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So one has to wait 3 months just to make her give you some attention? I'll talk to my mom if I wanted attention. What about making-out or god forbid, having sex? another 2 months of carefully ignoring her till she jumps you?

Also, you've know this girl for a long time. A newbie does this to a girl he just met he'll get a NEXT and he'll get replaced by a guy that isn't afraid to show interes,t escalate and make out or even godforbid, has sex with her.

Sorry, but I'm not buying it.

It's not effective and it consumes a great deal of time.

There are so many points wrong with this post it isn't funny anymore.
You base this whole theory on one girl, which you have gotten no real results with. For all we know you are her bestfriend and the first person she'd tell she had sex with someone the other night.

Very cute.

This isn't personal, not at all, The deal is that threads like this misguide people into playing the waiting game with a girl that already likes them. Yeah, girl can like you for no apparent reason or without playing silly games like this.

Please read the entire post.. I said I'm not gaming her. What your telling me isn't like big news. Also I was getting her attention back days after I cut off talking to her completely so I didn't have to wait 3 months. Also it doesn't matter if it takes a lot of time unless you have oneitis. I'm gaming 4 girls right now. And she was the 5th girl but since I'm just friends with her I don't count her. Jav I wouldn't be surprised if you weren't in high school anymore but I am so gaming at my level is different then at yours. By the way, I agree with you that you should never do this if you just met a girl. I have heard a hundred stories just like this though with other guys that have ended up banging the chick. If you don't like the story that goes with it then that's fine but do you really disagree with the fact that ignoring a girl, whether it's for an hour or 3 months, doesn't make her feel attracted to you?

Jav's logic has won this thread. This thread will self destruct with pure awesomeness. Please evacuate near the closest exit. Thank you

It works, I won't deny that.

But in my opinion you are still shooting yourself in the foot if you want a relationship with the said girl.

You are making her want your attention for the wrong reason. Her ego gets a kick out of it. You make her chase you a bit, then you give her attention, she will lose interest.

I'm talking solely about the ignoring for attention part. Which seems to be the main point of this thread.

I think my main problem with this thread is that it is easily misinterpretted by newbies as ignoring her will get her attention. This it will do, Since you are taking her validation away. For a girl her identity is everything, so taking her validation for that identity away will make her chase that validation, NOT YOU.

To sum it up:
Any game that involves taking her validation away is great for quick lays, but it is very hard to get a relationship out of it. Since it's not you that she is chasing, It is the validation.

Author:	Flynn [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 6:21 pm ]
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This is kind of for the noobs in PUA but since I just witnessed this first hand yesterday I thought I would explain this process with the story haha. Story There's this girl that I have been just friends with since about 6th grade (I'm not gaming her though). So me and her hung out a lot throughout the years and we started to hang out less. We still talked a lot but I felt like I was the one who was doing the planning more often than not. So I decided to stop communication with her completely. I stopped messaging her on facebook. Not noticing her in hallways. Made plans with some friends we had in common but not inviting her. THIS DOESN'T MEAN BE A DICK HEAD THOUGH! Like if she says hi to me in a hallways I'll say hey back, but that's it. I won't try and keep the conversation alive and continue talking to her. When she playfully punched me in the arm, she wanted my attention. It's working. I have a personality where I can literally say nothing but jokes in an entire conversation and not be annoying as fuck. So I was talking to a teacher and she was in the room and I was saying some jokes with the teacher and saw that I was making the her laugh. This made her remember my personality and she missed me even more. Then big surprise when she sees me at lunch she gives a huge ass hug. I was like "ummm who are you?" and she laughed and I was like "What the fuck did you like die or something?" and she was telling me how she wants to hang out and shit. And so on... Main Point Being If you want a girl to want you, you have to ignore her even if it takes months. That entire story took place over a timeline of about 3 months. Hope this helped some of you guys. Have a good one. -Surreal

