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Yes most HB9/10's I meet...(the ones EVERYONE want to bang)...have no substance since they dont have to. Everyone wants them for their looks. Every so often you meet one that has sold inner self respect, confidence, intelligence though...far and few between it seems.

But theyre out there

referring to the hb9 and hb10s, their looks have gotten them so far in life and they have no backing for it. They say things that have no backing other than that's what their parents raised them to believe.

Some how they have these perfect bodies, and drink like its their birthday every night. They don't eat right and smoke cigarettes all day.

Maybe I'm jealous because I have to spend 6 hours in the gym each week for the past 5 years to have a semi-presentable body, and when they ask me to go out with them I have to decline because I would lose what I had gained during the week of lifting.

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Again, here's where the perceived value gets in.

You see a hot woman and you automaticly start thinking: she must be this or this.
Then she gives you attention: She's so nice.

You pretty much project your own desires of personality you want from her on her, based on her LOOKS.

Then you start dating her and find out she's not such a nice person after all.


Stop making assumptions, Get to know someone.

I many times get girls to divulge personal things about themselves they havent told ANYONE except their closest friends or family...my verbal communication skills are by far my most powerful attribute when gaming.

I can assure you that based on quite conclusive first hand experience, many Los Angeles HB10's are indeed A PRODUCT OF THEIR ENVIRONMENT (seeking: status, attention, power) especially while in their 20's....this is the age I shoot for.

]If you read my whole post you'll notice that I also say "but theyre out there"...in other words they exist but are not the norm where Im from in HB10 physical form.

I won't comment on the main questions, seeing as everyone else already did. But why would you lose what you have gained when you go out? Loads of buddies of mine workout and have massive muscles, and they go out and drink. Nothing wrong with it. They workout like 3-4 times a week though.

Also, you don't HAVE to drink when you go out.

I'm what you call a pure ectomorph, it's a body type that wants to be as straight as a ruler. I have tiny wrist, ankles, and bone structure, yet I'm 6'0. Before I started working out I was 123lbs and 6'0. I would eat like a "normal" person. 2500 Calories a day.

I am now 173lbs and 6'0 and eat over 6000 calories a day for the past 5 years. Drinking, dehydrates you, muscles are 90% water, thus losing muscle. Unfortunately I'm an addict and if I have one drink I'm going to continue drinking til I'm drunk. For reference I eat 8 meals a day, if I skip 2 meals one day and weigh in at the gym the next day I'm going to be down a pound or 2, if I do this for a week, I'll lose 10lbs. I went on a road trip with a friend for 5 days, I weighed 172 before the trip, we ate fast food the entire trip at the same time, same amount of food was consumed, except I ate peanut butter and milk before bed and SPAM right when I woke up. I lost 5lbs over 5 days, he gained 6lbs.

The people I know, who have invited me to go out, actually put me down if we go out and I don't drink. At this point in my life I just want to get my business off and running, finish my degree, and buy the cars I want. I've got a game plan and women just don't seem to fit in.

If I were able to find a beautiful supportive girlfriend, so be it. But a needy, self-centered, party like it's your birthday every night isn't for me.