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Failure really? U think thats what holds you all back?
Come on, were a bunch of guyz who are here because we cant get hot girls, i doubt that not getting one is the reason we r not gettin em. I think its just that first hurdle, i always say that the day i bang a 10 will be the last day i ever have trouble pickin up any girl i want. I just wanna kno i can do it. If failing was wat was holding me back, i wouldnt keep trying. I kno personally wat holds me back is my negative outlook on goin out and gaming, which is stupid cuz ive been on fire the last 8-10 months and just havent been lucky enuf to close a 10. Its just about being comfortable, if we were comfortable talking to and dealing with 10s we would be unstoppable. So boys, go out and just hit on the hottest girl you see today, wether she feels it or not, make urself belive that they are not above you. We gotta stop puttin these girls on a pedestal, because they arent better than us, and never will be. Its been said countless times, make yourself the prize, and of all the naturals ive ever seen run a club, the common theme is that they think they r the prize and it fucking works.

The Greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one

Author:	Jav [ Mon Aug 16, 2010 6:35 pm ]
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The idea is simple, What's holding you back from getting the super hotties. Or whatever it is you want out of life? I'm gonna keep this about getting the super hotties. When you are out in the field. What stops you from getting what you want? Realize what's holding you back. Next: Get yourself in such situation. Face your fear if you ever want to lose it's power over you, and social freedom will be yours. GUARANTEED

Author:	AFC Royal [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 1:24 am ]
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I like it. Simple, straightforward. The way it should be.

Author:	chickentika [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 2:09 am ]
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for most people the fear would be of failure, but IMO if you've never failed...you've never lived.

Author:	Jav [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 2:59 pm ]
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Quote: for most people the fear would be of failure, but IMO if you've never failed...you've never lived. The only wrong thing is doing nothing.

Author:	Capps [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 3:35 pm ]
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Failure really? U think thats what holds you all back? Come on, were a bunch of guyz who are here because we cant get hot girls, i doubt that not getting one is the reason we r not gettin em. I think its just that first hurdle, i always say that the day i bang a 10 will be the last day i ever have trouble pickin up any girl i want. I just wanna kno i can do it. If failing was wat was holding me back, i wouldnt keep trying. I kno personally wat holds me back is my negative outlook on goin out and gaming, which is stupid cuz ive been on fire the last 8-10 months and just havent been lucky enuf to close a 10. Its just about being comfortable, if we were comfortable talking to and dealing with 10s we would be unstoppable. So boys, go out and just hit on the hottest girl you see today, wether she feels it or not, make urself belive that they are not above you. We gotta stop puttin these girls on a pedestal, because they arent better than us, and never will be. Its been said countless times, make yourself the prize, and of all the naturals ive ever seen run a club, the common theme is that they think they r the prize and it fucking works. The Greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one

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Author:	Junglepimp [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 4:00 pm ]
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In my experience, a majority of the HB 9-10s are money-loving chicks who take enhancing their intelligence for granted because they believe they have their looks to make up for that (with the exceptions in mind). In simple words, transitioning from HB 8-9-10, I have seen a severe drop in the brains factor (with a sharp increase in the beauty factor of course). It's not like I fear walking up to them or flirting with them or asking them out, I just don't feel attracted to them. I am more of a natural player and I like women who like me for who I am and find what they want in me and not in what I have.

Author:	haudas [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 4:04 pm ]
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Im not handsome,and thats what is holding me back of getting chicks

Author:	Capps [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 5:19 pm ]
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No believing that your not handsome is whats keeping u back. U can always work on ur looks, but girls can sniff out lack of confidence like a pig sniffs out truffles

Author:	Junglepimp [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 7:41 pm ]
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Looks? If you're not extremely awfully hideously ugly, trust me your looks do not count for more than 20%. The more the better, yes. The lesser the worse? Not really.

Author:	chickentika [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 12:47 am ]
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Quote: Failure really? U think thats what holds you all back? Come on, were a bunch of guyz who are here because we cant get hot girls, i doubt that not getting one is the reason we r not gettin em. I think its just that first hurdle, i always say that the day i bang a 10 will be the last day i ever have trouble pickin up any girl i want. I just wanna kno i can do it. If failing was wat was holding me back, i wouldnt keep trying. I kno personally wat holds me back is my negative outlook on goin out and gaming, which is stupid cuz ive been on fire the last 8-10 months and just havent been lucky enuf to close a 10. Its just about being comfortable, if we were comfortable talking to and dealing with 10s we would be unstoppable. So boys, go out and just hit on the hottest girl you see today, wether she feels it or not, make urself belive that they are not above you. We gotta stop puttin these girls on a pedestal, because they arent better than us, and never will be. Its been said countless times, make yourself the prize, and of all the naturals ive ever seen run a club, the common theme is that they think they r the prize and it fucking works. The Greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one I said FEAR of failure, not failure...big difference...

Author:	Capps [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 3:02 pm ]
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Fair enough, I hear where your coming from, but look at it this way. If you have failed your whole life, then you have been confronting your fear from day one. I mean if you fail to pick up the hottest girl in the bar that night, your no worse off than when you went to the bar. To be honest, from all the guys ive seen who are the best at picking up girls, the common thing that they posses is wreckless abandon. They go up to girls and talk to anyone, flirt with everyone and if it doesnt work out, they move on. I have to assume its an ego thing, if a girl doesnt like em or take to what they are saying, then they blame the girl. This is something we have to keep in mind everytime we go out, that its not us, its them. I mean you cant get angry about a girl rejecting you and you cant become cynical when it comes towards women because they can sense your negativity and smell the fear on you. Be positive, be energetic and if you do fall on ur face, just forget it and move on. Start from the top and hit on the next girl that walks by just to keep you in the mood.

Author:	Ezo [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 5:43 pm ]
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Basically, identify your fear, face it and beat it.

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