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Author:  Captn [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:27 pm ]
Post subject:  "I've slept with about 18 guys." What to say?
So this is kinda of old news for me, but I have had this question in my head for a bit.
I was dating this girl and we were playing the question game and some how this came up... the number of people we've slept with... She told me 18... I said cool, no big deal... but I need to know if this was a shit test... or something similar that I may have not been aware of. Any questions or comments are welcome, thanks.
Author:  jurupa [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:35 pm ]
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It really depends on how it was said. As for all we know its the truth.
Author:  haudas [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:38 pm ]
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Say:
"Me too" :lol: :lol: :lol:
Just kidding,i dont know what to say
Author:  Little Panda [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 10:45 pm ]
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"Well, after tonight it's gonna be 19 ;)"

Joke.

Just act cool about it, it's no big deal. Alpha males don't judge people (especially not women).
Author:  Zephyrine [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:48 pm ]
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Most women cap their number at 8 - so the fact that she was willing to admit the truth tells me that she's very very comfortable with you. Sadly this may mean you are slipping into the FZ.
Author:  LeoNYC14 [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 2:06 am ]
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Yeah, the previous post sounds right... her being that comfortable with you sounds like friend zone territory... you need to focus on building attraction with her. But of course, we cannot be sure since we know nothing about the context (how she said it, what kind of girl she is, etc.)
Author:  jurupa [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 3:27 am ]
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Alpha males don't judge people (especially not women).
Um everyone makes judgments about others, its human nature.
Author:  Captn [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 4:14 am ]
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meh, honestly this was months ago... I was just seeing if I handled it okay... it looks like I did. We dont talk anymore now, but just getting info for later... thanks for everything.
Author:  Little Panda [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 9:49 am ]
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Quote:
Quote:
Alpha males don't judge people (especially not women).
Um everyone makes judgments about others, its human nature.
If you're the kind of person that judges women out loud and constantly - don't expect to keep her for too long.

There's a fine line between judging and constructively criticizing.
Author:  ~Finesse [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 1:07 pm ]
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Judge a woman for her sexuality and you can forget about sleeping with her. Or rather, sleeping is all you'll be doing :wink:




They have to feel that nothing they crave or desire is 'too slutty' in your eyes. The more free they feel that nothing they say or want will be judged by you, the more sexually open they will be to/with/around you.



This is especially important when getting into a relationship. If you opress her sexuality, all it'll take is one guy to open it up, and he'll have is cock so very far down your girls throat before she comes home to kiss you.
Author:  Little Panda [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 1:44 pm ]
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^

Thank you.
Author:  Chicoman69 [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 2:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "I've slept with about 18 guys." What to say?
Quote:
So this is kinda of old news for me, but I have had this question in my head for a bit.
I was dating this girl and we were playing the question game and some how this came up... the number of people we've slept with... She told me 18... I said cool, no big deal... but I need to know if this was a shit test... or something similar that I may have not been aware of. Any questions or comments are welcome, thanks.

You said you "was dating this girl" meaning past tense. I wouldn't consider this a fecal matter (shit) test. She was just being honest. Best not to even bring up her past sex partners. To paraphrase Chris Rock, 'you don't wanna know... cuz she could be like 2 and you are like "Two!?!.... good lordy that must have been how you was raised." '

Sounds like you lost the girl though and are trying to figure out what went wrong. Look at it this way. She's experience and can probably suck and fuck a mean cock. Right?

-Chicoman
Author:  tekryder [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 6:01 pm ]
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i tend to think well its her past, these guys didnt play their game right.. so you have the chance to see where this goes.. Just means you have a good chance of getting some since her standards may be a lil off, esp if she says the guys where kind of losers..

Alot of girls i know have alot more experience than me, sure its bothersome but i just try not to think about it.
Author:  Captn [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 6:27 pm ]
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Yeah, when I did deal with it I went with the whole... "thats your past, it has no bearing on what is happening right now" route. And yes we are not dating, but it wasn't because of this I think. I'm just seeing if there was a smoother way to go about it then what I did. In case it happens again.
Author:  Chief [ Tue Jul 13, 2010 3:36 am ]
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HB: I've slept with 18 guys
PUA: (pause) That's it? (straight face)
HB: Does that mean you've slept with a lot more than 18 women?
PUA: What? No way, I'm a virgin! In fact, I've had sex with like a negative number of women.

The goal of the above dialogue is seduction, in case any AFCs reading this aren't thinking about actually getting laid.

The pause sparks the tension and the straight face adds an unreadable air of mystery around you. "That's it?" implies that you are more experienced than her, but there's still room for interpretation which gives you opportunities to do more things with her perceptions. A man with more sexual experience is attractive. Basic. An attempt to directly state that you are inexperienced (I'm a virgin!) demonstrates that you value being discreet (that you don't kiss and tell) which will also help your cause.
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