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Author:  Don Juan 89 [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 6:43 am ]
Post subject:  Are chicks just weird?
I gamed one girl perfectly. In fact, she asked me to hang out 2 times already. We hung out only one of the 2 times. The second time, I was too busy to see her. It seems like she is just playing hard to get now because she is taking way too long to respond to my texts (in fact she ignores them sometimes).

So basically, she asked me to hang out and I couldn't. We then texted some more and I left her off on a funny note. After that she just didn't really respond to me at all. Wtf? Is she playing hard to get now? I am sure I did nothing wrong. I didn't seem needy or anything. She just got really weird.

First time a girl was totally crazy about me then changed gears in 48 hours (about 24 of me not speaking to her).
Author:  David~ [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 6:47 am ]
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Tip for future: If you think you gamed a girl "Perfectly", it probably won't go anywhere.

It's the ones that you struggle with that you go somewhere with.
Author:  Shyler [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 3:31 pm ]
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Yess, girls are weird. the Game etc learns us to know as much as possible to interact with women, how they think and respond correctly to girls' actions, but we can never predict and know them for 100%. Sometimes, you got to adjust your game for different types of girls. Like in 'the game', style couldn't predict Lisa, a hb9 who was arrogant and didn't want to phase shift, while he was the greatest mPUA in the world. he says he finally got lisa by acting afc! (but guys, don't try this at home).

Some girls are just weird. it's advisable to stay away from those type of girls, because they can only make you confused.

In don juan's case, you either did make a mistake (you insulted her, were too needy or whatever (sometimes 1 tiny mistake can blow it)), or she is just weird and over-arrogant, and you should leave her.
Author:  R.G. [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 5:45 pm ]
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Don't be silly - girls are not weird, they're perfectly normal. Anything appears weird if you don't understand it, which means you don't understand girls, which means you don't have good game, which makes it hard to believe you gamed this girl perfectly. Of course SOME girls are weird, but so are SOME guys.

I also disagree with David, but there is a good point to be read from what he said.

Sometimes you can do everything well on your side but something happens to a girl that you can't see or foresee. Imagine delivering your best opener to a girl who's dad just died.

Responding in a frustrated manner like this suggests you have a scarcity mentality, and this may show through in your following game.

The key is not what's happened to her, but how you deal with it. It's easy to sarge when she's into you, but do you have the game to bring her back when she isn't?
Author:  Don Juan 89 [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 7:39 pm ]
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Well the thing is she is naturally a kind of hipster-ish odd chick. I can't really figure her out.

She asked me to go to a bar with her and when I went, she just kept talking to other guys for like 3/4 of the time. I didn't speak to her for a day and, she calls me out of the blue to go biking, just me and her. She does these really odd unpredictable things.

Like she seems totally disinterested then totally interested the next second. She switches on and off nonstop. I can't understand her. Its just not normal how she acts.
Author:  R.G. [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 9:35 pm ]
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OK Don, so SHE is weird, not girls in general.

I don't really want to get involved but sounds like your game was not quite perfect - she acts this way to you, though can you imagine a situation where she is obsessed over a guy? Could that guy be you? Hmm

Good luck to you by the way, I love girls like this.
Author:  Ezo [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 10:24 pm ]
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They arent wierd, they are more logical then we are. If you dont understand why she is doing something, then you arent fluent in girl.

You need to improve your calibration...

There is probably a reason for it.
Author:  Jav [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 12:08 am ]
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Girls can be weird just ss guys can be weird.


IT is fucking bullshit to say every girl is perfectly normal and that you should adopt to her standards.

Fuck that shit, you determine what is normal and you determine what you are willing to put up with.
That is, if you have some sense of self-respect.
Author:  Don Juan 89 [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 3:05 am ]
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Girls can be weird just ss guys can be weird.


IT is fucking bullshit to say every girl is perfectly normal and that you should adopt to her standards.

Fuck that shit, you determine what is normal and you determine what you are willing to put up with.
That is, if you have some sense of self-respect.
lol Vaj always gives the amog answer to it. Very true though.

To be honest, all of your responses are good. I think I might be analyzing my game too much though. I usually know when I do something wrong with a girl though, which is why this time I'm getting bothered a little bit.

Maybe I got a girl with different thoughts than most chicks and I can't adjust to her. I'm sure you'll all agree that if it doesn't work out between us, I'll just game some more tomorrow night 8)
Author:  David~ [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 6:25 am ]
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I find it absolutely normal to disagree with what I said. From my reference of experiences it has run true, and I dont expect many to agree with me on this.
Author:  Shyler [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 2:52 pm ]
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Well the thing is she is naturally a kind of hipster-ish odd chick. I can't really figure her out.

She asked me to go to a bar with her and when I went, she just kept talking to other guys for like 3/4 of the time. I didn't speak to her for a day and, she calls me out of the blue to go biking, just me and her. She does these really odd unpredictable things.

Like she seems totally disinterested then totally interested the next second. She switches on and off nonstop. I can't understand her. Its just not normal how she acts.
A HotPartyBabe9 first ignoring you most of the time while talking to other guys, only to ask you the dat after to ask you to go to bike??? Indeed, she's weird, or like some people rather say: "special".

and ofcourse it is possible for girls to be weird. i know a lot of (pretty) likable and normal girls, who react normaly to most social actions. however, i've also met a bunch of weird girls, the type of girls who don't react normal to social actions, who are difficult to read, and/or who makes your eyebrow moves up above and let your eyes roll and makes you're throat sigh.

when reading it it kinda seems that she might be playing with you. you could argue that 'if you game her right enough then she won't play with you', but then again, there are weird girls, whom you gamed well, and who just like to play with guys without a reason. if she's like that, make her clear you don't like shit and girls who play with you, or stay away from her.

It's up to you if you like that weirdness or "specialness", and if you still want to go for it.

my point of view is tough that it takes too much energy, and chances are that you might get confused and emotionally slamed!
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Girls can be weird just ss guys can be weird.


IT is fucking bullshit to say every girl is perfectly normal and that you should adopt to her standards.

Fuck that shit, you determine what is normal and you determine what you are willing to put up with.
That is, if you have some sense of self-respect.
Well said. Case closed.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 4:20 pm ]
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girls are more emotional and backwards rationalize way more than man do, sometimes you get flakes because she is having a bad day.

i had one woman hooked but she had a bad day during work and whatsoever... anyway she backward rationalized it like i was the source of bad emotions. People make weird rationalisations especially woman.
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they are more logical then we are
this made me laugh very hard
Author:  Ezo [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 5:29 pm ]
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Whats up with everybody changing their names?

Vaj, David~... He he, I liked your old names better. They were warm and fuzzy! :)
Author:  StanleyKowalski [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 8:40 pm ]
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Girls are not weird at all. They want a MAN. A MAN who doesn't need her, is sexual but not creepy, is not intimidated by her, dominates her and others, and doesn't need her to validate him. Any problems happen, because a guy broke one of the rules above.
Author:  Ezo [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 2:31 am ]
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Thats an oversimplification.
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