Man im really sorry, but shes not gonna change. Id advice you to drop it and stay friends. The best you can probably do is get laid, but if youre looking for something meaningful...sorry
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| Author: | mR.e [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 1:24 pm ] |
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hey guys iv been gaming a while so i know the basics, i get laid, but now im working on getting girls that are hb10s (close to hb10s that is haha) so this girl i opened in my class during the first week of college became a pretty good friend. we have ALOT in common and i know she is physically into me, i kinoed a litle but we have only had 1 day to hang out really (she works 2 jobs) my question is, when we hung out we went out to dance. me and a bunch of friends we had met (4 other girls , 2 other guys) and i didnt think to just dance and talk to her and all that. but we had flirted for like a said about a week or so and talked alot so i knew it was going good, that it was on. but when we danced she acted just as flirty to get attention.. now i can tell when a girls doing this pretty fast, but i wasnt sure what to think. she said she likes me alot, phyically into me, but when she gets attention like that from not just guys but everyone it kinda pisses me off, its a flaw in my eyes that she is just super over flirty and noticable i didnt open her cause she did this to me though, so im not sure what to think she is into me, but how can i work around this little annoyance? i no it doesnt seem like much but it truly just bothers me that she constantly has to get peoples attention..yet i like hangin with her and we are soon gonna fuck, poissble date for a little (i dont date really but she is really cool, but not alone she is a slut of attention) thanks fellas! mR.e |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 4:08 pm ] |
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Interesting issue, mate. It's difficult to know the route cause of why you are feeling like this. Or, more to the point and more generally - her behaviour is going through the filter which is you, and then you are telling us what is happening. This distortion, in this case, is too great for me to offer any advice. But maybe you could give more details? xx |
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| Author: | kilativ15 [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 7:53 pm ] |
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Ive had this problem before :/ Id say the feeling youre feeling like this is cause youre jealous. But normally girls who go for attention like this are insecure about themselves and/or have daddy issues. |
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| Author: | mR.e [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 9:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | hm |
see the thing is she does have father issues i just found out her dad divorced her mother and and is trying to sue her, and is really verbally abusive see when i notice a girl is getting attention, im good and getting hers. i got hers yet she doenst give me the attention as much in return, which i guess im not used to. im not super jelous, i mean alot of other people notice how she acts like this i just dont no how to try and make her connect more with me you no? |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 10:01 pm ] |
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Not sure if this is the best thing to do, but what I would do, is to try dropping all the 'game' and 'tactics', and just try and connect with her on a genuine and personal level. Obviously you'll have to do that without falling into friendzone. |
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| Author: | mR.e [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | hm |
im really trying to do that, shit not trying I HAVE BEEN first 5 min of talkin is planned, the kino is slightly planned but we have been connecting very well on different levels. about everything really we have alot in common...yet i can tell she likes more attention then anything. it sounds jelous i no but its like i just want her to hook to me more, and i know she is known to not do that with guys. but from people that no her iv done better then most, but i need something to really seal the deal before we fuck so i no that i can MLTR her, possibly date who knows? mR.e |
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| Author: | kilativ15 [ Fri Sep 24, 2010 5:19 pm ] |
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Man im really sorry, but shes not gonna change. Id advice you to drop it and stay friends. The best you can probably do is get laid, but if youre looking for something meaningful...sorry
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| Author: | mR.e [ Fri Sep 24, 2010 8:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | hm |
I totally firgured that would happen to be honest, but hey if anyyoneb had worked out how to handle this and come out on top id like to know haha Just another girl... mR.e |
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