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Author:  Chief [ Thu Jan 27, 2011 5:22 am ]
Post subject:  Comfort Manipulation (Online, Text, and Phone Game)
Think you got the perfect text game? Phone game? ONLINE GAME?

Think again.

Every interaction you have with a woman is going to further establish a comfort zone for both you and her - especially her - within the frame of the interaction you make. The more you interact with her through a certain medium of communication, the more she'll be accustomed to interacting with you through that very medium. On top of that, she's going to feel less inclined to interact with you in any other way.

Now, what does this mean in plain English? It means if you keep talking to her through the internet, text, or phone call, she will NOT want to meet you face to face. The more you do it, the less she'll want to meet you.

I know you're scared. We're all scared of something. I know that you're scared of actually putting yourself out there and risking some real face to face rejection. If you get ignored online, you can take it and it's no big deal. Well, you're being a fucking pussy and you won't get anywhere with that kind of scared attitude. You signed up to play this game and you should have known that this shit was for big boys. SBAP

Since the name of the game is seduction, interacting with women face to face is ideal because you can't fuck an online username or a phone number. You don't want to go and make her too comfortable with talking to you through just text. Manipulating this "text comfort" to your advantage is quite simple. All you have to do is limit the text-based communication between you and her as much as possible. Use it only for logistical purposes like arranging a face to face meetup. Don't bother trying to create attraction or whatnot through a text or phone call because there's actually more opportunities to fuck things up when the interaction isn't face to face. She can take a "hello" over text message in a million different ways and you aren't there to control the frame with body language, facial expressions, state transfer, etc. All other variables excluded, the chance that she'll read your message in a bad way is just as high as the chance she'll read it in the way you want her to.

You want her to feel the most comfortable interacting with you face to face. Open up and let her feel good when you're face to face and make texts and online chats feel somewhat like a freeze-out. Phone calls are a gray area since voice tone comes into play, but play it safe and play the game when you can actually see and touch each other.

If anyone has any examples from their own experiences that demonstrate any of the things I've written about here, please share them.
Author:  Bond-007 [ Thu Jan 27, 2011 5:36 am ]
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Don`t know if it counts as a previous experience but sure thing I always remember the golden rule: texting over the phone or doing internet game are merely tools. There are here for you to use them wisely; straight to the point. You can do a little gaming on the phone indeed, but that`s barely gaming compared to a face to face interaction.

If you are consistant with the 60 years of challenge method you know you must have some physical contact, doesn`t really matter what kind of it.
In order to do that, well, thats right, you gotta go out and see her.

If I may add something to this would be that even if phone is just a tool, you sure can game the girl calling her and spending some time letting her hear your voice.
Of course, this should be in a state of more comfort for the two of you, lets say the day after sex as an example.

So forget about texting for weeks, that`s for non-pua`s, losers or other names.
Text just a little, enough for her to say yas to your invitation to meet =3
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Thu Jan 27, 2011 3:37 pm ]
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Excellent post! I had this idea before but I never turned it into a post.

From my experience if you talk too much online you become their "online buddy" and they'll not want to meet you. If they have a bf it's even harder. They have the bf to go out with them when they're bored, so you'll be left for when she's bored ONLINE only.

The best plan if you want to do seduction is to limit the online/phone talk only to set up a meeting. Sometimes they give you great responses/material for you to use and game them but you're online and you can't use it and escalate, that's when stuff gets in your way.

I'm very good in bringing girls from online to a shopping mall and then seducing them. And every time I talked too much online I became their "Online buddy" and they lost interest in meeting.

Just sharing. :wink:
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Thu Jan 27, 2011 3:52 pm ]
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Great post. Its true that you should only use Text, Internet and Phone to set up face to face meetings. In the early stages you want to get from "talking" to "meeting" ASAP. The longer you talk.. the lower your chances of ever meeting her. The longer you talk the less misterious you become. You give yourself more chances to say something stupid, inaccurate or offensive that will turn her off.

Women are most critical of you when they first meet you. They are actively LOOKING for flaws and reasons to reject you. Thats why its always a good rule to limit your exposure and what you reveal until after you have made physical contact!! The less you reveal the more her imagination will "make up". Once she has a solid attractive view of you it is very hard to change it. This is why women stay with abusive jerks for so long!
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Jan 27, 2011 4:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Comfort Manipulation (Online, Text, and Phone Game)
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Don't bother trying to create attraction or whatnot through a text or phone call because there's actually more opportunities to fuck things up when the interaction isn't face to face. She can take a "hello" over text message in a million different ways and you aren't there to control the frame with body language, facial expressions, state transfer, etc.
EXACTLY

God, how many times do guys ask for the perfect DHV or neg for some stupid text message they got from her! Get her fucking OUT on a DATE!
Author:  zappo [ Thu Jan 27, 2011 5:11 pm ]
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I love this post , Ive been waiting for something like this

I would personally never go for a phone number , go for a facebook its more personal and shes more likely to remember your face than a name , the fact is you don't have constant access to facebook and wont have the temptation to quick reply.