Author:	Jav [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 6:34 pm ]
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So one has to wait 3 months just to make her give you some attention? I'll talk to my mom if I wanted attention. What about making-out or god forbid, having sex? another 2 months of carefully ignoring her till she jumps you? Also, you've know this girl for a long time. A newbie does this to a girl he just met he'll get a NEXT and he'll get replaced by a guy that isn't afraid to show interes,t escalate and make out or even godforbid, has sex with her. Sorry, but I'm not buying it. It's not effective and it consumes a great deal of time. There are so many points wrong with this post it isn't funny anymore. You base this whole theory on one girl, which you have gotten no real results with. For all we know you are her bestfriend and the first person she'd tell she had sex with someone the other night. Very cute. This isn't personal, not at all, The deal is that threads like this misguide people into playing the waiting game with a girl that already likes them. Yeah, girl can like you for no apparent reason or without playing silly games like this.

Author:	Flynn [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 6:41 pm ]
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Please read the entire post.. I said I'm not gaming her. What your telling me isn't like big news. Also I was getting her attention back days after I cut off talking to her completely so I didn't have to wait 3 months. Also it doesn't matter if it takes a lot of time unless you have oneitis. I'm gaming 4 girls right now. And she was the 5th girl but since I'm just friends with her I don't count her. Jav I wouldn't be surprised if you weren't in high school anymore but I am so gaming at my level is different then at yours. By the way, I agree with you that you should never do this if you just met a girl. I have heard a hundred stories just like this though with other guys that have ended up banging the chick. If you don't like the story that goes with it then that's fine but do you really disagree with the fact that ignoring a girl, whether it's for an hour or 3 months, doesn't make her feel attracted to you?

Author:	Warped Mindless [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 7:01 pm ]
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Quote: So one has to wait 3 months just to make her give you some attention? I'll talk to my mom if I wanted attention. What about making-out or god forbid, having sex? another 2 months of carefully ignoring her till she jumps you? Also, you've know this girl for a long time. A newbie does this to a girl he just met he'll get a NEXT and he'll get replaced by a guy that isn't afraid to show interes,t escalate and make out or even godforbid, has sex with her. Sorry, but I'm not buying it. It's not effective and it consumes a great deal of time. There are so many points wrong with this post it isn't funny anymore. You base this whole theory on one girl, which you have gotten no real results with. For all we know you are her bestfriend and the first person she'd tell she had sex with someone the other night. Very cute. This isn't personal, not at all, The deal is that threads like this misguide people into playing the waiting game with a girl that already likes them. Yeah, girl can like you for no apparent reason or without playing silly games like this. Quoted for truth.

Author:	Jav [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 7:04 pm ]
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Quote: Please read the entire post.. I said I'm not gaming her. What your telling me isn't like big news. Also I was getting her attention back days after I cut off talking to her completely so I didn't have to wait 3 months. Also it doesn't matter if it takes a lot of time unless you have oneitis. I'm gaming 4 girls right now. And she was the 5th girl but since I'm just friends with her I don't count her. Jav I wouldn't be surprised if you weren't in high school anymore but I am so gaming at my level is different then at yours. By the way, I agree with you that you should never do this if you just met a girl. I have heard a hundred stories just like this though with other guys that have ended up banging the chick. If you don't like the story that goes with it then that's fine but do you really disagree with the fact that ignoring a girl, whether it's for an hour or 3 months, doesn't make her feel attracted to you? Could you please explain how this story about a girl who you are friends with (and probably won't make out or godforbid have sex with) is going to help others that ARE infact gaming other girls Or is another case of the blind leading the blind. As for the differences 'gaming' (quite funny as you said you weren't gaming that girl) on my or on your level, that's all just a bunch of mental masturbation and overcomplicating of things. If you think it's a big deal than you should change the topic title to "how to make high school girls to want you". on your little 'fact', do you really need to make her wait if she already likes you? Sounds pointless to me.

