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Author:  Brittan Benz [ Tue Mar 23, 2010 10:14 pm ]
Post subject:  4 Ideas To EXPLODE Your College Game
Real College Game From Real Natural Men

Hello All:

Brittan Benz here. This is my first post on this forum, so I wanna start this off right and give you guys some sweet info.
College game is awesome, and I love it. In my college days, for me, it was all about throwing parties, managing my social circle, and well… getting lots of hotties.
Here’s a little guide I put together for being the MAN on campus.
I’m gonna take this from a freshman starting out perspective, but all the same concepts apply.
Here’s a few things that make College a little different that straight game out of school:

1. You will see the same people A LOT, and it’s much more about Social Circle and ACTUAL vs. MANUFACTURED social proof. In a club environment you can create your social proof (or ruin it) much more quickly. In college, you establish this sort of thing over a period of time, ie your college experience.

2. MUCH more pre established groups- you’ve got sports teams, clubs, fraternities, druggies, rockers, hip hop dancer, or whatever is popular at your school. For me, the frat/sororstitute scene was huge and 95% of the hotties were in a sorority. But, it doesn’t matter. It’s different at every school. Same concepts apply.

The key to college game is, of course, showing your alpha characteristics, and being the leader of the coolest groups of guys on campus.

As a freshman, man guys are simply looking for someone to follow… BE THAT GUY. The same alpha skill sets apply. Find cool guys in your dorm that you can lead. Take them to parties you hear about, create your own party, go to a cool club, whatever.

As I said before the pre-established clique thing is huge in college. Whatever it is- sorority, frat, sports team, or whatever. If you’re already in school you probably already have a feel for what I’m talking about.

Round Up Cool Group of Guys
If you’re in a social circle with a cool group of guys, and even better, you’re LEADING them, this screams social value and social proof. But, how do you get your foot in the door if they’ve already established a cool group of guys? OFFER VALUE. Show them that you’ve had cool experiences, and you know how to have a good time. Don’t overdo this and supplicate, and have the attitude of “pick me”. No.

If they have an established group of guys, then they probably already share common experiences and stories. You can show them that you have similar stories and that you lead a fun, interesting life as well.

Think about all the cool things you’ve done, or crazy experiences you’ve had and don’t be afraid to share them…

“So one time me and a couple guys from back home went to this house party, and this girl blah blah blah…”

Stories that demonstrate higher value. ALWAYS. Don’t overuse, or you’ll come across as try-hard, fake.

Now, you’ve shared cool experiences with cool guys. Once you’ve developed respect from these guys start getting them involved in your life. Get them psyched about something, find some cool party, or cool place to go. Tell them about some sweet party. Remember, lead aka LEADER of men.

As with the clubs, and night scenes out of college, the same rules apply. Don’t be afraid to be loud, and have a good time. Go up and give buddies high fives, and have a generally alpha attitude. This isn’t the time to go into this as multiple threads cover this aspect.

Anyways, women pick up on your alpha tendancies. Your ego will be thriving and you will bounce into a high energy alpha state. The more you do this, the more this snowballs into attention from women.

Now, pick out your target (targets) at the party, and instantly start touting the after party that you plan on going to. Frankly, it really doesn’t matter what it is. If YOU are excited about it, then they will be excited about it. If it’s only you and a couple buddies, doesn’t matter. I used to love to do this when I lived in the fraternity house. If you live there, going back there is a lot of fun, and the fact that you live at the fraternity house means you really don’t know what’s going to happen there.

Find the Social Power Circles
I can’t stress this enough, but it’s imperative that you find the hub of social power for guys. It could be a fraternity, it could be a sports team, it could be just a random group of guys, whomever it is, you need to locate that group.
Another important aspect of this it to be honest with yourself. If you’re in college already and you have a social group, and it’s not the one pulling all the girls, and having the most fun, it’s important that you be honest with yourself. If you’re in a fraternity, and there’s a sports team or other fraternity that is the one always pulling the hottest girls, then don’t be afraid to simply admit to yourself that they are the social hub.

It doesn’t mean that you can’t be involved, it simply means that you may want to spend a little more time broadening your social network with those people. Make that your target… the whole social scene of that group, not a particular girl in the group.

Merge, Merge, Merge
Another concept that I really like is merging. If you can start merging big social groups together, then you are the alpha male. For example, if all the girls from one sorority go over to the football player’s houses all the time, then make friends with a few of them, and get them over to your buddies house that is in a certain fraternity. I make this example because it just shows that you do not have to actually be in that fraternity or group, but simply bringing girls over like this creates huge social proof for you, and these guys will love you for it. Bringing people together is key.

How I LITERALLY Created My Own Social Scene

I can’t say that this will work for everyone, and frankly, it might now be practical for anyone. But, I’m going to go ahead and share what I’ve done and had lots of success doing it.

First, if you’ve established yourself as a cool guy, that has lots of friends this may be much easier. So, let’s just say that I did this as a senior.

Ok, so as I mentioned before I was in a fraternity. I had been a member for 3 years, and the last year I didn’t join it officially (money issues) but of course all these guys were still my friends, the younger ones and older ones.

It just so happened that my fraternity got placed on social probation, and they were no longer allowed to throw parties for the semester.

