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Author:  greathuskie [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 7:49 am ]
Post subject:  about to completely give up
everytime i go out, my roommate always fucking gets the girl i want, and i honestly just cannot handle this shit anymore, i think i am beyond help. its just so hurtful and its killing me, i cannot do anything right. this is just fucking outrageous, why the fuck do i always get the short end of the stick?

ive tried everything i knwo to do, i even signed up for a bootcamp, but im thinking even that will be a waste of time. i just cant handle this any more.
Author:  Gun [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 10:46 am ]
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We ve all been there man.Read the material and I dont mean just this forum, i mean books, audio books, dvd's WHATEVER you can find. Find your weaknesses and work on them. For instance if you think that you lack of confidence work on inner game, if you think that your voice sucks get a course to make it sound more confident and persuasive .I really mean fix EVERYTHING thats stops you from getting women cause you can fix it u just have to try hard and devote time. Also remember that the goal isnt to have sex with a girl your goal should be attraction( when you become attractive you do have sex any and girl you desire :lol: )

So what im trying to say is have the right motives and try harder!

hope iv helped
Author:  ming [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 10:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: about to completely give up
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everytime i go out, my roommate always fucking gets the girl i want, and i honestly just cannot handle this shit anymore, i think i am beyond help. its just so hurtful and its killing me, i cannot do anything right. this is just fucking outrageous, why the fuck do i always get the short end of the stick?

ive tried everything i knwo to do, i even signed up for a bootcamp, but im thinking even that will be a waste of time. i just cant handle this any more.
dont make it a compittion between you and your natural mate. It shouldnt be. The community is based on inner game.

you need to focus on the things that will bring you the most joy. further these, and work on your lesser qualities.

If you believe it is a comp between you and your mate for women, then you will lose.
also, if you think you are going to get automatic results after a short period of time - then you will also lose.

go otu to have fun, improve your social skills - the rest will follow.
dont compete or compare yourself to other people who are naturals..... cause lets me honest - thats why we are here.... to get to their point.
Author:  greathuskie [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 3:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: about to completely give up
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everytime i go out, my roommate always fucking gets the girl i want, and i honestly just cannot handle this shit anymore, i think i am beyond help. its just so hurtful and its killing me, i cannot do anything right. this is just fucking outrageous, why the fuck do i always get the short end of the stick?

ive tried everything i knwo to do, i even signed up for a bootcamp, but im thinking even that will be a waste of time. i just cant handle this any more.
dont make it a compittion between you and your natural mate. It shouldnt be. The community is based on inner game.

you need to focus on the things that will bring you the most joy. further these, and work on your lesser qualities.

If you believe it is a comp between you and your mate for women, then you will lose.
also, if you think you are going to get automatic results after a short period of time - then you will also lose.

go otu to have fun, improve your social skills - the rest will follow.
dont compete or compare yourself to other people who are naturals..... cause lets me honest - thats why we are here.... to get to their point.
its not a competition, but he always sorta makes it one by not letting me talk to people alone, he has to go over and introduce himself etc and its like get the fuck out of here. the fact that hes 6'7 helps his cause out.
Author:  AshleyL [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 3:44 pm ]
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I can only imagine how frustrating that has to be... but here's the thing...


with you getting all frustrated and pissed off and claiming "you're about to give up"... you're just digging yourself a bigger hole.

You need to realize that any girl you want should want you-- that you're a fantastic catch and deserve everything/anything you want.

I don't think a bootcamp is going to help (depending on what type though of course...) I think you need to focus on inner game.
Author:  Methuselah [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 3:52 pm ]
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Giving up isn't going to help you accomplish anything.
Author:  xxIcexx [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 4:45 pm ]
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later dude
Author:  greathuskie [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 6:27 pm ]
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Quote:
I can only imagine how frustrating that has to be... but here's the thing...


with you getting all frustrated and pissed off and claiming "you're about to give up"... you're just digging yourself a bigger hole.

You need to realize that any girl you want should want you-- that you're a fantastic catch and deserve everything/anything you want.

