I wouldnt be asking this if the chat room was fixed!
Anyways tuesday is quiz night at local bar, I havnt been there before and I dont know how many people normally go to these things. I wanna talk about body language and posture, my posture has definitly changed, I walk around with my head high and my shoulders wide, I walk around like someone who has natural confidence but the problem is I think I walk around like Im ready to attack people, so sometimes I look in the mirror to double check wether Im trying too hard with my posture or not. I recently walked past a guy and all of a suddden his body language is way wrong! because... He was sucking in, I could see he wasnt breathing, his posture looked uncomfortable when I walked by, he looked towards me then looked away in a instance like he was threatened by me. Im glad with my new posture other men feels threatened
Conversation; My main problem in conversation is eye contact with 2 or more people, Im not sure whos eyes to look. If Im in a 2 set I usually look at them both only quick glimpse that I wouldnt notice the features of their faces, should I be holding more eye contact? I also noticed I look to the bottom right(kinaesthetic) every time Im faced with a question; is it ok to do so? should I look up to think rather then look to the bottom right? I also look away to think sometimes lols instead of just moving my eyes is that ok? or does it seem rude? reading all this right now sounds really ridiculous lols
Hows this for an opener "Hey, you look like the type of girl who every guys are afraid to approach"
Walking around; I also walk around like an idiot if the place is quite or if there is only old ladies in the room, should I approach even thought they are 50 y/o?
what do I say or talk about to older crowds who have the same age as my mother?