Jav Jav Jav Jav. (Dunno, just felt like saying your name
)You raise an interesting point, one I thought of when I was out a week or so ago when some chick tried controlling me / getting what she wanted.
You missed a big one out I think, girls can often also try to be over nice to get things. Now to the aspiring PEE YEW AY, they could easily fall into this trap of 'going along with' the girl and her niceness. These chicks are slightly more manipulative and sly, so it's okay to be a bit more assertive than usual. But don't turn into a snobby little bitch and up your own ass about it, makes you look like a little girl.
I think the problem, when giving advice like our friend Jav has done here, is that guys often interpret it as 'be an asshole' or having to be overly ass-ish about shit. Which basically swings to the over side of the spectrum, so instead of being a pussy you become a guy who is scared of being a pussy and trying to make up for it. Or you might just be an asshole.
I think the best way to deal with this, and as I think Jav might have said, is to not take their little tantrums seriously. Personally I find it cute, so I just look at them like 'aww you're so sweet', they will continue to throw tantrum sometimes (depending on the chick), but if you're still and immoveable internally (mood not affected by other people) she will come round and be back to normal after she realises her bullshit isn't budging you.
You can also throw in some *slightly* patronising comfort like 'awww, babyyyy I'm sorrryy' and be all huggy/kissy with them. It has to seem more genuine with a hint of patronising.
Or alternatively, you can be the dominant one and sort it out so that you both benefit from it. So, agreeing to her plans, but throwing in a tonne of yours before it. " Alright, we'll do that in a minute, but first I want to...."
Etc.
Maybe one of these suits you more than the other, or also suits the situation better than the other.
I've done them all, and they all work.
or '"Awww, baby, I'll make it up to youuu" (with sex, standard.)
Allthough what me and Jav have said here is veryyyy easy and common damn sense, you'd be surprised at how easily MOST guys fall into this trap. I on occasion have found myself almost slipping into it, but then you notice it and pull yourself out of it before the evil wicked women get their way
Love
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~Finesse
