Earlier this week, I was out with a girl (meeting #2) and after eating we went to an Irish pub. It happened to be karaoke night so we just sat at a dark table in the corner and had a good time looking at fools and talented drunks singing.

During one song, Poker Face, she mentioned that she really liked it or something like that. So i whispered in her ear to "remember this the next time you hear this song" and i (gently but firmly) grabbed the hair above her neck and kissed her very well. (Note it's not the first kiss, but it i guess it could be)

Next day i texted her in the afternoon "ppppoker face"

It's just something that happened on the spot; i have tried it only once and it seems like a good low-pressure text to send the day after an f-close. Please share your thoughts.

Yeah... it looks like anchoring from NLP.

Which is basically getting her in a state and then associating it with a gesture, object, color or song.

This can be really effective, if you skilfully built the anticipation for the kiss she should be in the state of wanting it, then when you say to her remember it when she listens the song you anchored it.

Now when you text her the name of the song her mind will go back in time and remember what's associated with it, and that's called "firing the anchor", and through conditioning making her wanting to kiss you again.

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