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Author:  #1 Jish [ Sun May 30, 2010 8:01 am ]
Post subject:  Living with an Alpha
I have just moved in with a natural PUA, and definitely an alpha male who’s gf is also an alpha female.

Already its only been one day and its absolutely incredible that all the traits and characteristics we search for on this forum come naturally to them, so so much that they don’t even recognize them as a traits, its just natural.

But also, I'm realising they are just normal people like you and me.

So down to the question part... what should i be looking to learn from them?

they have already offered to take me shopping to create an avatar for me, ironically they don’t even know of pua they came up with it all by themself. Cool stuff hey :wink:
Author:  trixsta [ Sun May 30, 2010 11:16 am ]
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One thing already would be to not let them create an image for you, but create it yourself!

There's no difference between this and listening to their advice though, just don't follow it blindly and make sure you agree.

Have fun man, I find people who are confident are a lot more fun in life; great people to kick about with.
Author:  #1 Jish [ Thu Jun 03, 2010 1:30 am ]
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One thing already would be to not let them create an image for you, but create it yourself!

There's no difference between this and listening to their advice though, just don't follow it blindly and make sure you agree.

Have fun man, I find people who are confident are a lot more fun in life; great people to kick about with.
thanks for your reply trixta, yes i will create my own self image im having alot of fun making a new style, ill keep in mind not to be led blindly into situations or opinions i dont agree with, as for them being more fun to hang out with, definately!
Author:  Rye Lee [ Thu Jun 03, 2010 7:26 am ]
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Try to keep in mind that as great as THEY are, your goal is to make yourself great and not to merely become like them. I have found that many people (myself included) accidentally or even intentionally end up copying another person's style in an attempt to "be just like them". One person having a style is cool. Two people having similar styles is cool. Two people having the exact same style and mannerisms is just weird and off-putting. Imitation may be the most sincere form of flattery, but it's creepy and turns people off.

That being said, I'm sure living with them will help accelerate your growth. I am a firm believer in NLP and using Modeling in order to acquire the best parts of people and incorporate them into yourself.
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