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| Author: | johnchangmai [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 7:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Having an older wingman can be very helpful. |
O.k I will try and point out a few things here that i believe may be helpful to you. The thread is aimed at the younger guys. (20-25) ish. 1. Just like out of a DOULBLE your DATING philosophy you will find that by hanging out with an older dude to go to places separate from your original friends group, can help you gain valuble experiance. If nothing else. And a new outlook on things. 2. Something i found out years ago is this. If are 21 and look 21 and your friend is say 35 and looks 35 (this is just for example other variations will have the same effect. What actually happens is straight away people will age you both differently. The 21 year old will gain a few years (under normal circumstances) And the 35 year old will lose some. It basically opens up groups of people of various ages and allows you more targets to go for, or more friends etc. The younger guy is percieved higher value with the younger crowd due to knowing an older guy. The older guy can now be accepted into the younger group and is percieved to be cool by the older group, young at heart and interesting. Basically you add value to each other. And you now have a new wingman that is different to all your friends. I am sure others can point out advantages of this or potential problems. But generally it may be worth considering. The end Actually no. 1 last thing. This does not mean ditch your friends if you have more success, but remember friends are not always helpful when you game women. Friends on fridays and other shit on saturdays. Everybody happy. |
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| Author: | Jlax [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 8:35 pm ] |
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I agree. I realized when I hang out with the older people or guys my "Young" friends look up too I get more respect and leadership from the younger guys. If your lets say around 18 and are hanging out with guys much older than you then you are percieved as the cool guy and the younger guys want to befriend you more and more. Good insights. |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 9:44 pm ] |
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Good post and agree. Hang with friends, older wings when possible, it definitely DHV's, it's an attractive look to women, especially if two guys of different age groups are seen to be enjoying their selves. Like the way you put it about friday and saturday's are different days, the week is 7 days, time for a lot, if you want it. I got into the game from my Uncle (I'm 21, 22 soon) He's approaching 40, all started with him, pushing me in field, people were amazed how much fun we were having when out and about, it constantly gives you things to speak about aswell, compliment each-other. |
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| Author: | Jlax [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 10:09 pm ] |
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Chelios, thats really cool man. I wish I had somebody close to me who was into this shit. But having an uncle there is a big advantage in my opinion. 1 because hes your uncle and appaerently he wants the best for you. And 2 because hes older and has alot more experience. |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 10:19 pm ] |
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Quote: Chelios, thats really cool man. I wish I had somebody close to me who was into this shit. But having an uncle there is a big advantage in my opinion. 1 because hes your uncle and appaerently he wants the best for you. And 2 because hes older and has alot more experience.
I agree, He got me into gaming by giving me "The Game" when I split from my LTR of 2 years. It helped, and a breakup has never been so good for me, it's shown me a different aspect in life.He's been through a lot more than me, positives and negatives, especially being nearly twice my age, so experience counts, and it rubs off on me when needed. |
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| Author: | the scamp [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 10:27 pm ] |
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Good post man, and food for thought for me. I'm 32 and have been ignoring younger guys who want to sarge with me because I thought it wouldn't really work. hmmm |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 11:03 pm ] |
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Quote: Good post man, and food for thought for me.
Experience, can't go wrong? Same way if you don't approach a girl you may regret it.I'm 32 and have been ignoring younger guys who want to sarge with me because I thought it wouldn't really work. hmmm Pass some of your experience on, learn some things from a younger guys thoughs, in a win - win situation! |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 5:59 pm ] |
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Great post, very true & interesting. Something that I haven't seen discussed much either. I often find myself sarging with people from work who are usually around 30 so I experience this a lot. It helps me have a touch of sophistication among the things you said. Thankssssssssssssss |
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