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Author:  chrispb7 [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 11:26 pm ]
Post subject:  why does she want to know this?
so theres this girl. i dated her for about two months, she was totally in love with
me basically. i ended things cuz i got really mad at her one day and it changed
the relationship, long story.

anyway, its been a little over a month since we broke up and i know she's still
attracted to me. for some reason she keeps asking me about "any new ladies?"
specifically she said in a text "so any new ladies? i want the dirty details :)" and
shes asked me a couple other times. So far all ive said is ive got my sight set on
jessica alba jokingly of course.

just kinda want to hear some theories on why she's so curious to know this lol...
Author:  Herne [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 11:35 pm ]
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my theory is its either one of two extremes

{1} she into you and wants to know if your single
{2]she has net a new guy and will feel better telling you this if you have met some oneelse--the dirty details thing would make me lean more towards this one
Author:  Herne [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 11:38 pm ]
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and then theres the third one---shes trying to tell you that she doesnt give a shit what you do anymore but by doing this she is actually demonstrating that she does give a shit
Author:  AFC Royal [ Thu Jul 01, 2010 4:15 am ]
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Agreed with the above two.

She could also just be messing around with you, but that kind of question would just piss me off, since I wouldn't feel like talking to her.

Your girl though. You probs know best.
Author:  Zephyrine [ Thu Jul 01, 2010 5:22 am ]
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and then theres the third one---shes trying to tell you that she doesnt give a shit what you do anymore but by doing this she is actually demonstrating that she does give a shit
This.
Author:  Lysander [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 1:42 pm ]
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In my experience girls do this for any of the three reasons Herne posted.

You broke up with her, she was 'totally in love with you'... in my opinion its 1 + 3.

An ex of mine often did that to me and we had been broken up for ages... finally she asked if I was still single and I said 'no... i've been seeing someone' and she totally went to pieces... even though she was seeing some other dude... whatever.

Then another ex asked me repeatedly because I was single and she was seeing someone else and I could tell she felt guilty and wanted me to alleviate her guilt by saying 'yes, i'm seeing someone and i'm really happy'.

But yeah- 1+3.
Author:  chrispb7 [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 4:07 pm ]
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after talking to her yesterday, no fucking doubt that 3 is part of it. do you think
i should let her know im seeing other ppl. ive been on a few dates but definitely
nothing exclusive, im not looking for any thing exclusive because im moving to
college in two months. what do you think...

btw thanks for the help you guys are dead on!
Author:  Herne [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 5:43 pm ]
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what do you hope your relationship with this girl will be--GF,friend,occasional encounter with no strings or nothing to do with her
Author:  chrispb7 [ Sat Jul 03, 2010 12:04 am ]
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see her like once or twice a week non exclusively
Author:  ktime70 [ Sun Jul 04, 2010 9:38 am ]
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number 4. she wants to know whether her reputation is safe with you. if you blab about dirty details to her about other girls, you've blabbed her details to other chicks.
Author:  napora [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 5:50 pm ]
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5. she has oneitis problems:d
actually she wants to hear no. think about it.
if you are still in love with this chick who breaks up with you.
you would have this question? no?
this question can break you appart on the inside. so you take your curage and aks it. but the only answer you want to hear is no. if it is a yes. she'll be hurt. (but you got to be honest )

so i think she still isn't over you.
Author:  trixsta [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 6:33 pm ]
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Quote:
5. she has oneitis problems:d
actually she wants to hear no. think about it.
if you are still in love with this chick who breaks up with you.
you would have this question? no?
this question can break you appart on the inside. so you take your curage and aks it. but the only answer you want to hear is no. if it is a yes. she'll be hurt. (but you got to be honest )

so i think she still isn't over you.
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