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Author:  l oasis l [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 10:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Attracting the wrong girls
There are many girls I don't want due to moral issues (underage, platonic female friends, cousins, friend's girlfriends/siblings, and uglies)

We all know that acting uninterested, indifferent, aka 'hard to get', attracts girls even more.

With great power comes great responsibility - I've internalized everything PUA has taught me, therefore attract even when I don't want to.

So I guess my question is, ironically, the opposite of what this site is about: How do I become unattractive to [select] girls?
Author:  Jav [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 11:15 pm ]
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Do the opposite of what you were doing?


Truthfully,

If you like spending time around someone you go and do that.
However, If you don't like spending time around someone then you don't.

Fuck all this "attraction" bullshit.

You don't know anything
Author:  l oasis l [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 11:21 pm ]
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Do the opposite of what you were doing?
I'm not doing anything, it's internalized, it's passive attraction. I'm wondering if there's a way to actively... unattract.. for lack of a better term. I could be a complete dick, but that wouldn't solve anything. I don't want to chase them away, just prevent the 'sex eyes'
Author:  Jav [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 11:40 pm ]
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Do the opposite of what you were doing?
I'm not doing anything, it's internalized, it's passive attraction. I'm wondering if there's a way to actively... unattract.. for lack of a better term. I could be a complete dick, but that wouldn't solve anything. I don't want to chase them away, just prevent the 'sex eyes'
jokessss maaiiiiin


but
you simply dont prevent the sex eyes

you think thats cute and keep it in mind for the next time you feel the urge to do something naughty
Author:  Marc [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 11:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Attracting the wrong girls
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....I've internalized everything PUA has taught me, therefore attract even when I don't want to. How do I become unattractive to [select] girls?
Poor Little Boy, He is soo attractive that now he has to learn being unattractive !

Why not just keep them in comfort. You dont have to escalate physically, dont have to be responsive to their advances just talk to them as friends and eventually the attraction would die down or they would move on.
Author:  R.G. [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 11:52 pm ]
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Actually this is a very real problem and I empathise with Oasis. It's an annoying problem too and one of my sticking points that I've been working on for about 3-4 months now is how to friendzone girls I don't want to attract.

For instance I have a bad habit of attracting sisters of mates (it often starts out as a joke), and one is to the point of obsession. Hell, one of my mates even took a knife to me once for this reason! (But it was more in a joking manner...sort of...).

The best tactic by far that I've found is to use the suffix "mate" at the end of all your sentences. For some reason this gets through bitch language and they realise they're in the friendzone category.

DLVs work but one gets tired of having to force low value just to get friendzone status - that's a sad situation. I find (mostly) talking about other girls, or how you find so-and-so celebrity of actress hot also helps as it shows disinterest and whilst you do this in an aloof dumb manner, they pick up on it well.
Author:  l oasis l [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 11:59 pm ]
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you simply dont prevent the sex eyes

you think thats cute and keep it in mind for the next time you feel the urge to do something naughty
hahaha, I guess there can't be a way to 'stop' - that would go against the laws of nature.

I had a roommate back in the day who knew I was an aspiring PUA, and knew the very basic theory behind it, but didn't indulge deep into the learning process since he had a long term girlfriend. The thing is, he would see her giving me IOIs here and there, which made me very uncomfortable... knowing he 'knew'... even though I didn't do anything wrong.

I doubt that would effect me in the same way these days, but I still get into similar situations where I'd prefer to simply avoid it somehow.

Whatever, I guess it's just a byproduct of being pimp. Small price to pay really.

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DLVs work but one gets tired of having to force low value just to get friendzone status - that's a sad situation.
Yeah, DLVs would potentially work, but... ouch.. my pride :P
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I find (mostly) talking about other girls, or how you find so-and-so celebrity of actress hot also helps as it shows disinterest and whilst you do this in an aloof dumb manner, they pick up on it well.
I really like that! I think you're onto something there, definitely a step in the right direction.

This might still get the 'hard to get' frame, probably much less then traditional freeze outs or whatever
Author:  Marc [ Mon Mar 22, 2010 1:07 am ]
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Actually this is a very real problem and I empathise with Oasis. It's an annoying problem too and one of my sticking points that I've been working on for about 3-4 months now is how to friendzone girls I don't want to attract....................I find (mostly) talking about other girls, or how you find so-and-so celebrity of actress hot also helps as it shows disinterest and whilst you do this in an aloof dumb manner, they pick up on it well.
Rafiel anyone who has been around hot attractive women for long will know that their life is no different. Just do what they do, be NICE but tone down the 'fun, teasing aspect' of the conv. You cant stop being yourself if yourself is attractive, why do that. Just do what a Hot Social Girl would normally do, send the guy to the friend's zone or cliberate the interaction.

You guys are saying that you dont have female friends, married women as friends, girlfriends of good buddies around you are attracted to you but are just friends !! - Unless you do anything to seduce you are good.
Author:  Slywalker [ Tue Mar 23, 2010 9:00 am ]
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In any NLP book you will learn many techniques about how to better connect with someone by leveling with them, this can be reversed to "disconnect" from them.
By doing things like using opposite body language compared to them etc, look in to it!
it works, trust me!
Author:  repute Venal [ Tue Mar 23, 2010 10:32 am ]
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hmm even i have found i run into this problem but the best solution i believe is that do not ever kino! and add mate all the time for example 'your a really good friend thanks'

but always remember that if they are decent but taken there is no harm in them being in pre selection, i guess make the most of a situation
Author:  NaturalPUA [ Tue Mar 23, 2010 11:56 am ]
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I didn't really want to reply to this thrad but could not resist. Guys, I pretty much "Flirt" with every women I meet. I leave about 85% of them in the LJBF zone but I use them as pivots and I am actually friends with a good couple.

I have been working on this 1 girl for about 2 weeks now and could not get her to hook and become invested (Have to note that I have been sarging at a new venue, this is where I met her). I was sarging on Sunday night at my local pub where I have great social proof. I know almost every girl, the owner, manager and all the guys as well. As I walked in the above mentioned girl was in my domain.

I walked in and hugged every girl in the place, greeted all the managers and the guys. I ignored her but played with all my pivots, the ugs and friends's sisters and all the girls mentioned in the original post. And guess what... She used a line on me... Her exact words, "Tonight's word is legs, lets go to yours and spread the word".

This was a shit test but we did spread the word later that night
Author:  repute Venal [ Tue Mar 23, 2010 1:50 pm ]
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ahahah that made me laugh but yeh thats fair good and i know what u mean about the venue like when i get the dj to play requests girls swamp me but i tease them anyway back to the topic u helped to prove my earlier statement make the best of them girls u dont like, i dont mean use them for that soul purpose become friends meet her friends expand get pre selection up ect all that stuff

p.s i remember one girl opened me with playing with my hair and when i turned back to see who it was she kissed me was a good night she was an 8/10 surprised me alot gotta love women with game ahahaha
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