Totally agree overrrrrrr texting is bad and i am defiantly guilty of it and under texting also.

from personal experience

What actually happens when you over text is you have less things to talk about to keep things fresh face to face

She has the comfort of knowing you are only a text away instead of worrying what your doing and who your with she can text you to relieve this worry which usually works in our advantage.

Ive learned from my mistake's with texting and use it only to set up day 2's by bringing up the conversation of boys are better than girls , she disagrees , meet up for boy girl competition to prove each other wrong .

Contract phones are the devils work stick with your pay as you go phones
Author:  baracuda [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 3:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Comfort Manipulation (Online, Text, and Phone Game)
I always end up over talking on the internet but in person i can usually bed a girl on the 2nd night sometimes first but i find it so hard to get them to meet up in person

Can you give me any examples of how a convo would go to get them from facebook/text too
meet up what i read from the previous posts do i just send a first message like
hey lets meet up no game just straight to the point confused help please.
Author:  Chief [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 3:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Comfort Manipulation (Online, Text, and Phone Game)
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I always end up over talking on the internet but in person i can usually bed a girl on the 2nd night sometimes first but i find it so hard to get them to meet up in person

Can you give me any examples of how a convo would go to get them from facebook/text too
meet up what i read from the previous posts do i just send a first message like
hey lets meet up no game just straight to the point confused help please.
How easy is it for you to get her phone number through online?

If you're texting, you can also call.

As I've mentioned in my Guide to Outer Game (sticky here in the Lounge), it's a lot easier to set up a meeting when you're talking voice-to-voice over the phone!
Author:  baracuda [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 3:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Comfort Manipulation (Online, Text, and Phone Game)
i reckon i could get numbers pretty easy but sometimes i wish we lived in the olden days where phones an texting didn`t exist lol. Im just not a fan of talking to people if its not face to face, When im face to face i dont even have too think an 90% of what i say comes out good i surprise myself.
I actually get more nervous texting an feel the rejection more than i do in real life not much more though its wierd i know in real life iv probably been rejected over 5000 times no exaggeration but it doesnt phase me.


Im just looking for a method where i can get a girl to meet up asap because once i meet up with her i know im getting laid, Theres this one girl who i really want to bang but its too late now too much talking online but im 100% sure if i met her in person i could show her the best time of her life.
Author:  baracuda [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 3:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Comfort Manipulation (Online, Text, and Phone Game)
As im thinking back to girls i did meet up of facebook i can see how this concept works but i was never aware of it Im the biggest culprit of trying to game girls to make me stand out like some unique guy
online but occasionally id keep it short an sweet. An everytime it resulted in a meet. My facebooks pretty decent good pics lots of women so im going to give this a try thanks for this post hopefully i can start
picking up a few of the hotties on my facebook
Author:  JJoj [ Sat Sep 21, 2013 6:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Comfort Manipulation (Online, Text, and Phone Game)
It's possible to build comfort over text and instant messenger programs, but it can take months.

It's pretty easy to do; you just have to take your mind off of the outcome while still moving to achieve your goal. Tell her she's beautiful, start sending kiss emoticons, etc.

There are some shortcuts, but they can end badly.
Author:  TheFury [ Sat Sep 21, 2013 4:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Comfort Manipulation (Online, Text, and Phone Game)
This thread needed the bump and needs to be in the online game section so I don't have to answer 100 questions about what I did wrong when the answer is always: "You tried to build attraction over message/txt and naturally it failed"
Author:  JJoj [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 9:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Comfort Manipulation (Online, Text, and Phone Game)
I used to game chicks online for months at a time quite frequently (gaming multiple chicks simultaneously, of course) but nowadays, I rarely bother.... Usually I just push for the meet pretty quickly, and it usually either works out well or they turn out to be huge flakes. If the flaking starts to really get under my skin, I just block them. Once in a while, a flakey chick will contact you after you've blocked her--when that happens, it means she actually has feelings for you, and you've made a mistake, but fixing it then and there is really not a good idea....
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