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| Author: | Don Juan 89 [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 8:11 am ] |
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I was just wondering if there was anything different about gaming strippers from regular girls. If I treated every stripper as a hb10 would I have to do anything else? Common sense and basics of stripper game says not to pay for a dance, touch her because the club may not permit it, etc. I understand that I may need to neg and disqualify more. Whatever. I do the same for all HB8+ Should I just game a stripper like any other girl? Thanks. |
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| Author: | Don Juan 89 [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 6:44 am ] |
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Just wanted to bump this post. Very interested in any responses. I actually enjoy the really energetic personalities from strippers I have seen before I began gaming hardcore haha |
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| Author: | RockStar_dallas [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 8:19 am ] |
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I’ve probably dated more strippers than any other “type” of girls so I’ll give it a shot. This is by no means a method but just some tricks that worked well for me over the years. 1)stay away from the high class strip clubs To do the actual PU(most of the girls there are there to make $$$). What you want to do is go there and find out where the dancers worked before. Most of the high class places have training clubs that the girls start at and then move to the bigger club once they’ve proved their not crazy or drugies or going to blow some guy for twenty bucks in the VIP room. 2) go on a Sunday (early evening) or a Monday most clubs have a: if you work fri and sat you have to work sun or mon rule. 3) on sun or mon the girls will be bored shitless and probably drunk. Good gaming environment. 4) drink water the girls will probably think you are a cop and you will get visited by all the girls in the club. (professional courtesy?) 5) build social proof in the club by making them laugh and being the life of the party. Most strippers like to live in the here and now, you know, if it feels good do it. 6) don’t buy dances period. 7)buy her a drink if she is willing to earn it. 8)desexualize her. This is the key. Remove her sexuality and she will qualify to you for approval. 9)get her number…super easy. Make a little joke and ask if it’s her “dancer phone”. See most of the time they keep two phones one for sugar daddies and one for mom and dad. 10)leave before the club closes. 11) call her about 2:30-2:45 the same night and you will probably get to go party with her. Enjoy. -R |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 10:19 am ] |
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i ve been going to strip clubs for a while and i ve come to realise 1 thing dont try and sarge them its not a great idea, its like going to a casino without a willingness to gamble. its designed for you to part with your money nothing more nothing less the girls will give you false ioi's and kino just to build rapport with you so that you develop some sort of attachment just so that you get dances from her!!! (she has to pay the bills). i used to love them dancers and yes its a badge of honor but i just dont recommend it! to be honest its kind of a hollow victory because its not really the girl that's the appeal its the venue, its the mindset of 'i cant get laid with one of these lets make it my mission'. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 10:44 am ] |
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Why would you treat a 10 any differently than you would a 6 or a 7? But any way I would not take that route with a stripper. If anything I would treat her as a hired gun as that is what she is, but with the huge note about you are dealing with a hired gun that is use to gaming guys for money. |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 6:20 pm ] |
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Quote: I’ve probably dated more strippers than any other “type” of girls so I’ll give it a shot. This is by no means a method but just some tricks that worked well for me over the years.
Awesome post, great tips, respect
1)stay away from the high class strip clubs To do the actual PU(most of the girls there are there to make $$$). What you want to do is go there and find out where the dancers worked before. Most of the high class places have training clubs that the girls start at and then move to the bigger club once they’ve proved their not crazy or drugies or going to blow some guy for twenty bucks in the VIP room. 2) go on a Sunday (early evening) or a Monday most clubs have a: if you work fri and sat you have to work sun or mon rule. 3) on sun or mon the girls will be bored shitless and probably drunk. Good gaming environment. 4) drink water the girls will probably think you are a cop and you will get visited by all the girls in the club. (professional courtesy?) 5) build social proof in the club by making them laugh and being the life of the party. Most strippers like to live in the here and now, you know, if it feels good do it. 6) don’t buy dances period. 7)buy her a drink if she is willing to earn it. 8)desexualize her. This is the key. Remove her sexuality and she will qualify to you for approval. 9)get her number…super easy. Make a little joke and ask if it’s her “dancer phone”. See most of the time they keep two phones one for sugar daddies and one for mom and dad. 10)leave before the club closes. 11) call her about 2:30-2:45 the same night and you will probably get to go party with her. Enjoy. -R |
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| Author: | quickdrawyall [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 9:56 pm ] |
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Gonna share a small story my brother shared with me about one of the more recent times he's gone to the strip club. Might not be entirely relevant, but do with it what you will. My brother was at a strip club with one of these guys he knows. A stripper comes over and sits on his friend's lap. His friend put his hand on the stripper and started rubbin on her right over her panties. Shortly enough he was finger banging her, and she was just riding up and down on it. Eventually she got off of him, and asked "So, you want a dance?", cause he had never paid her. He told her no. She had nothing she could do or say. What would she do, grab a bouncer and have him kicked out for finger bangin her? No. My brother looked at his friend after they left and was like "How'd you do that? I mean, there's a no touching rule, right?" and his friend looked at him and told him "If you put your hand there, she'll either move it away lightly, or pretend it isn't there." The moral of the story that I'm trying to give is that I don't think it's that hard to sexually escalate with a stripper. Game her how you want after you've managed doing what my brother's friend did without ever saying anything. |
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| Author: | Don Juan 89 [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 10:56 pm ] |
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Thanks guys! Good info |
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| Author: | Zephyrine [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 9:24 pm ] |
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Quote: Why would you treat a 10 any differently than you would a 6 or a 7?