I don't think a bootcamp is going to help (depending on what type though of course...) I think you need to focus on inner game.
focus on my inner game? what should i sit in my room and think about my inner game for a long time? inner game comes with success, success breeds confidence, so im hoping the bootcamp can get me going in the right direction. reading ebooks etc does not help me in the slightest (i cant learn by reading a book, especially with stuff like this)
Author:  RawWingman [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 6:37 pm ]
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first off TSi, i would have to say, work your inner game. Work on building your self confidence, do things to do that. When you walk around ready to give up, women can sence that. They are like sharks who sence fear. (sorry to any women it may offend, but its true) Dont show weakness. Find some good AMOG destroyes and use them on your boy when he moves in on your target, and tell him before hand if he tries it your going to make him look like a tool. 6'7 or 3'9 it doesnt matter if your game is tight and your can stack convo threads. Keep your head up, and keep things moving. When he comes in and moves in on your target, DHV, destroy him if you have to to prove your point to him to back off (normally only takes one time of doing that to get him to stop) and dont lose your confidence. You are there to have fun, meet some new people, and in general have a good time. Dont let your CBing friend desroy that for you.. Say something like I know the air is thin up there but you know it isnt polite to interupt our conversation, not go sit in the corner. DHV, destroy him, and get the girl more attracted to you. He will then try to gain your approval again, and blow him off. Be like, well if you cant play nice you'll have to sit in the corner. Cause you are talking to him like he is a little kid, he will be pissed, and the girl will laugh. When you are mad, your game slacks, that is why you cant game good when your not in the right frame of mind.... Knock him off his game and sarge on.
Author:  jphammer [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 8:10 pm ]
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It's sounds like you lack confidence. You need to harden your skills and sarge by your self. This will force you to work on your own game and not realy on a wing.

It'll be hard at first but it will really tighten you up.
Author:  LuckyMan [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 8:27 pm ]
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you said it yourself, the reason why you think your failing... YOUR FRIEND, yes your friend can help, if he is disarming obsticles and such, otherwise he is not a wing, you two need to work together. next time you go out, go by yourself, think of the logic... If there is 1 women, 2 penises, the girl will always win, but then one of the guys will always lose. because by yourself, you have a 50% chance, with a friend you have a 25% chance of winning, and if he has better game... that makes it worse. after you go out by yourself, you WON'T need him, and then you can concentrate on your target, and he will have nothing on you. make the ratio 50% and if you increase your gaming skills, maybe a 80% chance. it is all about YOUR game.
Author:  SouthernCross [ Sun Sep 23, 2007 4:26 am ]
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Just Give up Take the easy Road.
The Road for Failures.

Today I bore witness to a beaten man Pathetic!!!
Author:  MrHappy [ Sun Sep 23, 2007 5:09 am ]
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You just have to explain the rules of winging.
Most importantly, he who opens a set gets his choice.

Then the AMOG destroyers will be useful if he "forgets" thourgh the night.
Author:  Drak_Ool [ Sun Sep 23, 2007 6:12 am ]
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what kind of a dick is your roomate anyways? If you open a set he has to wing you, disarm obstacles and so forth... If he doesn't do that then go sarge with someone else or on your one, then you won't have no one else to blame but yourself
Author:  BlackBull [ Sun Sep 23, 2007 6:31 am ]
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focus on my inner game? what should i sit in my room and think about my inner game for a long time? inner game comes with success, success breeds confidence, so im hoping the bootcamp can get me going in the right direction. reading ebooks etc does not help me in the slightest (i cant learn by reading a book, especially with stuff like this)
I've been there dude.

You feel that an uncontrollable force is beating you back, and that you have no control over it.

Therefore, you feel overpowered, and see no other resolution than to give up.

Well, there's your 2 choices. Give up, or continue.

If you give up,goodbye. Pack your bags and we'll wish you the best.
Although no one will care in the long run, it's understandable. You'll just do what many others do: Quit when faced with a challenge. Go ahead, history will ERASE you, and others who give up. Why should anyone on earth give a shit? We all have our own problems and situations. What makes yours unique? It sucks to say this, but this isn't opinion. IT IS LIFE FACT! QUITTERS ARE DOOMED TO EXTINCTION!

However, if you look within yourself, to push through this nonsense, to develop mental toughness in the game, and to wait it out, and work to be happy within yourself, then do stay, and grow along with each and every other person, not only on this forum, but the whole world.

As for your roommate, what can you do. Assholes will be assholes. I cant tell you what to do to him, as that will be pointless. It is a matter of endurance and dedication.

Regardless of what you do, realize that pick up is more than just women. It is the essence of successful life. Every principle taught is more or less the same in different disciplines (Military training, Academia, even playing chess).

Unless you slowly but surely become satisfied with who you are, what you represent, and how you live life, you'll always let the negative get to you.

Shrug it off. Take some time off. Relax, find something you enjoy.

In Christianity, what your going through is commonly called "A test from God". Whether you believe it is God or nature itself, you ARE being tested. Regardless of religion, you need FAITH in order to move on. Troubles always happen. It's how you respond that matters.

If you still want to quit, again, go ahead, but you will doom yourself.

If you want to stay, wonderful. Time heals all wounds, and clears all obstacles. Be patient.(Trying to learn that right now).

Hope that settles the issue.
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