Now, this idea is not for the faint of heart, so I do not advise against this.
Well, the treasurer happened to be one of my good friends, and of course, in a frat, the treasurer controls all the money. (nice thing to control).
Anyways, I approached him with this sneaky little plan to give me some cash, I set up a party at a bar and rent it out, and then I charge a little $5 cover at the door for guys only (to help get some cash back).

I put my name on it, it looks as if I threw this incredible party, and we didn’t tell anyone about the little arrangement that the fraternity was fronting the money.
So, they couldn’t get in trouble because the fraternity didn’t actually throw the party.

I ended up throwing this blowout private party at a bar with about 250 people (about 60% girls as they got in free) with 3 kegs (all the girls got to drink free) and after I had collected to money at the front for kegs and paid for the bar and kegs, I only lost $60 on the whole party. I could have EASILY MADE A LOT OF MONEY HAD I CHARGED THE GIRLS!

The treasurer was FINE with loosing $60 because it was a SICK party, and you cannot imagine the social proof that was built up when people on campus are talking about not a fraternity throwing a party, but one guy renting out a bar, and having 3 kegs where girls get in and drink the keg beer free.

This may not be practical for you guys, but it’s just a thought to get the wheels spinning on ideas and to show that it is possible to throw a ridiculous party without any money of your own. Just get creative.

Hope this was helpful in some way and I look forward to posting more here and on my blog!

B.B.

P.S. you can read the rules about advertising. -Hobbit
Author:  Tasty [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 12:36 am ]
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Good post man
There's some valuable "college game" videos on the 21convention (google) website.
Nick Sparks, Ratisse, and Francis Adams, if I remember correctly.

I'm on my 3rd year at this large university, and have 3 years left to go. I have kind of lost the couple groups of girls I used to hang out with, so my social circle is kind of dead. Only a few good friends that I always hang out with. In my experiences, I would make business contacts with girls (which shall remain nameless here), then slowly enter their social circle by befriending just one of them. One likes you, then you're in.

I'm in the process of building it back up, because the past couple years I lived in a really cheap apartment. Now I live in a huge house that is only a couple years old. Thinking about throwing small party, or even just having people over all weekend to build up my circle. I think that's the best way to get popular if you have cool party people and free alcohol.

Never was in a frat (mistake) or sports team, the only thing i'm really involved in is lifting weights at the gym, where I see a lot of people I know.
If you're about to go to college, I highly recommend joining a frat. TONS of benefits involving social skills and being outgoing. Plus its easier to get laid. I couldn't really afford 4 grand a year on membership fee.
Author:  ALIO [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 1:47 am ]
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great post.... anyone in Australia have any tips... we dont have fraternities so wat's the alternative?


cheers
Author:  Brittan Benz [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 2:32 am ]
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I apologize to the moderator hobbit for not following the advertising policy. I've looked around trying to find info on this.

I would really like to be able to post a link to my blog in the signature. Is that within the rules? I'm glad some of you liked the post.
Author:  ShadowSketched [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 3:27 am ]
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I apologize to the moderator hobbit for not following the advertising policy. I've looked around trying to find info on this.

I would really like to be able to post a link to my blog in the signature. Is that within the rules? I'm glad some of you liked the post.
LOL @ Hobbit stepping in.

A signature like I have is cool. Just put like "My blog about seduction" with a link. Haven't been told anything yet, so I'm sure it's cool.

My big rule in college and still today is to treat everyone equally. My first few years of college I hung out with the guys in the arcade because that's what I liked doing. Third year or so was when I decided to try out joining a fraternity, and I made some more friends along the way. By the end of my college career, I had to duck on a side route to get to class without getting noticed. Just because you're part of a high-profile organization doesn't mean you should treat other people like dirt.

Out of curiousity, what frat were you in?
Author:  Brittan Benz [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 4:09 am ]
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Thanks hobbit for clearing that up! I was an SAE. I still have alum status.

As I mentioned in the post, at my school SAE was top dog along with another fraternity while I was there. Makes your life MUCH easier when you are in one of the fraternities that gets lots of girls as a whole.

One thing I will say, is that if you have this whole stereotype of "frat dudes are fags" I would at least consider it. Yes, it may not be cool at your school and you don't wanna "pay for your friends" or whatever. But, at some schools, frats are kings of the party world.

If you aren't in one, make friends with these guys!
Author:  ShadowSketched [ Thu Mar 25, 2010 3:31 am ]
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Cool. I always like to see if I can run into a Lambda Chi, that's my fraternity.

My best advice about joining a fraternity is to first join it for yourself. Don't join it because you want women, booze, or a resume item, join it because you want to become a better person.

I know some fraternities who portray the stereotypical frat boy image though. Not mentioning any names.
Author:  kingcarmelo [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 5:16 pm ]
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great post.... anyone in Australia have any tips... we dont have fraternities so wat's the alternative?


cheers
LOL dont even get me started on how bad uni life is in australia. I will definetley be going to college in the u.s next year. Apparently american girls love our accents?
Author:  rain3 [ Wed Mar 31, 2010 3:59 am ]
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only criticism i have is that you only got 3 KEGS for 250 PEOPLE??? haha jk.. must have been a lot of ppl buying drinks at the bar too im guessing? the house parties here throw 5 kegs on an average night with only around 100-175 ppl id say n they always run out

just curious lol
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