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Author:  Incubus69 [ Wed Dec 08, 2010 5:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Is this girl building rapport or not?
On one hand it feels she's building rapport and on the other hand she's breaking it. For example, when I talk to her sometimes she's really bitchy and very distant but she's nicer to everyone else. She'll talk to me in a more serious way but she'll joke around with other males. I was talking to her today and was like, "I know I'm analytical and logical and not so called fun..." and she said, "I'm not like that either" then outside smoking I said, "I never knew you were analytical and logical..." and she nodded her head. She admits that when I talk about patterns like in NLP she has no clue what I'm talking about and yes she's a Hot Babe. So, I don't know if she's just trying to build rapport with me or what. I can't stand how she pushes me away sometime and how she's closer to other males. For example, Jay - they talk every day she told me today and I tried analyzing her for a second and she said, "I knew him longer" which makes sense. She knew him personally for a longer period of time than she did with me. She did admit that I'm very attractive guy.

So, yeah - kinda lost here with this girl. I get the sense she's holding back on something but I don't know what. Maybe she's not holding back but she did admit she doesn't hate me...there's no flirting going on, a slight joking around like calling me a mother fucker and I called her a bitch and she was acting like a brat, so I called her on it and she's like, "I know!". Sometimes I feel that she doesn't give a rats ass which is okay with me then I know where she's coming from, you know? She does have a fiance...So any feedback?
Author:  Algorythm [ Wed Dec 08, 2010 6:36 pm ]
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She admits that when I talk about patterns like in NLP she has no clue what I'm talking about
I see no NLP pattern in your conversation.... What pattern are you talking about?
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I was talking to her today and was like, "I know I'm analytical and logical and not so called fun..." and she said, "I'm not like that either" then outside smoking I said, "I never knew you were analytical and logical..." and she nodded her head
????? She just said shes not analytical and logical, why bring the subject up again?
if you didnt know try and pick up on it when she is being logical and analytical call her out for doing so and be playful :)
Dont tell her you didnt know, it means your not paying attention to the things she does...
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I knew him longer
Bull farkin crap!!!
I knew this girl(friend) longer then a friend I met last year, now shes more closer to him then she is with me(and I introduced the 2).... they're only friends btw no attractions there
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I tried analyzing her
Stop analyzing people!! there is such thing as over analyzing!!!!
SO JUST STOP!
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On one hand it feels she's building rapport and on the other hand she's breaking it
If shes attracted to you it could be push pull
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a slight joking around like calling me a mother fucker and I called her a bitch and she was acting like a brat, so I called her on it and she's like, "I know!"
Sounds like the friendzone imo, play with her like "I prefer women at the ages between 18-35... Im affraid you dont fit the criteria Im looking for :)"
If your saying "your a bitch" and she says "your a dickhead" etc.... its just a friendly war friends have to out do each other but by being playful it shows you have interest
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She does have a fiance
dont bother with this one :)
Author:  Incubus69 [ Wed Dec 08, 2010 6:57 pm ]
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When she said she's not like that either she meant she's not the fun type. She's analytical and logical. I worded it differently. Also, I never used any patterns.

I know that Jay and her are just friends and I know that she and I are just friends because we were being playful.

I don't understand how she could be closer to for instance like Jay and not with me. I think I'm too serious and I think I need to lighten up because Jay if the playful type.

I gotta learn how to be more of a playful spirit because when I talk with her it's serious and I think that's my problem. Women want to have fun and I don't show them fun.

When I'm talking with a male and I'm relaxed I joke around, bust their balls and when I'm around a ugly woman I'll tease her.

UGLY GIRL: Hey Paul!
PAUL: What do you want? *SMILE*
UGLY GIRL: How are you?
PAUL: Good...and you? *Pat on back*
UGLY GIRL: I'm good...how was your weekend?
PAUL: Good...
UGLY GIRL: What did you do?
PAUL: None of your buisness *SMILE*

That's the transcript of this one conversation of one girl I was talking with.

Any good posts on how to tease women?
Author:  Algorythm [ Thu Dec 09, 2010 7:15 am ]
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UGLY GIRL: Hey Paul!
PAUL: What do you want? *SMILE*
UGLY GIRL: How are you?
PAUL: Good...and you? *Pat on back*
UGLY GIRL: I'm good...how was your weekend?
PAUL: Good...
UGLY GIRL: What did you do?
PAUL: None of your buisness *SMILE*
Dont just do this with ugly women, I believe if you are playful and flirty with alot of females regardless on their appearance, you will start to become more flirty and playful with out being conscious
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Any good posts on how to tease women?
teasing a women is really easy if you dont think about it,
example...

her: Im cold
him: come here
her: no you come here, Im too cold to get up
him: the fone is over here by me and you will need to call someone to fix the heater :)
(if she comes over)
Him: good girl :)

The key is to stay in your frame no matter what!
Author:  Incubus69 [ Thu Dec 09, 2010 3:48 pm ]
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lol now that was funny! I was writing in my seduction journal and I realized that teasing is just leading a girl in one direction and pulling her in another direction. Kind of like Whip lash. It's essentially a push pull. You pull then you push - fairly simple.

See, I run like a computer - I take things as commands so if I have methods or formulas to go on then I'm all good. You can't just go like, "Yeah you just do this..." I won't understand that - it will end up as a syntax error. If you put it into a format I can understand that's more simpler then I can easily emulate it.

Now, I know this formula - Show IOI, get response & show IOD. I can do it vice versa.

I'm talking to this girl named Teresa and the conversation and now I'm going out with her - so that's three girlfriends so far.
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TERESA: Mike's a woman beater.
ME: So am I. *Laughing*
TERESA: *looks at me shocked*
ME: I'm kidding...I love women...only for sex...
TERESA: My mouth is shut!
ME: What are you talking about?
TERESA: No not about that?
ME: I wouldn't do it with you.
TERESA: I see how you are! *Disappointed face*
ME: *Laugh*
TERESA: Chris said he'll ask someone if you'll go out with me.
ME: Why would I want to do that? That's just crazy!
TERESA: *Shocked face*
ME: All you have to do is ask.
TERESA: I did and you said no last time.
ME: How are we going to have sex? Last time I got in trouble!
TERESA: *Grinning*
ME: I don't just want to have sex with you anyways...
TERESA: *Grinning*
ME: Just ask me out!
TERESA: Will you?
ME: Yes. Now leave!
TERESA: I see how you are!
ME: I love you though!
TERESA: I love you too!
I could do this with any woman now. Just show them IOD or IOI then get a RESPONSE then show them either a IOD or IOI.
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