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| Author: | Hellonewman8 [ Tue Sep 25, 2007 2:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | College game (before bars are available) |
So I'm at a large campus and there are a ton of people in most of my classes. I'm not 21 yet so I can't go to the bar or club scenes. I am able to sit down next to a girl and just start talking about the class but at the most we will get in 10 minutes of conversation before the class begins. After this point I'm not quite sure how to progress. Should I make comments to her throughout the class? Should I just stay silent? Should I ask her to go to coffee right after the class or try to sit near her for multiple days and gain her 'trust' to go? Any advice on where to go from the initial conversation before the class begins would be helpful. To be honest, my social circle is pretty small in my sophomore year so it's hard to be introduced through people. I am trying more clubs just to broaden friends, acquaintances, etc. |
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| Author: | Qwesence1 [ Tue Sep 25, 2007 7:50 pm ] |
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Hey NewMan, Since you have honies in class you should be able to feel IOI's? I mean when you open up the coversation are you just talking about class?Bring up something like:Yeah I went to this club the other night and it was real wild.. Ask her if she's been there?What hot spots does she think are poppin!? Make some shit up and make it interesting then take it from there.You should be able to get more out the conversation then just talking about class. |
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| Author: | Hellonewman8 [ Tue Sep 25, 2007 9:27 pm ] |
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Quote: Hey NewMan,
Thanks for the welcome. Since you have honies in class you should be able to feel IOI's? I mean when you open up the coversation are you just talking about class?Bring up something like:Yeah I went to this club the other night and it was real wild.. Ask her if she's been there?What hot spots does she think are poppin!? Make some shit up and make it interesting then take it from there.You should be able to get more out the conversation then just talking about class. I'm new to all of this and it's currently much easier for me to open with something about the class and then hopefully go from there. Also it's hard for me to say clubs because there aren't any clubs near campus that I'm able to go to. And since the college is so huge, most people just stay on campus and there aren't many "night-life" type places for under-21s. Also if it helps at all I'm not just looking to get laid, I'm looking for a relationship so I don't really not want to be myself then all of a sudden after a couple dates start falling into who I really am. And yeah any suggestions as to what to say besides the club, I'm all ears. I'm pretty bad at picking up new girls and I missed the first year of college attempting it since I was in a relationship. |
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| Author: | Qwesence1 [ Tue Sep 25, 2007 10:06 pm ] |
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No problem,I'm new to the forum but I am not new to the game,ok let me get this straight your looking for a long term relationship.Why? Your young dude enjoy yourself,but if that's what you perfer then go for it!Ok No Clubs,No Nightlife and your not 21 yet.Dammnn.... What about parties?I get your not in a Frat,well ok you open up with talking about class ask her what she's taking?What does she like and so on.. Mann it's hard b/c your not 21 but it's never too early to get a start. Throw some Negs and if you see IOI's your in,if she touches her hair and moves it to the side usually means their interested but you got to lock in don't wait you wait too long they sometimes lose interest. If your prefessor ever gives you an assignment and it's a group project Bamm!!Find your target and and throw a Negs at them and say something like. "I see no one is joining you? That's ok you can join me! Also a good place to meet women is the Library,Since you said you have a big campus I bet your library is pretty big,see your target and approach it like ask do you think this is a good book? Or what you reading there? I have that class...Make eye contact too you don't want to stare at them too long tho. |
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| Author: | unluckid [ Sat Dec 15, 2007 7:44 am ] |
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hmm..i'm just 19...so i'm wondering if i'm alil too young for this pick-up business?lol..cuz my skills suck..not even 1 success yet..though mostly it boils down to approach anxiety and the fact that i try to PU in clubs, where music's so loud i cant even hear myself..lol |
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| Author: | feneix2012 [ Wed Dec 26, 2007 4:30 am ] |
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here is feneix2012's tried and true method to college pick up. go into class and sit next to a HB like you said you do. game for whatever time you have. after the class starts during the letcure slide a piece of paper over with a tic tac toe board on it. just smile when she looks at you and say "you first". you guys play the game. i almost always tie the first game then win the second. after you win, usually after the class, say cocky-funny "so what do i win"? HB will usually answer with an "i dont know" or "well what do you want". you can go from here. feneix2012 |
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| Author: | TheNuttyPlayer [ Wed Dec 26, 2007 6:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | But what if you suck at Tic Tac Toe |
