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| Author: | Energy_ [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 9:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Being prepared for the worst outcome? |
I need your thoughts on being prepared for the worst outcome in a set. I dont have AA. But I have a plan B, if people I girl blows me off. Sometimes my Plan B has even turned things around and its gone well. If someone tells me to fuck off for just saying "Hi" (you know what I mean). I say: "Oh, I didnt realise the problems you had in your early teens resulted in you being rude to people you dont know. Its pathetic, enjoy your evening". One time I approached a girl C&F with and she told me that "what I said to her was the worst pick-up attempt ever and that I should fuck off and burn". After delivering Plan B she gave it some thought and appologised, explaining she just brooke up with her boyfriend. You go figure out the rest. So, does any one else have a Plan B stacked? Im thinking maybe this mindset (things might go wrong) is preventing me from devolping a better inner game in the long run. Im probably still a bit scared to be blown off even though I dont think about when approach. |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 11:16 pm ] |
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Now I dont wanna sound like a dick... But I dont like your plan B very much. You are giving her too much importance. If she is being an asshole let her. Just say, well whatever, nice to meet you and go for the next. Do not even let it touch you emotionally, that will cause you to lose value. If Brad Pitt get to hear no thanks from a random girl do you think he cares? No, neither should you. Just let it go. |
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| Author: | Dr. Beat [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 11:37 pm ] |
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I agree with Ezo here. If she gets a rise out of you, then she won. If you don't let it phase you, then you win. |
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| Author: | SpeXXX [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 11:51 pm ] |
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You didn't even approach and you already have a plan B not knowing what is waiting for you. You are insecure in your opener that you developed yourself a way that you could fix things. IT IS OK to get rejected by a set but it will have a momentum effect on the next sets you'll run and make things easier for you. Don't try to fix things, you are crushing your confidence by doing that. screw her, she is nobody. Be unreactive, laugh about it, and keep the positive energy. |
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