The less attractive a woman is, the more personality she has been forced to develop. Personal development leads to self-esteem. The more self-esteem a girl has the more difficult she will be to game. Most men don't realize this, but the 10+s are usually the absolute easiest to pick-up. They have lived their life with looks as their primary value. All you have to do is disregard their looks and they wil rush to qualify themselves and win your attention. 7s and below usually have more going for them so a simple neg will not have the same effect. |
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| Author: | RockStar_dallas [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 4:03 pm ] |
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The less attractive a woman is, the more personality she has been forced to develop. Personal development leads to self-esteem. The more self-esteem a girl has the more difficult she will be to game.
Good point I actually find that 6-8 are harder to game than 9's and 10's I often find that starting at the top when entering a venue is the best strategy for success. Most men don't realize this, but the 10+s are usually the absolute easiest to pick-up. They have lived their life with looks as their primary value. All you have to do is disregard their looks and they wil rush to qualify themselves and win your attention. 7s and below usually have more going for them so a simple neg will not have the same effect. Case in point I recently did a one on one where the guy opened the super hot 10+ dancing on the raised platform. Not only did she like him but was super impressed by the amount of balls he had for approaching her in front of the entire club, because no else had approached her all night long. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Sat Jul 03, 2010 3:48 am ] |
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Quote: The less attractive a woman is, the more personality she has been forced to develop. Personal development leads to self-esteem. The more self-esteem a girl has the more difficult she will be to game. So pick up is solely based upon girls with low self esteem then? I find that hard to believe. Because if that was the case then why do we have all of these rules and what have you then? As I would think a girl with low self esteem would be pretty easy to pick up no? All you would need to do really is say "hi" and your good to go. And one needs to do more than just say "hi" to pick up a girl.Quote: Most men don't realize this, but the 10+s are usually the absolute easiest to pick-up. They have lived their life with looks as their primary value. All you have to do is disregard their looks and they wil rush to qualify themselves and win your attention. 7s and below usually have more going for them so a simple neg will not have the same effect. You may want to read this rant/post of mine:what-so-special-about-hb10s-vt50450.html |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Sat Jul 03, 2010 3:53 am ] |
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Quote: Good point I actually find that 6-8 are harder to game than 9's and 10's I often find that starting at the top when entering a venue is the best strategy for success. They are "easier" to game because less guys approach them. And because of this hotter girls tend to have less guys to "pick" from so they tend to grab what ever guy approaches them.
Case in point I recently did a one on one where the guy opened the super hot 10+ dancing on the raised platform. Not only did she like him but was super impressed by the amount of balls he had for approaching her in front of the entire club, because no else had approached her all night long. |
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| Author: | anon78910 [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 8:28 pm ] |
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i knew a stripper and she said just about every single girl working at the club was crackwhores... just throwing that out there. not out of anger she said it, she stated it out of surprise. so boys, wrap it up, no raw dawgin these girls. they are strippers for a reason. |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 9:12 pm ] |
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Quote: i knew a stripper and she said just about every single girl working at the club was crackwhores... just throwing that out there. not out of anger she said it, she stated it out of surprise. so boys, wrap it up, no raw dawgin these girls. they are strippers for a reason.
Too general. Varies greatly geographically and socioeconomically etc.
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| Author: | TkoKing [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 12:25 am ] |
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Quote: i knew a stripper and she said just about every single girl working at the club was crackwhores... just throwing that out there. not out of anger she said it, she stated it out of surprise. so boys, wrap it up, no raw dawgin these girls. they are strippers for a reason.
Seriously in Toronto there are some strip clubs I would not recommend to my worst enemies. At the same time like "Rafiel Gamble" said "it varies geographically and socioeconomically." Usually the difference is whether it's a "gentleman's club" or "adult lounge" and whether or not they charge covers. |
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