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| Author: | Incubus [ Mon Sep 24, 2007 12:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | First attempt in the field. Advice/critisism? |
Alright, being a sophmore in high school there is only so many places you can pick up on girls so this recent Friday I decided I was going to take what I learned so far and just go for it. I planned to open my sets at the football game that was later that evening so I was pretty pumped. Before I went to the game there was a fight near my house that I was at and the cops came we ran etc. So I figured that would be some good material to use. So i get to the game and I get in the stands and I notice one of the guys who was at the fight earlier sitting next to this HB9. I decide this is where I will open my first set. So i walk up and address them both but started by talking to the guy. Me: So what happened to you after the cops came? Him: Bla bla bla As he is talking I casually grab a seat and try to emphasize through my bodt language that i'm laid back. At this point I wasn't sure what I was going to do next but then the guy gets up and goes up a bleacher to say something to one of his other friends. at this point I scoot right over next to the HB9, put my arm around her, and tell the guy he just lost his friend. Then, she puts her arm around me and agrees with me. From then on I just kept making sure i was using kino and building comfort while finding out about her. Every time I felt I had her complete attention i would turn to some girls behind us and say something so she would nag for me to come back and return the attention. After I felt i built a strong enough connection I left the bleachers and told her to come find me after the half because she had to stay there with her swim team until half time. So i'm down by the concession area in the middle of this new set I just opened with a group of people and she HB9 from the stands comes walking up. I don't pay any attention as she joins the group I'm with and keep joking around with the other girls for about a half minute. Then I turn to finally aknowledge her and I whisper to her so only she can hear. "Smile if you want to fuck me." I knew this could have backfired but she smiled and giggled and gave me a little punch. I had the group rapped around my fingers with my story from earlier and all my jokes and everything and it was great. Only my target HB9 girl had left but was going to be back. During her absence I bounced with this group of people i met to a party and never got to see the HB9 again. I Did not # close but I felt like I did extremely well for my first time ever opening a set. I had never been one to be the guy in the middle of the group with all eyes on him making everyone laugh, and I never had the balls to approach a beautiful girl I never met before. Note: I am only a soph in highschool and so was my target. advice and/or critisism would be appreciated. |
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| Author: | davidshankle [ Mon Sep 24, 2007 12:57 am ] |
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so congratulations on your early start.... I wish I had learned about the game as a sophomore in high school. no situation is exactly like the last, so there will be some variables no matter how textbook you go. I wasn't there, so I don't know exactly how it happened, but your first interaction with the girl was kino. I wouldn't advise this, but hell, it worked.... so you didn't get burned that time. But in the future, I wouldn't make kino the first step. Before you can ever use kino effectively, the prerequisite is her comfort. She has to be totally comfortable with physical interaction. But how do you know when she's comfortable? Well, that "why" is why kino doesn't come first. You need IOIs first.... and you'll get those when you open and neg her. You did the right thing by opening with the guy first instead of her... But next time, while you're talking to him, I would recommend finding some way to DHV (assuming she can witness this DHV). When he leaves, I would start out with either a basic open or a neg. High school girls at a game should be easy because they aren't expecting to get hit on, so they won't be on the defense. But her putting her arm around you was a big IOI.... fish for other IOIs like that. And also, high schoolers are bad as hell about this...... its going to come up, someone will ask what the other is doing this weekend. NEVER SAY "ehh... nothing much." For fukc's sake this is the biggest DLV in the world. Nothing much means you're sitting home and downloading porn this weekend while everyone else is at the parties. I know its easy to do, and its a bad habit I used to be guilty of, but do not say it. You'd be better off saying you're going to a Star Trek convention than "ehhh..... nothing much." Make something up...... you're going to a party, if there's not a party in town, the next town over. College town near by? You're going to the frat party. In fact, I don't know why, but high school girls seem to think frat parties are the coolest fukcing thing in the world. So if you say a frat party... in your situation, this can serve as a bonus DHV. You know college kids, they accept you enough that you can go to their parties, blah blah blah. But make sure there is one though (there always are) because the bitch might get smart and ask which house is having it. Anyway.... the dynamics are a little different in high school, but it should be easier over all. So lucky sarging. |
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| Author: | Incubus [ Mon Sep 24, 2007 1:02 am ] |
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Thank you David for the well thought out response. I knew that i used kino really early and this could have went terrible but it felt right and like you said, hell, it worked. Next time though I will make sure i use an opener and some negs before the kino. Thanks  .
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