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Author:	samex [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 7:17 pm ]
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Jav's logic has won this thread. This thread will self destruct with pure awesomeness. Please evacuate near the closest exit. Thank you

Author:	Flynn [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 7:35 pm ]
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While writing this post I'm believing that most women's brains are hard-wired the same way. If there's something a women can't get, she simply wants it more. Ignoring a girl who you usually start conversations with every single day, will surprise her. Make her think "why is he ignoring me". I think your focusing on the fact that this was over 3 months. The only reason this was 3 months was because I'm not gaming her. If I was tryna make out with her then I wouldn't have taken this long. This story will help guys because it's one example of many that shows that ignoring a girl makes her want you more. I'll admit when I'm wrong though and I think I was wrong where I said that you should wait 3 months if you have to. This post is also about not looking needy. When I was starting conversations and asking her if she wanted to hang out that's what I was doing. I just wanted to see what would happen if I cut off starting these conversations and everything. And that was my result. So thinking that most girl's brains are hard-wired the same way, I think this would be how most other girls would be. Oh and one last note, if she really likes you more than a friend then she will be more inclined to start conversations with you anyways.

Author:	Jav [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 7:44 pm ]
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Quote: Jav's logic has won this thread. This thread will self destruct with pure awesomeness. Please evacuate near the closest exit. Thank you not neccesary. It's not a match about who is more right than the other. All I'm trying is to show some insight in an alternative (and in my opinion a more effective) way.

Author:	Flynn [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 7:51 pm ]
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Jav, I actually prefer when I'm wrong in an argument because I feel like I learn more from it but I think I'm just demonstrating how to not look needy more than anything rather than how to get a girl to like you in the story. If you'd like to talk one on one hit me up with a message because you seem pretty educated on this stuff.

Author:	AFC Royal [ Sun Jun 13, 2010 2:15 am ]
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Jav, your logic is unshakable. Though I must say: this HAS worked for me before. I think the point we're getting hung up on is that one could find a faster alternative to game her and get her in bed. So this solution works, but is unnecessarily complicated. I think the important take-home point is this: abundance. AFC Adam talked about this in the 21convention video footage. The 3 qualities of a natural are confidence, abundance, and ability to sexually escalate. What gets the girl is the idea of abundance. That alone will improve your success.

Author:	MagicAllan [ Sun Jun 13, 2010 7:03 pm ]
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Ignoring is easy and probs most effectice. They love dat shiit

Author:	Jav [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 1:07 am ]
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It works, I won't deny that. But in my opinion you are still shooting yourself in the foot if you want a relationship with the said girl. You are making her want your attention for the wrong reason. Her ego gets a kick out of it. You make her chase you a bit, then you give her attention, she will lose interest. I'm talking solely about the ignoring for attention part. Which seems to be the main point of this thread. I think my main problem with this thread is that it is easily misinterpretted by newbies as ignoring her will get her attention. This it will do, Since you are taking her validation away. For a girl her identity is everything, so taking her validation for that identity away will make her chase that validation, NOT YOU. To sum it up: Any game that involves taking her validation away is great for quick lays, but it is very hard to get a relationship out of it. Since it's not you that she is chasing, It is the validation.

Author:	Flynn [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 4:48 am ]
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Quote: It works, I won't deny that. But in my opinion you are still shooting yourself in the foot if you want a relationship with the said girl. You are making her want your attention for the wrong reason. Her ego gets a kick out of it. You make her chase you a bit, then you give her attention, she will lose interest. I'm talking solely about the ignoring for attention part. Which seems to be the main point of this thread. I think my main problem with this thread is that it is easily misinterpretted by newbies as ignoring her will get her attention. This it will do, Since you are taking her validation away. For a girl her identity is everything, so taking her validation for that identity away will make her chase that validation, NOT YOU. To sum it up: Any game that involves taking her validation away is great for quick lays, but it is very hard to get a relationship out of it. Since it's not you that she is chasing, It is the validation. So you think that she is looking for validation rather than your attention? That might be true for some girls but for the majority of women they wouldn't really give a shit about your validation if they didn't like you. Taking her validation away will work as a sign of disinterest. Its like in the mystery method showing disinterest makes her work for and want your attention. It's not like as soon as she gets it she's like "OK I'm happy, fuck off" she wants your attention/validation for a reason.. she's interested in you.

Author:	Don Juan 89 [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:55 am ]
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I'm going to run game on a chick then wait 3 months to call her back if she doesn't like me from the start. Not going to go well....

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