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Author:	Flynn [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 5:06 am ]
Post subject:	Watching others game terribly but messing me up
So tonight was interesting. Myself and two friends went out and met up with a bunch of a guys and a couple HB's but none of us had intentions of hooking up except this one horny mother fucker. He doesn't know shit about gaming but he does some of the shit just naturally. Immediately he gives her a hug and starts jokingly getting all up on her and making it awkward. He was going extremely hard on the kino and he kept this up all night and it was just embarrassing to watch lol. My problem was that if she was a target I wanted to game I wouldn't have known what to do. I didn't know her well enough for me to just sit back and be the prize so that wouldn't have worked and most PUA's don't think that trying to out game each other doesn't work either (by that I mean just fighting for her attention). I wasn't sure what I could have done differently and I know for a fact I will be in similar scenarios to this in the future with HB's I would want to K-Close. What would guys do in this situation? How do you get more attention than an attention whore without looking like one myself? haha thanks for the help guys

Author:	Chamel3on [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 7:37 am ]
Post subject:	Hmm...
I feel like this goes back to the good old concept of "not doing what all the other guys do. ever." How I accomplish this is by finding the right moment to open her, and then just focus on being the stark opposite of the horny motherfucker. Be smooth, witty, intelligent, and seemingly oblivious to her beauty. If done properly, with well-timed remarks and some returned IOI, the theory is that she'll realize you're the real deal, and Touchy McWeinerface is just another chump. Generally, what I'd done for quite some time was to way overcompensate for how I naturally acted/reacted, and just dive head first into the deep end, until eventually the opposite became more "me" than the original. It may be confusing, but i hope this helps. Peace.

Author:	Deadeyexx [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 12:33 pm ]
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I agree that engaging her in a more intellectual way would be the correct move here. It would have provided her an escape from the brute that was all over her, and she would have been greatful for it. Making fun of the other guy a bit could help too. Not enough to get you in a fight, but just a couple well placed comments like "he's sticks to you like a loyal puppy. Just watch out if he tries to hump your leg."

Author:	~Finesse [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 1:45 pm ]
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Quote: How do you get more attention than an attention whore without looking like one myself? haha thanks for the help guys By not being an attention whore. Bro, it's like the answers are jumping out from the page. You should re read over your original post and see if the answers don't jump out at you. In case they don't. Here are some pointers... - Guy putting in tonnes of effort = You put in minimal effort. - Guy being all over her = You do intimate 'kino', but briefly / take it away. - Hold good eye contact with her, even when neither of you are takling to eachother/she's listening/talking to someone else. - The above should lead her to investing effort into interaction with you. Note: Her making effort. - Anything that makes her invest effort in you. - Don't spend much effort doing any of the above. A good thing too, is on the chances you get to interact with her, and let her do the talking with you, is when MrAttentionWhore comes over to try and take the attention, you hold good strong eye contact and a smile with her for a few seconds, then leave as she slightly removes her attention to see what clown boy is up to. What this creates is her thinking 'uch, fuck sake, you've made him go away.' You know how it is, you're having a good convo and some irritating cunt comes over and messes it up. The fact you walk away to do something else, adds to the 'uchhh you're ruining things' thought. Effectively 'blowing the guy out'. You have to be able to do this in a way that says 'I'm going to leave you now' rather than 'oh, I guess I'll go ' The difference between the two is a major factor in what 'wins' or loses you the girl. It sets the frame as 'this guy is ruining my night'. And you being 'her night', or rather what's making it good. Love ~Finesse

Author:	~Finesse [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 1:56 pm ]
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What I should have added is... With the eye contact thing, this is the whole dynamic it sets up... Guy spending effort on her > Her attention is on you Which gradually evolves into... Guy chasing her > Her spending effort on you Which then becomes... Guy chasing a girl he has no chance of getting > Her chasing you I hope you can understand the principle of my replies here.

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