeping me calm and cool - Eg not getting in a fight. Assuming you picked tool for seducing women, then we can both agree hopefully that how you decide to use this tool decides whether you try and seduce women without ruining them, or just telling them a pack of lies and doing a hit and run on their vagina. What you choose here all comes down to whether you're a prick or not. PUAs will try and tell you to use the age old cliche "leave them better than you found them" but more often than not it's just a phrase to either. 1. Justify their actions 2. Make them feel superior and good about themselves. You either changed because you realized you were better than picking fights for no reason (not being a prick) or because your experiences with PUA made you realized you were better than picking fights for no reason (not being a prick) - not because some guru told you not to pick fights. What PUA material did you use? Why use any? Just apologise and forget about it. This is all really irrelevant anyway, well done on not being a "ug ug ug ug me want fight because you offended me" sort of guy. You rose above it. |
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| Author: | Fin [ Fri Feb 04, 2011 11:29 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote:
You just proved my point...
Have I? Is PUA a set code of ethics and morals or is a tool for seducing women?Appss - You must've misread something. I'm not blaming PU for getting me into a fight. I'm blaming PU for keeping me calm and cool - Eg not getting in a fight. Assuming you picked tool for seducing women, then we can both agree hopefully that how you decide to use this tool decides whether you try and seduce women without ruining them, or just telling them a pack of lies and doing a hit and run on their vagina. What you choose here all comes down to whether you're a prick or not. PUAs will try and tell you to use the age old cliche "leave them better than you found them" but more often than not it's just a phrase to either. 1. Justify their actions 2. Make them feel superior and good about themselves. You either changed because you realized you were better than picking fights for no reason (not being a prick) or because your experiences with PUA made you realized you were better than picking fights for no reason (not being a prick) - not because some guru told you not to pick fights. What PUA material did you use? Why use any? Just apologise and forget about it. This is all really irrelevant anyway, well done on not being a "ug ug ug ug me want fight because you offended me" sort of guy. You rose above it. Props man, that kind of maturity will help you for the rest of your life. |
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