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| Author: | magnum45 [ Sun Mar 28, 2010 6:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Why is it so hard to be single? |
Why is it that I fall in love with every good looking girl in my life? |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sun Mar 28, 2010 6:43 pm ] |
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Because you have a scarcity mentality. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Sun Mar 28, 2010 7:00 pm ] |
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^True that. |
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| Author: | madals [ Sun Mar 28, 2010 7:48 pm ] |
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Because you have a .... oh wait - This: Quote: Because you have a scarcity mentality.
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| Author: | SSN [ Sun Mar 28, 2010 9:55 pm ] |
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Quote: Because you have a scarcity mentality.
How do you change that?
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| Author: | Jav [ Sun Mar 28, 2010 9:59 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Because you have a scarcity mentality.
How do you change that?this is a mix, you mainly go out and meet new people, you develop attractive traits (value) and then you top it off with assuming attraction. |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Sun Mar 28, 2010 10:03 pm ] |
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What Chief said. |
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| Author: | Bonita [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 4:19 am ] |
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Are you actually in love with them or the idea of love? Some people are in search of love so much that they see every new prospect as their next love. I'm not saying this is your case, just throwing it out there. Evaluate these women you are in love with. Think of the reasons why you love them. Are their values and ideas really congruent with each other? Do you two have any major differences? You need to figure out if your feelings are rue for the women or if you are just in love with love. Additionally, there is a theory that we are attracted to our ideal selves....that means we are attracted to people that possess the characteristics that we desire for ourselves. If you notice that these women possess similar characteristics, you may be striving to fix some internal issue. Anyway...those are just some thoughts. |
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| Author: | Marc [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 4:28 am ] |
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There is nothing wrong in being in love with Women in general - Their soft smooth skin, silky hair, cutie eyes, beautiful nails - Which man wouldn't fall in love with them. The problem starts when you start obsessing about Just one girl or Over anything in general, thats the scarcity mentality. |
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| Author: | mrcoffee999888 [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 6:31 am ] |
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It's not the girl, it's the process. ~David De'Angelo |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 7:48 pm ] |
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Love is good, obsession is bad. |
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| Author: | SSN [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 9:36 pm ] |
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Quote: Love is good, obsession is bad.
Where do you draw the line between love and obsession?
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 10:34 pm ] |
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magnum's trollin' again? |
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| Author: | magnum45 [ Wed Mar 31, 2010 1:47 am ] |
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Quote: Magnum, I just learned today that this also can be a symptom of certain mental illnesses. You may do well asking someone with schooling on the matter about this.
Any of various disorders characterized chiefly by abnormal behavior or an inability to function socially, including diseases of the mind and personality and certain diseases of the brain. Ok maybe I over exagerated. I don't litterally fall in love with every hot girl. But I did seem to have a check list and once these girls meet that list then I tend to care about them more than they care about me. I doubt seriously that I have a mental illness since I am able to function normally in society. |
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