I was suspecting some feedback on this method lol
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| Author: | MickCoffee [ Thu Mar 11, 2010 12:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | AFCAdam's method of attraction broken down. |
(C-R)+Q+SE = A Break this method down into 3 steps: (C-R) +Q +SE ----------------------- (C-R) this step is really important because it influences whether or not you will get the "Lets just be friends" response or the "you're just a player.." response which the deuce we do not want. How do we influence the LJBF response? Most of you should know that it's done by creating too much comfort with the target. How do we influence the "player!" response? By breaking too much rapport. So in brief, we want to keep both points near neutral by using a mixture of both building comfort and breaking rapport. 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 10 on the left = too much comfort (LJBF) 10 on the right = too much rapport breaking (Playa playa!) In this scale, if we have realised that we have created too much comfort with the target, lets say we are on the 7 comfort stage. We would want to take that value closer to neutral by breaking rapport. This can be done by flirtatious comversation, slapping her or her friends asses, compliance tests, trust tests, anything that can bring you physically closer to the target. On the contrary, if you have been slapping her friends and her ass too much then put the hands in the pockets and generate a genuine flowing conversation with the target to build comfort. Bringing the high rapport breaking value to neutral. -------------------------------- +Q Qualifying I = Investment Int = Intensity 1 >Q = Question =>I >Q = int(self qualification) = >I Q = >int (target qualification) = >I Qualification will rise through the process of investment, to form any attraction with the target we must prove to the target that we are someone they should invest their time and conversation in. We do this by the 3 equations above. Questions - By asking the target opened situational questions subjected to you both it will open a conversation that she can invest her time in, if she's interested in it of course. Self qualification -Currently we live in a society where if we do something we usually get something else in return. By showing a high amount of self-qualification we are generating a reaction in the target to make her equivalently qualify on her behalf. If the target is attempting to qualify then we can assume that she is interested in us. SE - Sexual Escalation Basically this can be done through any form of kino and is essential to creating attraction. The reason this is done is so we can make her comfortable being touched and vice versa. All of these put together will form a mutual attraction between you and the target. All credit goes to AFCAdam. Happy Gaming:twisted: AFCCoffee |
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| Author: | MickCoffee [ Thu Mar 11, 2010 6:12 pm ] |
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I was suspecting some feedback on this method lol Happy Gaming AFCCoffee |
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| Author: | casthenova [ Thu Mar 11, 2010 11:58 pm ] |
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I think this method is the shit, although to me it is complicated. I have never been one to think about comfort or rapport mathematically when talking to women. But I also haven't ever gone "sarging" or anything of the sorts. I believe that your idea behind this calibration is incredibly intelligent and is probably spot on. Where I differ in my own personal style is achieving SOLID inner game. The type of inner game that is the rare form of masculinity that only 5-10% of men in the world will ever dream of reaching. Intense mastery of sexual, spiritual and emotional desires and really just an overall mastery of one's self. For me, thinking about this crap just complicates the game so much that I tend to stray away from my confidence, although I think that if I were to start getting into the field more, this would be something I would love having around. I can understand totally where you are coming from, if you telegraph too much sexual interest and not enough comfort and geniune interest then you will come off like you just want sex or you are just a player and vice versa. My question for you is isn't this type of game straying away from the mentality that you just do what you want in the moment because you are congruent with your true self and are present in the moment? What I am getting at is like instead of me thinking hey I need to do something that is more comfort or hey I need to do something that is more rapport or hey its time to qualify or do something structured ruins the connection for me. I strive for a mindset that just me naked is worth the highest quality women because I have a drive and am in touch with my own masculinity so I don't need to THINK or PLAN what I'm doing. Recently I just have been working towards feeling that all the way down to my core, that I have self-worth and value no matter what I say do or accomplish. Just my genetic makeup is valuable. |
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| Author: | xfman [ Fri Mar 12, 2010 2:24 pm ] |
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Excellent post man! Some of AFC Adam's meta-game: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wU1-PoegBtk[/youtube] |
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| Author: | MickCoffee [ Sat Mar 13, 2010 1:39 am ] |
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Quote: My question for you is isn't this type of game straying away from the mentality that you just do what you want in the moment because you are congruent with your true self and are present in the moment?
Aw I see where you're coming from but this is not a step by step structure to get a K-Close or anything, this is just stating the formula on how attraction is psychologically made. Basically what AFCAdam is saying is that to build attraction you need (Comfort - Rapport) + Qualification and Sexual Escalation. There is no step by step guide everything is just mixed. There's no need to constantly think "better break rapport" he is just saying to do both equivalently. If you indulge in a conversation with a HB then just avoid too much rapport breaking or comfort building, once attraction is made (through the method) then go for the number or k-close using whatever line you like. What I am getting at is like instead of me thinking hey I need to do something that is more comfort or hey I need to do something that is more rapport or hey its time to qualify or do something structured ruins the connection for me. Happy Gaming AFCCoffee |
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