That was a great reply and a great idea. I will definitely try that next time. My main problem was with this girl in my italian class. She was an HB10 and spoke great italian, my italian was horrible in the class because all I would do was stare at her. Regardless everytime I tried to kickgame, her cockblock companion was always there with a nice dose of sarcasm and dirty looks strong enough to salt anyones game. I tried befriending this she-devil to try and get closer to the HB, but all it did was make the cockblock want my shit. It was a burn deeper than syphillis, when the class ended and I never even got to kick game to this girl outside of a class. Wow shitty depressing story. I'll bring us to a better one. Im walking to class one day and i notice a gorgeous hb9 asian behind me, with those shoes that clickity clock clickity clock load as hell. So check this move. I pretend to talk on the phone, then stop tie my shoe, and wait till she gets a little infront of me. I get up and start walking side by side with her, hand up my phone and said "wow those are some loud shoes, I cant even hear my voicemail, with out the clickity clock" she laughs "im sorry, i know they really are so loud" ; "has anyone told you, you sound like a horse" (harsh neg i know) luckily she laughs harder at this one. As the awkward silence is about to come in I comment that I like her glasses, thanks she says (the glasses that cover her entire face I might add) "they cover your entire face let me see you without them" "ha Ok" she takes them, off, shes still stunning, "Woahhhh put those back on asap, jeez" (another solid neg) "haha ur so mean" im feeling in there like swimwear as im about to say something else she starts turning off to a building she has class in. "Bye" she says "fuck" my cock says "see you around" I replied. Long story short, the seed was planted, but I doubt ill ever see her again since my school has 30,000 people in it. I guess my question is, how do you get a number close, in a very short encounter? keep the pimp hand strong, -D |
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| Author: | _Smash_ [ Wed Jan 02, 2008 1:20 am ] |
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haha. listening to your stories reminds me of my AFC days. though your exploits seem better. well, how to number close u ask nuttyplayer. take ur asian chick for instance. just as she said she has to hurry off to class you could have said " you know what, i am in the mood for bummin the rest of the day(works if she is really into you). care to join me?" she will say no cause she has to study and then you can ask her nicely " you seem like a nice girl. maybe we should hang out sometime?" and see how she replies. if yes then exchange numbers if its a no then just smile and tell her to have a nice day. you cant force her and you did not fail, you just got feedback. |
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| Author: | chio [ Wed Jan 02, 2008 4:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: College game (before bars are available) |
Quote: So I'm at a large campus and there are a ton of people in most of my classes. I'm not 21 yet so I can't go to the bar or club scenes. I am able to sit down next to a girl and just start talking about the class but at the most we will get in 10 minutes of conversation before the class begins.
The difficulty with discussion before class starts is interruptions. Are you in a small class that'll interrupt everyone? Are you talking with a girl who loves the class and would rather listen to what she paid for? Are you in a huge room where no one really cares, even the girl you're talking to?After this point I'm not quite sure how to progress. Should I make comments to her throughout the class? Should I just stay silent? Should I ask her to go to coffee right after the class or try to sit near her for multiple days and gain her 'trust' to go? Any advice on where to go from the initial conversation before the class begins would be helpful. To be honest, my social circle is pretty small in my sophomore year so it's hard to be introduced through people. I am trying more clubs just to broaden friends, acquaintances, etc. All these are factors. Take these factors and work with them after you say, "Hi" |
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| Author: | TrojanMan88 [ Wed Jan 02, 2008 4:44 am ] |
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I'm into the college level of gaming now too, i'm a freshman. What I suggest you do is if you get in the ten minutes get a number close and text here. |
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| Author: | FrequentFlyerCA [ Thu Jan 03, 2008 5:33 pm ] |
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Quote: hmm..i'm just 19...so i'm wondering if i'm alil too young for this pick-up business?lol..cuz my skills suck..not even 1 success yet..though mostly it boils down to approach anxiety and the fact that i try to PU in clubs, where music's so loud i cant even hear myself..lol
Never too young to start. Im 19 and started when I was 18. You should be okay if your only problem is AA. Even the best PUA's experience some AA.
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| Author: | FrequentFlyerCA [ Thu Jan 03, 2008 5:38 pm ] |
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Quote: here is feneix2012's tried and true method to college pick up. go into class and sit next to a HB like you said you do. game for whatever time you have. after the class starts during the letcure slide a piece of paper over with a tic tac toe board on it. just smile when she looks at you and say "you first". you guys play the game. i almost always tie the first game then win the second. after you win, usually after the class, say cocky-funny "so what do i win"? HB will usually answer with an "i dont know" or "well what do you want". you can go from here.
I like feneix2012 |
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| Author: | 96Firebird [ Thu Jan 03, 2008 6:36 pm ] |
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The tic-tac-toe method is good, I used it last semester. Got her interested, to the point where she added me on Facebook. But if you really want to get into the college scene, find parties. Every weekend, there will be at least 5 someplace near campus. |
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| Author: | justright [ Thu Jan 03, 2008 8:03 pm ] |
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I know this may sound lame but JOIN A FRAT. There are several reasons (not my own, read it on a PUA website). First it gives you social proof, you all of a sudden will be surrounded by guys that, if you choose the right frat, are social and well liked. Secondly, you will meet girls in sororities during events and socials etc. Thirdly, every frat throws parties and you will have a party to game at. Also, most frats participate in charity and a lot of other on campus activities which gives you a chance to improve yourself (socially, emotionally, spiritually) and also gives you a chance to meet a wider range of people. |
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| Author: | TrojanMan88 [ Thu Jan 03, 2008 9:22 pm ] |
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You can't just run in and destract a college woman in class because you don't know if they are serious about thier money or not. (they payed for classes) but yeah after class the game is on. But the tic tac toe Idea is pimp...I think... |
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