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Author:  ConspiracyTheory [ Tue Oct 19, 2010 3:13 am ]
Post subject:  how should I deal with her flaking?
Ok guys I'm stuck a bit on this girl. Here's the abbreviated back story:
Met about a month ago, been out with her 4 times, tons of kino and kissing when we're together but no sex yet. She seems very in to me, but a problem started to surface last week when she was supposed to come to mine, but called and gave me some story that was plausible so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Later that night she said she was nearby with her friends and wanted me to come see her, so I did. Everything seemed fine still, and we make plans to get together yesterday. Then when I talk to her yesterday she claims she forgot but she can come over tomorrow. That would be today, which she flaked again. Didn't even answer my last text, even though we had txted earlier in the day and she said she was coming. I haven't done anything since I know overreacting can make a bad situation worse.

I'll throw out my theory on what's going on then see what you guys think.
I think she has some kind of hang up about sex. We've been getting closer and she knows if we spent some time at my place alone it's likely to happen. Thus why she flakes on that but is fine with seeing me out somewhere in a group setting. That's my theory at least and why I don't just want to forget her / move on like you would with a normal flake.

I went out with a wing over the weekend and #closed a girl and have been texting her so I have other options, but this flaky one was my fave. So I'd like to salvage it if possible. I don't know how to proceed. The typical advice is to freeze her out for a bit, but I'm torn between that and trying to talk to her and get to the reason for this. I welcome your advice.
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