PUA Forum :: I went a little to far negging a girl.

This girl I've been messing around with called me last night and she was stranded at a subway station with friends and she needed a ride. I wanted to be the nice guy and DHV and pick them up. Well when I got there it was the girl I was going after HB8 her friend FP2 and some other girl I have never seen before HB9.5. I wanted to make a strong impression and let this girl know I could care less about her looks. So the two girls got into the car and I locked the door on the HB9.5. I know that was sooo stupid. She was ice cold towards me when she got in the car. I know I fucked up and went way too far with a neg and it humiliated her. What can I do to make this better next time I see her?

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FP2???
what is this?

you made th eeffort to pick them up, and unless you set rules/ boundaries (ill pick you up if you give me a shoulder massage or something), you lowered you value from the start...

dont be fussed....
be strong at the start (which you did), then you can go soft... be the happy, helpful guy - shows you value....

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Just use UG (ugly girl) so everybody knows.

Meth, don't you think a C&F followup could disqualify the 'meaness'?

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Just use UG (ugly girl) so everybody knows.

She could be pretty if she wasn't a Fat Pig but I suppose I can say UG. I was just trying to paint a picture.

I have done the lock out, but you have to follow it up with a lil C&F with like what you dont know how to work a door handle. Laungh and let her in. But it is all in the playful delivery of what you have to say. Just keep it light and simple though.

Author:	jphammer [ Fri Sep 21, 2007 3:29 pm ]
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This girl I've been messing around with called me last night and she was stranded at a subway station with friends and she needed a ride. I wanted to be the nice guy and DHV and pick them up. Well when I got there it was the girl I was going after HB8 her friend FP2 and some other girl I have never seen before HB9.5. I wanted to make a strong impression and let this girl know I could care less about her looks. So the two girls got into the car and I locked the door on the HB9.5. I know that was sooo stupid. She was ice cold towards me when she got in the car. I know I fucked up and went way too far with a neg and it humiliated her. What can I do to make this better next time I see her?

Author:	ming [ Fri Sep 21, 2007 3:37 pm ]
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Quote: This girl I've been messing around with called me last night and she was stranded at a subway station with friends and she needed a ride. I wanted to be the nice guy and DHV and pick them up. Well when I got there it was the girl I was going after HB8 her friend FP2 and some other girl I have never seen before HB9.5. I wanted to make a strong impression and let this girl know I could care less about her looks. So the two girls got into the car and I locked the door on the HB9.5. I know that was sooo stupid. She was ice cold towards me when she got in the car. I know I fucked up and went way too far with a neg and it humiliated her. What can I do to make this better next time I see her? FP2??? what is this? you made th eeffort to pick them up, and unless you set rules/ boundaries (ill pick you up if you give me a shoulder massage or something), you lowered you value from the start... dont be fussed.... be strong at the start (which you did), then you can go soft... be the happy, helpful guy - shows you value....

Author:	xLINKx [ Fri Sep 21, 2007 3:57 pm ]
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Did you laugh about it with her? I usually do that to my friends locking them out, it's just a little joke. That girl needs to lighten up a little.

Author:	jphammer [ Fri Sep 21, 2007 4:42 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: This girl I've been messing around with called me last night and she was stranded at a subway station with friends and she needed a ride. I wanted to be the nice guy and DHV and pick them up. Well when I got there it was the girl I was going after HB8 her friend FP2 and some other girl I have never seen before HB9.5. I wanted to make a strong impression and let this girl know I could care less about her looks. So the two girls got into the car and I locked the door on the HB9.5. I know that was sooo stupid. She was ice cold towards me when she got in the car. I know I fucked up and went way too far with a neg and it humiliated her. What can I do to make this better next time I see her? FP2??? what is this? you made th eeffort to pick them up, and unless you set rules/ boundaries (ill pick you up if you give me a shoulder massage or something), you lowered you value from the start... dont be fussed.... be strong at the start (which you did), then you can go soft... be the happy, helpful guy - shows you value.... Good stuff Ming!! I'll try it next time..

Author:	jphammer [ Fri Sep 21, 2007 7:12 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: This girl I've been messing around with called me last night and she was stranded at a subway station with friends and she needed a ride. I wanted to be the nice guy and DHV and pick them up. Well when I got there it was the girl I was going after HB8 her friend FP2 and some other girl I have never seen before HB9.5. I wanted to make a strong impression and let this girl know I could care less about her looks. So the two girls got into the car and I locked the door on the HB9.5. I know that was sooo stupid. She was ice cold towards me when she got in the car. I know I fucked up and went way too far with a neg and it humiliated her. What can I do to make this better next time I see her? FP2??? what is this? you made th eeffort to pick them up, and unless you set rules/ boundaries (ill pick you up if you give me a shoulder massage or something), you lowered you value from the start... dont be fussed.... be strong at the start (which you did), then you can go soft... be the happy, helpful guy - shows you value.... FP = Fat Pig

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Author:	xLINKx [ Fri Sep 21, 2007 8:39 pm ]
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Just use UG (ugly girl) so everybody knows.

Author:	Methuselah [ Fri Sep 21, 2007 9:54 pm ]
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Bro, locking the door to neg her? I hope you learned your lesson in what qualifies as a neg and what just comes across as dumb. No offense intended. But for future reference stick to negging her verbally, not by doing something like that. Yes, she did take it a little to seriously, but you have to admit, it was unnecessary, chances are she was probably in a bad mood already from having to wait by the subway for however long.

Author:	Holden [ Fri Sep 21, 2007 10:16 pm ]
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Meth, don't you think a C&F followup could disqualify the 'meaness'?

Author:	Methuselah [ Fri Sep 21, 2007 10:31 pm ]
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Certainly. However, if i was going to do something like locking the door playfully, I'd do it in a one-on-one situation. I just think it would work better in that type of situation, as opposed to the one that jpahmmer was in.

Author:	jphammer [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 2:06 am ]
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Quote: Just use UG (ugly girl) so everybody knows. She could be pretty if she wasn't a Fat Pig but I suppose I can say UG. I was just trying to paint a picture.

Author:	jphammer [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 2:07 am ]
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Quote: Meth, don't you think a C&F followup could disqualify the 'meaness'? C&F ????

Author:	Holden [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 2:08 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Just use UG (ugly girl) so everybody knows. She could be pretty if she wasn't a Fat Pig but I suppose I can say UG. I was just trying to paint a picture. As Style says, "There is no Ugly girls, just ones that are lazy".

Author:	ming [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 2:20 am ]
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just realised i didnt even read the second half of your initial post........ ignore my reply. drunken posts dont work... sorry dude

Author:	RawWingman [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 2:26 am ]
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I have done the lock out, but you have to follow it up with a lil C&F with like what you dont know how to work a door handle. Laungh and let her in. But it is all in the playful delivery of what you have to say. Just keep it light and simple though.

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Author:	jphammer [ Sat Sep 22, 2007 2:42 am ]
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Quote: I have done the lock out, but you have to follow it up with a lil C&F with like what you dont know how to work a door handle. Laungh and let her in. But it is all in the playful delivery of what you have to say. Just keep it light and simple though. Again, what does C&F mean?