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| Author: | Jelly [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 5:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What to do when you know longer have the drive for PU |
These past couple weeks my drive for PU has sank tremedously, I go out and dont even want to pick up, I may pull some shit at the end of the nite bc I am getting so pissed with myself but I usually stop the interaction and eject before anything happens. This drive has sank bc in the depths of myself I found out why I did PU, I thank PU for teaching inner and outer game and I always thought I wanted PU to pick up girls and lay them. What really has happened is I dug deep, It started coming to me when I purposely fucked up with this girl that wanted to date, beautiful girl, perfect for me. I dug deep enough and found out I wanted to learn PU for my own validation, I wanted to know I was a guy that could pull girls, and a guy that is respected and who is known for pulling girls. I have that now and am lost. I used to always think I did PU to teach others, to learn, to etc, but when it comes down to it, I just wanted to know I could and have others know I could. What keeps you guys in it? , I feel as though I have no goal to drive towards. I have been unraveling the past couple weeks and its not been good. |
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| Author: | AFC Royal [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 7:50 pm ] |
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When it starts out, the drive to get laid like mad usually pushes you forward. At this point, for me, it's just fun. |
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| Author: | Jelly [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 3:44 am ] |
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The drive to get laid got me started but thats gone now and I could care less. It was fun, but I am having some deeper issues though about things like why I dont want a GF maybe I dug too deep idk. |
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| Author: | Jav [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 9:34 am ] |
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I can relate, I got into this for the validation/respect aswell. Now I couldn't care less. Take a break, just go out and focus on having fun. |
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| Author: | Che Guevara [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 9:39 am ] |
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Pick Up is first of all fun. It's fine to take a small break, I think that if you had good times before you will feel that you're missing it and the drive will be back. |
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| Author: | Diego1234567 [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 5:59 pm ] |
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i may be pointing out a pointless obvious but why not just try and have a girlfriend? This picking up is outside of my comfort zone and its helping me grow-very slowly, i need to up the game- so if getting a girlfriend is something you dont feel like you can handle then just try getting one for nothing more than the reason of having one. or maybe you might want to see a therapist; pick up can only take you so far. |
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| Author: | Jelly [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 6:48 pm ] |
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Quote: so if getting a girlfriend is something you dont feel like you can handle then just try getting one for nothing more than the reason of having one.
I thought about it, had a great girl lined up but then couldnt go through with it and broke it off before it got anywheres deep. The last thing I need to do is fuck up some girl by getting into some relationship with one when I dont even care for a relationship.Quote: or maybe you might want to see a therapist; pick up can only take you so far.
Perhaps, but I figure since I am a psych major and consel others that I should be able to find my problem and fix it, I've found it but its not fixed yet. Quote: Take a break, just go out and focus on having fun.
thanks, thats what I plan on doing.
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