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Author:  Onoma [ Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:55 am ]
Post subject:  Managing Expectations

Ok, so I'm pretty terrible at managing dates.

Part of the "problem" is that I meet a few of these women through a small social club. But since the events are advertised on a website any girl can just end up going...

Now honestly in tomorrow nights case it was my own stupidity. I hit it off (apparently, I was too drunk to tell) with one girl last Friday, then over the weekend set up a couple events. Met another girl yesterday, and since she was planning on going Friday I asked her out for drinks first. Only now the second girl just RSVP'd...

I guess I need to convey that I'm looking for a long term thing, but don't want to limit my options after just meeting someone but not sure how I'd do that competently.

And since it's the third time in a row something similar as happened... I think I need some advice on how to broach the subject early on.

Author:  Onoma [ Fri Jun 04, 2010 7:26 pm ]
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Anyone?

Author:  AFC Royal [ Fri Jun 04, 2010 8:24 pm ]
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If you want to keep your options open, you could keep her as an FB, though if you really want a girlfriend, you'll have to discuss with her how she would feel if you were seeing other women as well. It depends on the girl.

If she says no, I would highly recommend you picking one or the other. You can always carry on MLTR's with none of them knowing about each other, but it's a terrible idea.

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