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| Author: | Adonis Spyridon [ Fri Oct 08, 2010 6:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Lessons learned in a breakup |
I've been dating two girls for some time now and yesterday one of them ended it with me, I was hurt and a little upset. She told me a few weeks ago that she didn't want a serious relationship with any guy right now, and that in itself hurt a little bit because I had felt myself falling for this girl and she's what I want in a girlfriend. So I put on a front about not looking for a relationship either. I say a front because I didn't want a girlfriend when I started dating her but I had been thinking about it more often because of her and this other girl. I had decided that I wanted one of them to be my girl but hadn't been able to pick one yet. Well we had sex and she kept giving me signs - or so it seemed to me - that she wanted to be my girlfriend, so I was getting happy. But shortly thereafter she became distant and didn't respond to my shows of affection. I figured she was seeing another guy so I started to pull back also. So when she called me yesterday she told me she had been seeing another guy and realized she really likes him and wants to be with him. I wasn't furious or anything, that's not who I am. I hate rejection and think I could've had something with this girl. Looking back I realize it's my own fault, I'm a romantic guy by nature, but I guarded myself too much with her and I guess she took it as me not being as interested as she wanted me to be. I should've done the romantic things that I love to do, give her flowers for no other reason than to see her face light up, call her out of the blue to see how she's doing and to talk. I wanted this girl, and I realize it now. But it's a little too late I think. I mean I could get her back I'm sure, but I'll just leave it as one of those, "maybe somewhere down the road we can try it again" things, I just hope she's open to that. The point of this post isn't to ask for advice I don't think, but I guess more to be an example of the difference between wanting to pick up a girl and keep a girl. If you want to keep a girl make sure you treat her right. I'm out p.s. The good thing to come out of this is that I can now honestly be happy with this other girl, because I really care about her too. I'll just make sure I treat her right. |
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